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Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by englishmart(m): 7:55pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
marriages don't last these days like it did during the era of our grandparents. What are we not doing right? 1 Like |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
The men have become very lazy,weak, evil,and reckless, that's the reason 3 Likes |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Sonnobax15(m): 8:11pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
![]() Back in the days,our grandparents especially our grandmothers were responsible....There was nothing like feminism or slay mamas as we,the men of this present day generation are suffering from today.... Everything was natural...no frying of meals and bursting of foundations in women's face in the name of applying make ups ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by falcon01: 8:17pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Back then they where oppressed and Believe there's a reason for their suffering. But Now ladies are enlighten and don't compromise on their happiness, They dont settle for less! 4 Likes |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by stupidmod2: 8:21pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Warrgidanairala:coming from someone whose profile is filled with content about penis 1 Like |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
stupidmod2:Anything wrong with that 2 Likes |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by stupidmod2: 8:40pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Warrgidanairala:means u are in no position to complain |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Nazgul: 9:07pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
englishmart:Indiscriminate sex otherwise known as sex before marriage is the cause. When a girl has tasted between 5 to 30 dícks and even above that before getting married, how do you expect her to remain faithful to her husband? It obviously wouldn't be possible cos her trailer load of EXs would keep bugging her for a quickie not minding that she's married. So cheating will most likely begin less than a week after her wedding. Most especially when they begin to play the generous role by crediting her account unnecessarily. Look at the issue of honeymoon. The idea was aimed at making first time sex for virgins girls who get married a memorable experience. But today how many girls even marry as virgins? Many guys don't even bother about honeymoon anymore these days cos most girls vagina has swallowed countless sizes and shapes of dícks, so what's there for the husbands to enjoy on the honeymoon night. He'll just be sweating all night trying to satisfy one over slacked pússy hoe. Believe me it's not worth it. This is the reason why marriages doesn't last. If parents and religious leaders can impact morality on children of nowadays, things would change positively in marriages of the next generation. But until then, married in this our present generation is annoyingly overated. 9 Likes |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Nobody: 10:11pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Nazgul: Honey moon wasn't just meant for a virgin girl But for both man and woman to experience their first sexual experince together as husband and wife. That's the true meaning of honeymoon. Any other thing is just people's way of making themselves feel better cause they had sex before marriage 3 Likes |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Nazgul: 10:17pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Elixirz:Google the origin of honeymoon. It started as far back as the 15th century where grooms take their brides which most of the times are virgins far away after their wedding to consumate it. The aim was to give your new bride her first sexual experience in a memorable way. Honeymoon didn't start in our generation. Just that our generation has corrupted it, and made it pointless. 1 Like |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Nobody: 10:18pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Nazgul: I know but what I meant is that it wasn't only meant for the brides to be virgin's but for the men too. It just got "corrupted " over time. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Magnoliaa(f): 11:02pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Sighsss. Won tun de. |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Magnoliaa(f): 11:06pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Maybe y'all should just exploit the technological advancement of this age (that's if you aren't suspicious of such and are learned about how such stuff work), make a time machine, get in it and be transported back to the oh-so-flawless past and live your dream lives. No body gets disturbed again. And everything will be fine. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Magnoliaa(f): 11:08pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Nazgul: Indiscriminate sex otherwise known as sex before marriage is the cause. When a girl has tasted between 5 to 30 dícks and even above that before getting married, how do you expect her to remain faithful to her husband? It obviously wouldn't be possible cos her trailer load of EXs would keep bugging her for a quickie not minding that she's married. So cheating will most likely begin less than a week after her wedding. Most especially when they begin to play the generous role by crediting her account unnecessarily. Look at the issue of honeymoon. The idea was aimed at making first time sex for virgins girls who get married a memorable experience. But today how many girls even marry as virgins? Many guys don't even bother about honeymoon anymore these days cos most girls vagina has swallowed countless sizes and shapes of dícks, so what's there for the husbands to enjoy on the honeymoon night. He'll just be sweating all night trying to satisfy one over slacked pússy hoe. Believe me it's not worth it. This is the reason why marriages doesn't last. If parents and religious leaders can impact morality on children of nowadays, things would change positively in marriages of the next generation. But until then, married in this our present generation is annoyingly overated.[/s] Phew. 1 Like |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Nazgul: 11:14pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:The truth the say is so bitter and people hate listening to it. 2 Likes
