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Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by SweetCunt97(f): 7:14am On Jan 11, 2021 |
abimbola74:Yes she'll cry cos she's probably jobless with no means of sustenance and wouldn't wanna explain to the society how she lost her marriage. Lolzzz, you men think most women who cry and beg do so out of love? Lmfao. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by JourneytoEL(f): 7:16am On Jan 11, 2021 |
CrescentMoon:forgive your wife. most marriages have their ups and downs. The text indeed is damaging but don't forget you tortured her emotionally by avoiding your home. 3 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Nobody: 8:34am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Run go do DNA test sharp sharp 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by mosdii(m): 8:55am On Jan 11, 2021 |
From the comments, 99% of the F gender never cautioned or blamed the woman for sending such despicable text message. They were all urging you to forgive and forget but what if it was the other way around and you sent her this text message? Hell would have been let loosed and they will call you all sorts of unprintable names. It is called the sisterhood, they will always protect the hood. OP, it is clear that you were not her choice, she settled for you (pity) which she blatantly said without any remorse. She hurriedly reminds you of your disability because you are not her choice. She has no respect, like talkless of love for you. She hates you and wants to get out from the marriage but she's only considering the benefits she's receiving since she is not bringing anything to the table. Just this little provocation, she has said everything she has been harbouring in her mind for long. You can forgive anything but not disrespect on your disability that is not your fault. For her to tell you this plainly, that means she has more up her sleeves. Firstly, get confirmation that the children she birthed are yours. Secondly, give her that divorce she wants because you are clearly living with the devil. Thirdly, never take any advice from any F gender because they are not logical only emotional. Nigerian Girls Are Useless....All Of Them 64 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by WantsandMore: 9:04am On Jan 11, 2021 |
I used to have a gf who would always say devastating things just to get at me, lol. Omo, i japa. Figured I wasn't emotionally secured. Since this is a wife, will recommend therapy(counselling) don't feel scarred, else those words will stick,anyways forgive a woman's lie in advance, sit down & begin to instropect, do you know ur woman as much as you want to claim you do? Don't answer me. Just sth. To think about. 4 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by franklingud(m): 9:05am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Out of the abundance of the heart speaketh the mouth. You are the words you speak. Every single word that comes out of your mouth is totally YOU. That's why you are a human being. She meant every word that came out of her OP, my advice is that you should search your heart, if it says FORGIVE AND FORGET then go ahead ... But if it says DON'T FORGIVE then don't forgive her. 8 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by franklingud(m): 9:08am On Jan 11, 2021 |
JourneytoEL:This is the only advice you could give? 5 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by mosdii(m): 9:16am On Jan 11, 2021 |
franklingud: Thank you my brother. can you imagine the stupid advices given by the F gender and many sissies that calls themselves men? This is unforgivable, you cannot use someone disability to mock the person and equally say you married him out of pity. 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by NairalandSARS: 9:16am On Jan 11, 2021 |
sorry |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by ForG(m): 9:52am On Jan 11, 2021 |
CrescentMoon: You apparently don't realise it but she seeking peace with you after you told her to go ahead with the divorce is stronger than any scornful word she said. 1 Like |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by AfroKnight: 10:37am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Hmmm. This is how women use their own hands to destroy their marriages. Mocking your husband with his disability is LOW. People who don’t have quick temper often ruminate on insults received. You’d think they’ve let go because they didn’t react, but they actually spend time brooding on it. Mr Oga, don’t dwell too much on the insult so it won’t make you say or do something you would regret. Decide now. If you want to forgive her, do it totally and try to forget this. If you don’t want to forgive her, don’t pretend all is well. Tell her in plain terms. Just don’t brood on those words. Whatever you do, don’t lie to yourself. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Teleprompter(f): 10:44am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Maybe you gave her the impression that you need to be pitied. Those words are very strong. Try to find a balance in your marriage. Do not spoil her if you have been doing so. If she threatens divorce, don't argue with her. She must change her ways or leave. Many women are manipulative but men enable them 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by mutter(f): 10:45am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Women can say allot of things.. That is their own method of fighting back. 2 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Auladimeji(m): 11:48am On Jan 11, 2021 |
See how SIMPs and the useless ladies are telling him to forgive her.Punish her 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by galantjoe(m): 11:53am On Jan 11, 2021 |
It is better you divorce her at your own convenient time. She can't use divorce to threaten u and that she married you out of pity. 7 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by abimbola74(m): 12:22pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
SweetCunt97: |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Nobody: 1:26pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Divorce her asap 2 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Kondomatic(m): 1:48pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
This is one of the reasons I avoid people when I am angry because I don't want to say hurtful things that will hurt the person, things I will regret later, things I surely do not mean. I like you @op, we have something in common. It is also very difficult to get me angry so I understand you. Here's the truth bro. Your wife wants you, she meant none of the things she said. Your absence was driving her crazy. That's all. So don't let those careless words of hers trouble you, okay? 7 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Richy4(m): 2:04pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
If you have children, please do not stay for so long... They need their daddy. your presence means a lot in their lives... As for the SMS, I have nothing to say to it...But don't let anyone confuse u about the fact that she doesn't mean or know what she was talking about because She does... It's up to you to forgive... or u don't.... Insulting someone based on his/ or her disability in my opinion should be tagged unforgivable.. let alone someone that called herself a spouse..... But who am I to say otherwise...But u can give it a go by forgiving her..it was said that if there's no sin, there's no forgiveness.. 12 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Foodqueen(f): 2:32pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
My mind I'd telling me that, your wife will see this and come and defend herself. Besides. What's your disability |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Foodqueen: She doesn't use internet. She's educated, though. She logs in to Facebook once in a while. If she wants to do any other small things online, she relies on me. Even I keep all her passwords for her. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by DropsMic(m): 2:53pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
.. The words contained in that sms are cruel as fuk.. Especially the juju man part... If my wife sends me that kind message eh our marriage go end that day that day... Nothing in this world would make me take her back. 16 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Commonguy(m): 2:54pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Omo I love this topic but Nawa for this woman sha o my guy I like your ways jare just let her do as she please |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Obagreatdatoye(m): 2:54pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
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Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by 44Bulldog(m): 2:57pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Jokes apart.... She took it too far Nothing like she didn't mean it Any word said as a result of anger is basically what's been living inside you But overlook it @OP If you're confused.... carry out DNA test if u can afford it 2 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Aksnoopy: 2:58pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
GayPontiff:Lmao! Werey. 3 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Ok |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by DropsMic(m): 2:58pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
CrescentMoon: 9 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Digmygold: 2:58pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
We need to hear her own side of the story. She will havr some nasty things to say about you too. Stop painting yourself a saint. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by ghettochild4u(m): 2:58pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
CrescentMoon: My brother, no b wife u marry Ooo.. a wife,no matter the circumstances has the right to insult u based on ur disability.. I as a man... I can't take it n as an alpha male.. She must get the divorce she desire.make she go find superman out there .. who knows? She could be lucky. 8 Likes |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by moneyissweet(m): 2:59pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Forgive and forget. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by ImahGabi22(m): 3:00pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Oblongata: Words of Wisdom!! 1 Like |
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