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Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by hashtagged(m): 8:28am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Godada: Instead of wasting money and time he should just take a young side chick that way he won't have to worry about her. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by fijinjesu92792: 8:29am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Did she become too churchy and 'spirikoko'.?This can be a factor too |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Karlifate: 8:54am On Jan 20, 2021 |
hashtagged:And he won't expend "money" & "time" on the side chick? 16 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by hashtagged(m): 9:01am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Karlifate: It's same it's better to spend on a new product than to waste money trying to revive an expired good 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Misterone: 9:02am On Jan 20, 2021 |
setobaba:mr OP, your wife does not have any issues. you are the one with issues. you have started the game of comparison. you are now comparing your wife with some slay Queen in your minds eye. you don dey look one girl yansh and booby take am dey compare your wife own. at the end of the day, she is who she is. enjoy her for who she is not what you want her to be. 13 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by jumper524(m): 9:05am On Jan 20, 2021 |
setobaba:I know you love your wife hence the complain.. stop giving her attention, her head suppose reset on in own.. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by jumper524(m): 9:06am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Misterone:he didn't marry her that way. he married her for who she was which includes always in line with the latest fashion trend. if she's changing them she's the problem and not him.. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by ikennamadu1(m): 9:36am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Womanizer:oga you they yarn dust.... have you not seen women married for 15 years looking like 25 years old.. after you go say you be womanizer 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Winneygirl(f): 9:40am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Do you take her on dates? After 2 kids, If you guys don't do any adventurous things, she will only get clothes that are comfortable for staying home. Set up a routine where you guys go out. Ask her to list different restaurants she will like to visit, or places you guys could go. It doesn't have to be expensive. Just mildly fancy. Tell her you want to make it a date. You both dress up. Look and smell good. No kids. You can do it twice monthly, or once a month. Depends on what you guys want. It's a gradual process, but you both can work together to bring back the spark. 13 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Nobody: 9:54am On Jan 20, 2021 |
this ur reasoning will run her into the hand of another man or let me say u are gradually finding a fuckmate for ur wife,when u encourage her to dress like those slut, 5 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Misterone: 12:17pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
jumper524:from the OP mouth, he said his wife is getting old. na who no go old? ok! so you want his wife to compete with these small small girl on bum shorts and spaghetti tops! ah! haba! make una fear God. ah! a 35year old married mother to dress skimpishly. na wa o 7 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
setobaba:This is the problem. Stop comparing her to others. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by frozen70(f): 12:55pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
setobaba: 11 yrs in a life of a woman with child bearing is enough to change her personal look if only she is subjected to all kind of home front wahala If you think you guys are OK, then you get it wrong check out the following questions Do you have children that makes noise and makes her scream over them Does she works, as in does she gets up as early as a banker, prepare the children for school and then prepare their meal and prepare herself for work Does she goes to market after work or weekends, then come back and goes to kitchen to prepare meals and at night you still make advances at her and she still gives in to your requests and still wakes up the next day to repeat the same cycle Does she contribute financially to the home affairs and other areas After reading the above questions, if she does all this that's exactly what is weighing her and making her look older than her age The above duties can be shared let her just be doing the bed stuff while you do the rest, you will also looks exhausted and stressed Seat her down let her share the house chores and let's see if things will change for her to appear good looking Lastly, every month take her for shopping at leat three outfits a month including night wears let's see if she will not look hot since you like them looking hot 21 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by AuroraB(f): 2:57pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Are you supposed to notice that if you were in love with her ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
setobaba: She's just like that. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by englois: 8:18pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
The OP is funny sha! Though I'm not excusing your wife but can you describe yourself too? Note: No offense intended (1) Are you bald or not? You no say some baldness eh! Make I no talk my mind. We have front baldness, middle baldness, center-parting baldness, etc (2). Do you have Potbelly or not? What's the size? 3-months pregnancy, 6-months or just a little. Hope it's not pot calling the kettle black sha. We women tend to lose some confidence in our body after childbirth. Is it the slightly saggy breast, belly fat, etc. I have a friend that after giving birth, her shoe size changed to bigger. First thing to combat this is to communicate. The first thing you'll do is to appreciate her very well. Thank her for birthing your kids, for taking care of your kids, the home and your humble sef. Thank her very well. She may even become emotional when you thank her from your heart. Then, gently proceed by asking her that "Does she like herself the way she is presently or lemme rephrase "If you are to change anything about yourself, what will it be? Don't be surprised when she opens up to you that she want to do this or that. You can then take it up from there. Maybe help her with gym registration, taking her on a date etc. But OP, just thinking aloud. Hope you've not body shamed her before. That thing does a lot of damage on a woman's self esteem and makes it difficult to change. Just my view though. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by GeneralPula: 10:09pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
People self. Nothing wey dem no fit ask.. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Akpuobi1: 10:11pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
I feel normal |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by TrueChristians: 10:12pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
God is still saying something in your life and never give up check my signature God bless you |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Lol.. You didn't really state in what ways shes looking old. Is it the weight, facially or how she dresses? Anyways, which ever it is, just learn to accept her that way knowing it's not her fault but nature and all she has had to go through in your house through child bearing and taking up responsibilities for 11yrs. Also stop looking at other women because thats the major cause of comparison here and it's not fair on her. For all you know, you too may not be looking as good and attractive as when you just met but she has never complained. Has she? Be contented with what you have. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Neddstark: 10:15pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Ask Peter Psquare. Guy is still handsome and 40 years old while his wife is menopausal. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Oluwaleinad14(m): 10:15pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
How else will I feel than looking out for a young and active lady outside |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by iamJ(m): 10:15pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
You never start, her mates dey single U still get 50 years to go 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by TheRedpillguy: 10:17pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Find a younger Woman. Take Feminists advice. She is not yours and she can decide to do whatever she likes. I say why not. Do the same. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Steve28: 10:17pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Kindly spend your money on her and she will always look the sweet sixteen you are looking for rather than coming on social media to display your stinginess towards her. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by valentineuwakwe(m): 10:18pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Nothing much, I will even LOVE her the more....have not heard about the wine adage; The older the wine, the better the taste! 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Gabbriell: 10:19pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Ogbeni appreciate your wife the way she has become. If you don't want her to gain weight don't impregnate her. The more kids she bears for you the more her damsel shape get distorted. Everything fades...just be happy with what both of you have accomplished. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by bukatyne(f): 10:20pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
TheRedpillguy: ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by cococandy(f): 10:20pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
But how do you know she’s not going through any stress? |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Splitmind: 10:21pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
This my friends is what we call "the wall". Unfortunately aside from drastic life changes you'll just have deal with it. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
ThundrCork: Sense is what you lack 7 Likes |
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