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Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by DeHumbleTboy: 3:18am On Jan 21, 2021 |
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Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by tiredoflife(m): 3:38am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Maybe she lied about her age 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by BigCowH0rn: 4:32am On Jan 21, 2021 |
luminouz: Guy, calm the fuvk down. The wify don forget how to be a babe. She needs a refreshment of the memory. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by pweetylass(f): 4:34am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Holy ghost fire,every siege of olddy olddy die by fire ijn. Aduraaaaaaaaa! |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by omoharry(f): 4:35am On Jan 21, 2021 |
TheWalkingMind:some slim women become fatter than some plum ladies ..haven't notice yourself ?I have seen a lot .Not everyone is lucky with slim figures..appreciate what you have . |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Nobody: 4:44am On Jan 21, 2021 |
See person husband dey here dey spill trash untop marriage matter wey him suppose discuss with the wife alone and they solve the matter together |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Filmdirect: 5:02am On Jan 21, 2021 |
setobaba: How are you treating her? I have realized that in relationships two people might be looking at the same situation differently...and most times men are clueless about how women feel. Your wife might be emotionally stressed and here you are thinking she should be happy/not stressed because there is food in the house. That's because as a man that's what you think is important. If she was a fashionable youthful woman before, the problem lies with your home. I bet you this woman is stressed, overworked with children, and not really happy that's why she neglecting herself. Most Nigerian men don't date their wives, they don't help at home, they aren't romantic, and they aren't friends with their wives. They leave that for girlfriends or side chicks. All the beautiful clothes, body ointments, perfumes, etc goes to some woman outside. The best of what they have goes outside, but they think the best is the house, kids, and food they provide the wife. Many do not really know their wives. 35 is very young and most women want to look beautiful. Talk to your wife...talk to yourself. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by TheWalkingMind: 6:06am On Jan 21, 2021 |
omoharry:You're right. But it's different when you have eyes for them ![]() |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by thRivE1807(m): 6:28am On Jan 21, 2021 |
[/color][color=#006600] jchioma: You've said it all |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Teezie(f): 6:40am On Jan 21, 2021 |
You presumed she's comfortable,what if she is not. Talk to her. I am not married but I feel communication is key. She might be going through something she doesn't talk about. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Neddstark: 6:43am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Amiteye: Guy, just talk am say you dey straff woman wey senior you while your papa Ned Nwoko dey straff teenage babes. You are just forcing yourself to enjoy your cross. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Neddstark: 6:45am On Jan 21, 2021 |
We4all: It seems all the ladies in their twenties around you both related and unrelated are either overwhelmingly ugly or shapeless. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Ofon0909(f): 7:08am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Question no.1: How old are your 2 children Question no.2: Does your wife have someone assisting her with the household chores? It's enough to look old if you don't have a maid to assist you. I'm not of the opinion of my husband will assist. Even at that, u still do 90% of the chores. When u employ a maid, he / she can clean the house in the morning while you take ur bath; he/she prepares the ingredients for breakfast while you start to do ur makeup, search for what you will wear to work, gist with your husband while he's still on bed; he/she goes to prepare the children for school while you enter the kitchen and do the cooking. When food is ready, the children must have gotten ready for breakfast, you as a woman is ready for work too, husband man must have taken his bath while food was on fire and viola, everyone is ready for breakfast. After eating, everyone leaves the house without being stressed. The maid clears the dishes, cleans the house, prepares for lunch which most times is swallow and soup dey freezer already. The maid rest while everyone is away and later prepares ingredients for dinner. Wifey comes home after work and cooks dinner without stress. Now how will ur wife be stressed from this typical scenario. Don't come and tell me my mother catered for 6 children singlehandedly, why can't she do same. My brother, two women coming from different backgrounds and different upbringing can't be same. Employ a maid. If you have the resources, you can employ more than one and you will see your wife miraculously turning young and sexy overnight. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Impostor: 7:10am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Na wa for NL comments, anyway op, most men that marries women 2 years younger than them always face this problem. Women tend to look older than their men so its always advisable to have 5 - 9 years age difference between you. Now that you are in this situation, it is not too late something can still be done by passing comments jokingly - e.g na wa o see as you de dress like old woman, abeg go wear something better etc. I wont advise you sit her down to talk about this because women ALWAYS misinterpret messages. She will conclude that you no longer wants her and you will make her feel so bad. Make comments and joke about it but the message will be passed. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by ijayebonyi(f): 7:33am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Womanizer:Thank you |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by tranxo(m): 7:33am On Jan 21, 2021 |
