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Poll: Who Sacrifices More?Mother: 83% (138 votes)Father: 16% (28 votes) This poll has ended |
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Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by spyder880(m): 6:28pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Ujujoan: Selfish? Who eats the best meats in the kitchen before serving the tired men chaff = women. Who wants you to take them shopping for expensive outfit and jewelery till you die broke = women. Who tries to pamper the kid still the poor little things start to detest their dads = women. Who wants you to take them on foreign trips so they can solidify their papers =women. What other definition of selfish do you want? |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by spyder880(m): 6:31pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Ujujoan: Selfish? Who eats the best meats in the kitchen before serving the tired men chaff = women. Who wants you to take them shopping for expensive outfit and jewelery till you die broke = women. Who tries to pamper the kid still the poor little things start to detest their dads = women. Who wants you to take them on foreign trips so they can solidify their papers =women. What other definition of selfish do you want? |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Nobody: 6:34pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Responsibility is a sacrifice one makes for his own good. In marriage its a different ball game entirely. the sacrifice is for someone else's benefit. One would expect you guys to know the difference. besides the last time I checked nobody is forcing anyone into anything |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by dayokanu(m): 6:41pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Ujujoan: Ujujoan: Do you see the contradictions? 1 Like |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by spyder880(m): 6:48pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Ujujoan: Ujujoan: There you go again, the ladies actually force their ways into mens lives by playing seductive games and exposing so much bare flesh that the helpless men take notice and walk into traps! Men need riot for a bill supporting banning of marriage. Except the lady will be submissive. |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Nobody: 6:52pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Obviously Dayo, I must have taken for granted the assumption that you can reason contextually. We are talking about sacrifice in a marriage afteral. One would thought you would at least put that into consideration. `one' is sooooo wrong! |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by dayokanu(m): 7:03pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
dayokanu: This was a question you sidestepped rather prefer to do this Ujujoan: Is that not typical? |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by armyofone(m): 7:06pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
dayo don't twist it ooo, i'm watching you fa OP, they both do but i think women sacrifice more. |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Nobody: 7:15pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Even if I wasn't typing from my fone which make it very difficult to respond, I would still ignore irrelevant questions. Are we talking about troublesome gfs here or a mans family? would you treat a troublesome gf the same way you'll treat your wife and the mother of ur kids. You wondered why oyinbo men abandon their wives and our husbands stay with us, I told u dat men will always choose wats best for dem and you are talking about troublesome gfs. Mcheeeew. |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Nobody: 7:16pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
without a doubt - women |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by OWOLAYEMO: 7:21pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
It is a no brainer-Mother,Women,Wife! If you found good one nah heaven soshe |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by armyofone(m): 7:21pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Ujujoan: aha!!! they just want the ''clap for us for staying for 20years'' God bless you African woman, who pass you? Nobody |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Nobody: 7:22pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Thanks oyb. it takes a real man to acknowledge his weakness. Take note Daya . . . (and dat mad man Harakiri). |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by dayokanu(m): 7:24pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Ujujoan: Point is Any human would rather part with some money than stay with a troublesome person whether family, spouse or friend Naija men still stand by in this unsavoury relationship as a sacrifice to the family and children to give them a home and rounded development even when its easier to just hop out of the home and move on like men of other cultures do |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Nobody: 7:24pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
DK, i thot the question is who sacrifices more? Clearly both parties make sacrifices but women generally make more in a marriage. |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Nobody: 7:26pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
dayokanu: Since when? They stay because it's in their interest to do so abeg. |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by dayokanu(m): 7:29pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
naijababe: Obciously the man sacrifices more. What does a woman sacrifice BTW? naijababe: And what interest would this be that the naija men derive and foreigners that walk away dont? armyofone: Are you still watching me? Ki zo ki rungomeni mana |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Dirac(m): 7:37pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Ujujoan:Yh rite!!! but does it take a real woman to acknoledge theirs, women would never agree they are wrong they would always want to win an arguement |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Tokotaya: 7:38pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