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Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Magnoliaa(f): 11:16pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Nazgul: K. And I hope your reality and relationship will be one that doesn't fit into that truth pill you posted up there. |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Nazgul: 11:25pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:Lol @truth pill In reality I wouldn't marry a girl who I know has an undisputed record of hoeing. Cos I know that such marriage will end in premium tears. Decency is what sustains marriages, the decency to stick to your husband and build your home together from the scratch, the decency to sever all ties with ex lovers and focus on your husband regardless of his financial status, the decency to respect and support him morally, emotionally, financially...etc. once a girl lacks that, her home is gone. That's the truth and nothing but the truth. Sadly most girls lack such decency that's why marriages of today don't last. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Magnoliaa(f): 11:29pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Nazgul: no yawa. gudlok finding a decent girl, Nazi. 1 Like |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Nazgul: 11:34pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:Lol...thanks jare. You can remember me in prayers o. Rather than using spiritual whip to flog and injure me for my mom, you can channel that energy to intercessory prayers for me. I'll double your make-up kit for you once I begin to see the manifestations of your efforts. ![]() |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Liposure: 12:36am On Jan 24, 2021 |
Feminism and the likes has reduced the durability of marriage 1 Like |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Mandela27: 12:43am On Jan 24, 2021 |
Nazgul:Promiscuity have come to live in our world forever.learn to live with it,else u'd keep complaining and nobody gives a f u c k |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by adekola72559: 6:31am On Jan 24, 2021 |
Sighsss. Won tun de. |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by englishmart(m): 7:16am On Jan 24, 2021 |
Elixirz:Sexual experience they've been having together since Nursery-2 1 Like |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by tamdun: 7:32am On Jan 24, 2021 |
ON TOP ONE MAN HEAD: 1. NEPA don bring bill 2. Buy bread when u are coming 3. Buy Egg when u are coming 4. Gas don finish 5. Kerosine don finish 6a. Generator no gree start 6b. Buy fuel for generator when u are coming 7. Car don get flat tyre, e no gree start 8. School fees don show 9. DStv/GOtv etc don stop to dey show 10. Dem come ask for vigilante money 11. Month don end for Lesson teacher 12. Biscuit and Happy Hour nko? 13. Dem go begin report the children to u as u dey enter 14. If u never build, Landlord matter na madding 15. Dem go still shook hand for ur pocket pack d small change join.. 16. Tell u d pikin dey run temperature like say u be doctor... 17a. Buy them credit 17b. Buy them data 18. Not excluding Suya, Cat fish etc on some nights 19. Fridge, pressing iron, fan etc. go stop, another headache.. 20. Dem still wan go amusement park o on public holidays 21. How much be the salary sef.. I come go hospital for fever, doctor say I get High BP. How man no go get High BP.. On top all, you must not disappoint in the inner room.. dem go still give you instruction.. *"HONEY HARDER"* My brothers in the house, let's take it easy......our lives matters. With or without us, life will continue. GOD Bless and be with all Men! 5 Likes |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by QuinModah(f): 7:57am On Jan 24, 2021 |
englishmart:Exposure to internetst men have become irresponsible most women make thir money now besides this is 2021 marriage ain't a do or die |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Shortyyy(f): 9:34am On Jan 24, 2021 |
Nazgul: The fact that you ran to a mod to ban me even though you drew the first knife shows you're a damn sissy and a coward. Y'all come here screaming I'm the man, but low key y'all are just sissies. Call them again, I can always create another one. Fvcking chicken. But that's BTW, let's face the topic. It's Sunday and I'm free today. You always try to come off as intelligent, but you always end up being dumb. Making baseless and irrelevant points. So according to you, a woman's infidelity is the cause of the high rate of divorce in our society? My dear Nairalanders, it is just January, but we've already gotten the winner of the dumbest poster of the year. Now let me ask you, in a situation whereby a woman is facing domestic violence in her home, she should stay right? Let's not go to the cheating part, even though men are the head cheats in relationships and marriages. Shall we talk about the suppression, the emotional blackmail, the physical and emotional abuse women face in marriages? Let's not go there because this isn't about a particular gender as you've made it to be. If women decide to write down the list of misery they go through in marriages, you wouldn't post this trash here. Marriages don't last anymore because the world now is a global village. Though it is mostly women that advocate for divorce, this high rate of divorce y'all have been whining about is only new in Africa, because African Women have awakened up, unlike those days where they didn't have anyone to advocate for them, but now they do. It is no longer business as usual. You don't expect an educated woman to endure all your foolishness just because you're a man. She'll give you those papers and walk out. Women are now being enlightened on their rights. I'll advise African men to blend in, accept the fact that women can no longer be oppressed and controlled like the old days. They should stop whining and treat women as humans rather than just mere objects. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by englishmart(m): 10:02am On Jan 24, 2021 |
Shortyyy:How can you be so educated and enlightened yet dependent and want to be fully respected? 1 Like |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Leshurr(f): 10:14am On Jan 24, 2021 |
Shortyyy: If this is this case, women should be advocating for the total abolishment of marriage since it's so 'oppressive'. Rather, it is women who seek to be married the most. 5 Likes |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Leshurr(f): 10:23am On Jan 24, 2021 |
Nazgul: This is partly true. But men are to be blamed as well. Never in the history of time have we had such a sheer amount of weak, effeminate men. Men who have no control over their libido and will do anything just to get a taste of a woman's private part. You know a woman is married, yet you refuse to respect her relationship - there is no married woman that doesn't have thirsty men in her dms. Even using money to lure women all because of sex. You men need to get yourselves in order. Bring back masculinity & take back your self respect. 4 Likes |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Shortyyy(f): 11:17am On Jan 24, 2021 |
englishmart: I'm yet to see an Educated career woman depending on anyone. 1 Like |
Re: Marriages Don't Last These Days Like It Did During The Era Of Our Grandparents. by Shortyyy(f): 11:23am On Jan 24, 2021 |
Leshurr: It is not going to be easy to break that societal norm that makes women believe they're nothing without a man. A woman that's aging is constantly reminded that time isn't on her side, that menopause is coming, and the pressure from family to bring home a man. It is not going to be easy to break that. |
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