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This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by Nobody: 7:50pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
After careful observation I have come to realize that addiction is a malfunction of the mind. Not malfunction per say but I’ll call it a malfunction because it can be salvaged. Addiction comes as a result of sinning against your own body, Nature or the Creator of the universe makes you pay for it. It reduces your productivity and cages you. Your body is the master of your mind. You were programmed to think you are in control of your mind and your mind in control of your body. It’s all lies. Your body controls your mind in a way you will never understand. Here’s how sex addiction happens. I’ll make example with sex. Immediately you sin against your body through sex. Your body registers it as essentials because it made your body felt really good. Your body sends this signal to your brain to register it as essentials because it made both body and mind felt good. I believe this can be explained better with science. During the sexual intercourse, there’s a WHOLE science and biological stuff at play inside the body and mind that results to addiction but it’s beyond our understanding. Mind you, before your first sexual sin, your mind and body had no idea what sexual pleasure was. Few days, weeks later, the effects starts. your body on it’s own sends signal to your mind that it needs to be pleasured, your mind wanders in panic mode thinking of what to do and how to pleasure your body. You starts getting Hot, having wet dreams, looking for porn, masturbation and EVEN plan rape Your mind has no other choice than to pick out sex as the only form of pleasure that your body needs at the time because that is what the body told the mind to register as essentials to please it(body) and the body really enjoys it. This goes on and on and on and on. What is at play here is your body is a actually colonizing your mind, it’s now in control. Your body becomes an over pampered kid that throws tantrum easily and your mind has no choice but to succumb to the pressure and remind you of Sandra with big asx that lives next street. or it goes into Wikipedia mode searching for any available option relating to sex to calm this spoilt and over pampered kid called Body. Same thing happens to betting, drugs, smoking and womanizing. It is your body that is making you do all this. If you doubt it, I believe you have on your own vow, swear and curse yourself for an addiction but your body still takes you to that addiction even when your mind is not happy with it. In your mind, your keep cursing and swearing for yourself. But your mind actually led your body to sin because your mind is acting on the orders of your body. Your mind is gone, not completely gone but it’s going!!! It can be savaged. God said “do not sin”. Na so e dey for Bible He is not telling you not to sin, He is rather advising you not to because He knows you must sin, and He knows it’s not healthy for your body, mind and soul. Just the way papa dey advice pikin and pikin go still do bad. 1 Like |
Re: This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by spinna: 8:10pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Since you focused on sexual sin i would say the sexual urge andsexual pleasure are inbuilt from God .. thats what has made us grow from 2 to billions |
Re: This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by fati2001(m): 8:44pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
spinna: was built by him for pleasure and multiplying the universe in a holy (marriage) and expensive way, but now it's cheaper than you thought. no more respect for the media that brought into this world AND YOU ARE HERE JUSTIFYING FORNICATION AND ADULTERY! 1 Like
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Re: This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by heendrix(m): 9:08pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Everything you said is Right but you din tell us the way forward or out of it's cage |
Re: This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by Offpoint1: 9:08pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Writing DOPAMINE would have saved us all these epistle. Too many flaws in your write ups, but I won't bother countering them since your write up is religious view based. 2 Likes |
Re: This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by webhead: 9:15pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
Offpoint1:epistle indeed.
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Re: This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by spinna: 10:24pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
fati2001: No o .. i am saying being attracted to a woman does not mean that you are sexually addicted.. it means say hi.. get her no. and if you feel shes ok marry her. Our urges are God designed is all im saying |
Re: This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by Nobody: 1:03am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Offpoint1:if I write dopamine how many of you will understand it. Did you read where I said science has explanation for it? Una go dey do pass una sef. If I come here and write dopamine, you’ll say I didn’t say anything that’s it’s what you already know. Busy body. |
Re: This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by Offpoint1: 6:23am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Carchoice:Nobody get time for the epistle of Paul to Corinthians... Na jet age we dey. Even the one you wrote sef, you still didn't say anything. There are too many flaws in it. |
Re: This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by Nobody: 8:12am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Offpoint1:I didn’t say anything? Pick out the flaws and correct it don’t talk about her age when you dont contribute to the jet age. Also I believe you read it from start to finish to note the flaws in it. Seems you are jobless then. Jet age my foot |
Re: This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by Offpoint1: 8:49am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Carchoice: Don't flatter yourself, I read it to the end because I'm honestly speaking, I was on cow dungs. Now I'm regretting why I did read it |
Re: This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by Nobody: 11:42am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Offpoint1:lol. Beat yourself |
Re: This Is How Addiction Happens. My Experience!! by Nobody: 3:05pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
Carchoice:Don't bother about the person abusing u joor D post make sense .. |
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