setobaba:Sounds like a marriage without HEALTHY communication. You think just because the family is well fed and comfortable, she isn't going through stress? Open up to her GENUINELY and with LOTS of empathy about your concerns and observations, WITHOUT the INSENSITIVE attitude you exhibited in your post here, and you would be shocked with the inner battles she may be fighting all ALONE. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by DroolingOnU(f): 7:39am On Jan 21, 2021 |
setobaba: 11 year is a long time to be married man CONGRATULATIONS. Please please don't listen to half the things this people are telling you. Raising Children and taking care of a home is not easy at all. It's very easy to be overwhelmed and lose yourself. Dont❗Compare your wife to other women especially to her face it's an extremely toxic behavior and its going to make her feel like she'll never be enough for you Don't ❗Tell her she isn't dressing properly or tell her she is looking older too or less beautiful you'll make her very insecure Do ✅ Take out a full day to spend with her, drive her down to get her hair and nails done, buy her perfumes (looking good and smelling good has a way of boosting a womans confidence). You can have a day just the 2 of you , get someone to take care of the children for that day . Just the 2 of you, take her on a date and when she's less defensive, talk to her . Abeg dont tell her she us looking old and unkempt. Instead tell it from a place of love, you can say See that the stress of running a house and taking care of the kids is telling on her( which is what is happening). Tell her to take it easy and take care of herself more. And please a good skin needs maintenance , get her good skincare products. I can link you up with all the things listed above if its neccessary |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Dinieoj(f): 7:55am On Jan 21, 2021 |
hashtagged:So the wife is now an expired goods, I believe you have a mother even if you're not ripe for marriage, this trend isn't for kids. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Abagworo(m): 8:07am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Maybe she falsified her age. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by luminouz(m): 8:08am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Winneygirl: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() E pain you die ![]() |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by cassyrooy(m): 8:10am On Jan 21, 2021 |
setobaba:Her priorities has changed, she's not drawn to social environment like when she was younger, stop making it a problem (before you justify your cheating on her with it), you're suppose to age together, I wonder why you're in denial of the apparent fact of life. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by digitalcare: 8:13am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Hmmmm,My brother woman market nah black market ooo where a lady of 45years will say she's 23years and behaving like 18. It's after marriage that you will see wen! Though not all..... For this one ,I dey suspect Black market. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by tomiwa1989(m): 8:14am On Jan 21, 2021 |
If she began day slay u go day complain
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Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by zakkxx: 8:27am On Jan 21, 2021 |
that is the problem of marrying a slay Queen. marry a regular girl with good character, they no they bleach like slay queen, them de get normal sent. but slay queen go put 50k perfume and when she want sleep she go baff and no perfume by that time you will be face with sticking bleaching body. be warn after all na you givam belle so she go fat na. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by MrJibana: 8:28am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Brotherly, this your situation is the simplest of marital problems. What you simply have to do is, all those sweet/dope/sexy cloth,shoes,pearls and all jewelries you like or admire on other women when you see those in the shop,mall or boutique simply buy them for your wife and I bet you she'll be happy for the gifts and gladly rock em for you. plz do not nag her about her dress sense oo...Just purchase those cloth as gift and at moments you want her to wear em simple put it as a suggestion "honey, that red dress will be nice for this occasion don't you think" ... It's that simple. setobaba: |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by AdaAwka1: 8:33am On Jan 21, 2021 |
setobaba: So you married her cos of her dress and fashion sense not cos you love her. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Buffalo2(m): 8:38am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Godada:Somebody like that will not still change till she sees the husband carrying a side chick. I know their kind. Even if he discusses it with her, she will still accuse him of carrying ladies |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by LibrarianD: 8:39am On Jan 21, 2021 |
setobaba: Getting her a help to reduce the workload on her is one way of solving the problem. Another way is to ensure that the children spend part of their holidays with their grandparents.This will leave her with more time to take care of herself. If she's the the one doing all the house chores and at the same time working, please find a way of intervening to reduce her stress. Then you can have the conversation about how you would want her to look more beautiful... Please note that she cannot be the same again again after having children, you can help her to be the woman you want... |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by We4all: 8:40am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Neddstark: Yes they are because they take after those around you. Reason I ditched them all and went after the 'Lola looking type'. You should do the same. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Amopeekun(f): 8:53am On Jan 21, 2021 |
God bless you for me fa ![]() Op, in a nut shell, make her feel YOUNG abeg, you are the husband. God help you. Originalsly: |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by AloneTK: 9:14am On Jan 21, 2021 |
setobaba: Do either of these two things: You both talk to a counsellor or Sit her down and have a chat with her.... PRIVATELY!. Coming to a forum like this won't help. My opinion. |
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