chinchonglee:

Thank God u left her... I wonder how you guys cope with girls that aren't smart.
I'm not a food person sha plus am naturally a clean person, so i can easily clean my house or get someone to clean for me.

CalliDora1:
Thank God, mum did a good job on us in the domestic area and both parents ensured we had a good and sound education.

Imagine being made to cook at the age of 10 for the whole house.. mum made sure of that and we still lived the best aje butter life ever. Now, everyone is a pro in everything.

Oga, loud it!

Chii59:
That goes to say that the average Nigerian man wants a MAID, not a wife in the sense of the word, PARTNERSHIP, but a subservient, docile, baby maker, who's only good for the kitchen and the other room, but never an equal who's capable of making and taking decisions in the homestead when and where necessary.
What you want is what you get.
Cool.

Chii59:
That goes to say that the average Nigerian man wants a MAID, not a wife in the sense of the word, PARTNERSHIP, but a subservient, docile, baby maker, who's only good for the kitchen and the other room, but never an equal who's capable of making and taking decisions in the homestead when and where necessary.
What you want is what you get.
Cool.

Raph82:
And u think it's that easy? Just work on character like that? My brother don't be fooled please. There are many among these maids who are graduates, smart and submissive. What a man needs is housewife material that is matured in character, not all these mummy's pet that will be stockpiling dirty pants in one corner of the room.

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

Gerrard59:
This article has been recycled countless times on the FP. Don't you guys get tired?

BTW, like in most Nigerian written articles, no surveys or peer-reviewed studies on how they came about the outcome. Just vibes, cobwebs and coconut in their heads.

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

Slackerpenguin2:
It is a good article...and I liked it

The problem is, many Nigerian men will use this article to point out their wives and girlfiriends weaknesses...and refuse to correct their own.

bareal:


Tonto Dike is also smart by the way

chinchonglee:
Knowing how to cook and clean to me can never be a criteria to marry a girl.
What turns me on is smartness!

Iamsane:


Smartness dey sweet and e go belleful you.

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

Amumaigwe:


You seem to be in a very severe pain over this educative post from a fellow woman who is obviously older, more experienced and mature than you. Are you guilty of the scenario she painted? Then make necessary corrections and save yourself the inevitable consequences she expressed rather than going all over the thread boxing the air.

phineas:


No these ones do not represent the average Nigerian man.Only the jobless ones with a lot of free time on their hands.No succesfull man underestimates the role of a thinking ,smart ,connected or spiritual helpmate to weather the storms of life with them.

Underachieving men with challenges on their perception of self,either in wealth or size cant deal with such partners those are the type that marry a yes yes woman or maid.They are not the average Nigerian man just a small vocal minority.You know what they say about empty barrels

Gerrard59:


Yes, because there are several questions which it didn't answer. What economic stratum are these men who married maids? How many men have they interviewed factoring income levels, location, age etc., before they came to the headline? What are the implications of a certain strata of men getting married to maids? These mothers weren't asked if they would accept these kinds of men as in-laws. And a whole lot more. Maybe if the media house cited a study that answers at least one of such questions, it will make the article more logical and insightful.

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

Ladyhippolyta88:
Mtcheww.

Old fabricated story

Chii59:
That goes to say that the average Nigerian man wants a MAID, not a wife in the sense of the word, PARTNERSHIP, but a subservient, docile, baby maker, who's only good for the kitchen and the other room, but never an equal who's capable of making and taking decisions in the homestead when and where necessary.
What you want is what you get.
Cool.

Chii59:
That goes to say that the average Nigerian man wants a MAID, not a wife in the sense of the word, PARTNERSHIP, but a subservient, docile, baby maker, who's only good for the kitchen and the other room, but never an equal who's capable of making and taking decisions in the homestead when and where necessary.
What you want is what you get.
Cool.

Chii59:

Oh dear. Poor thing, I see you sweating up and down this post. Seems you're invincible. No one cares about the noise you make.
There, there, sorry for the stress. You are talking to the wrong generation. Do you need a megaphone?

Princewell2012:


One man's meat is another man's poison.
My younger brother is doing well in his business, but his wife cooks rubbish. He only eat a good food when ever he comes to my house. He is not happy about it. Yet the woman is educated.

Jeffy1206:
it is not but marry one that is very lazy and can't cook, then invite your friends to the house for the weekend, ask her to cook for them... then on boiz outings, come back and tell us how you feel later after they must have let you know how you fukup

Mrpojj:


How many women dey bring money to the house?

Incognito403:

Obviously, you're a naive teenager.

Which woman brings money home? No matter how much a woman has, that mentality of "Your money is our money but my money is my money" won't leave them.

They won't let the world hear anything when they bear any small financial responsibility in the house.

Their money is generally useless. They should return to the house. Any job any woman will take should never prevent her primary responsibility in the home. Afterall, the job is only contributing to her personal account, it's not contributing to the development of the family.

Minjim:

I need two daughters O! And Gods willing two sons

teacherbim:

Do you think is all about endowed? Wise men don't give a shit about that