The woman, clearly. God bless them. Men have their own role of course. And also do sacrifice nearly as much as women. |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Nobody: 7:39pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
50/50. There should have been a "Both" option. |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by dayokanu(m): 7:46pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Dirac: Are you surprised in anyway? Either brandish the "Real man" tag or simply cuss you out when they are asked to make their points Check any thread, and lets know the first to either play the Realman/real woman card, Start referring to fathers/mothers or simply just abuse you |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Nobody: 7:58pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
dayokanu: While I conceed that this is not true in all relationships, i don't know many men that will tolerate emotional, mental and even physical abuse but alot of women do to keep the family unit together, most men will just abandon the mother ship and go set up a new nest. Even in Western nations, a lot of women give up successful careers once they start a family (that's a lot to give up) and if that's not sacrifice, i dont know what is? As i said i before, i don't believe that men do not sacrifice anything, women just generally sacrifice more IMO |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Nobody: 7:59pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Dayo if I 'cuss' you eh, your body go tell you na. I'm just being my usual blunt wself! |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by PhysicsMHD(m): 8:01pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Nigerian men don't "sacrifice" by sticking by their family instead of walking out when the woman frustrates and disrespects them. For a Nigerian father, it's really all about their kids, which they are obligated to provide for and help raise if they want to be able to show their face around their relatives, friends, etc, This is just something that's understood in most Nigerian cultures without it needing to be said. A Nigerian man sticking by his family has nothing to do with the woman. If there is no child in the relationship, the marriage will dissolve immediately after serious arguments/conflicts. I've seen it happen with Nigerians here in America and have no doubt the same obtains back in Nigeria. @ some posters in this thread, if you actually think any man has anything to gain from marriage other than steady sex and/or offspring, you are either utterly clueless about men or a delusional romantic. However, women (usually) sacrifice more by stunting their careers for marriage, in my opinion. |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by ollybosieb: 8:04pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
M.O.T.H.E.R IYA NI WURA PROUD TO BE ONE. |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Dirac(m): 8:09pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
PhysicsMHD:I dont call that a sacrifice, because getting married is most ladies desire, very few would consider a career instead of marriage. Ask most girls what their goals are, it's usually having a rich dude to come marry them off |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Dirac(m): 8:12pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Sacrifice is doing something with little benefit to yourself |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Nobody: 8:22pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Dirac: See, it's this kinda thinking that attracts only shallow and empty headed women to some men |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by harakiri(m): 8:23pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
PhysicsMHD: This is the part that always baffles me. How many women would choose their careers over raising THEIR OWN KIDS? This kind of talk would be strange to mothers decades ago but today (no thanks to feminism), a woman believes she is entitled to certain privileges because she gave birth TO HER OWN KIDS! Sometimes i wonder if people listen to themselves when they utter this kind of statements. Marriage is all about the interest of WOMEN! A man has little or NOTHING to gain from marriage. There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING marriage "offers" a man that he can't get WITHOUT the marriage. Who craves for commitment during a relationship? Women! Who pushes for marriage? Women! Who wants to have the big white wedding? Women! Who wants to have kids asap? Women! And yet after the man has succumbed to all this manipulation, he's still expected to be "grateful" to his woman for bearing HER OWN KIDS! Una dey listen to una selfs sometimes? |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by Theblessed(f): 8:26pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
[size=16pt]But hey, you Ms Questioner - from which planet are you coming from when you go about asking this kind of question. Do you need a microscope to find out which of the parents would go out of their ways for their children? THE NAME IS MOTHER - glad Mothers Day is upon us once again, to remind you of the answer that - mum is the word! Dads are ok, but they are more selfish with their own needs (e.g Business dealings, alcohol, chasing other women etc) to nurturing and make such sacrifices for their children. Go ask people all over the world and see what they'd tell you. You, yourself knows the answer so, don't ask! [/size] |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by harakiri(m): 8:33pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
Theblessed: Like you said, men are so "selfish" with their own needs that they spend all their time in BUSINESS DEALINGS (that put bread on the table,educated you,put clothes on your back and a roof over your head. . .ingrate ), ALCOHOL (the only consolation he has after a hard week's work but you would prefer he dies of stroke and worries than allow him a few hours to cool off) and CHASING OTHER WOMEN (when his wife has deprived him of sex so much that cobwebs are growing beneath his testicles). Women are so so so shallow minded that it makes me wonder if the "evolution machine" developed faults when creating females! ! ! |
Re: Who Makes The Most Sacrifice In The Home by nnaemmy(m): 8:46pm On Mar 31, 2011 |
MOTHERS are wonderful |
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