Shortyyy:



The fact that you ran to a mod to ban me even though you drew the first knife shows you're a damn sissy and a coward. Y'all come here screaming I'm the man, but low key y'all are just sissies. Call them again, I can always create another one. Fvcking chicken.

But that's BTW, let's face the topic. It's Sunday and I'm free today.

You always try to come off as intelligent, but you always end up being dumb. Making baseless and irrelevant points. So according to you, a woman's infidelity is the cause of the high rate of divorce in our society? My dear Nairalanders, it is just January, but we've already gotten the winner of the dumbest poster of the year.

Now let me ask you, in a situation whereby a woman is facing domestic violence in her home, she should stay right? Let's not go to the cheating part, even though men are the head cheats in relationships and marriages.

Shall we talk about the suppression, the emotional blackmail, the physical and emotional abuse women face in marriages? Let's not go there because this isn't about a particular gender as you've made it to be.

If women decide to write down the list of misery they go through in marriages, you wouldn't post this trash here.

Marriages don't last anymore because the world now is a global village. Though it is mostly women that advocate for divorce, this high rate of divorce y'all have been whining about is only new in Africa, because African Women have awakened up, unlike those days where they didn't have anyone to advocate for them, but now they do. It is no longer business as usual. You don't expect an educated woman to endure all your foolishness just because you're a man. She'll give you those papers and walk out.
Women are now being enlightened on their rights.

I'll advise African men to blend in, accept the fact that women can no longer be oppressed and controlled like the old days. They should stop whining and treat women as humans rather than just mere objects.

Leshurr:


If this is this case, women should be advocating for the total abolishment of marriage since it's so 'oppressive'.
Rather, it is women who seek to be married the most.

Nazgul:

Lol @truth pill

In reality I wouldn't marry a girl who I know has an undisputed record of hoeing. Cos I know that such marriage will end in premium tears.

Decency is what sustains marriages, the decency to stick to your husband and build your home together from the scratch, the decency to sever all ties with ex lovers and focus on your husband regardless of his financial status, the decency to respect and support him morally, emotionally, financially...etc.

once a girl lacks that, her home is gone. That's the truth and nothing but the truth.

Sadly most girls lack such decency that's why marriages of today don't last.

Leshurr:


This is partly true. But men are to be blamed as well.
Never in the history of time have we had such a sheer amount of weak, effeminate men.
Men who have no control over their libido and will do anything just to get a taste of a woman's private part. You know a woman is married, yet you refuse to respect her relationship - there is no married woman that doesn't have thirsty men in her dms. Even using money to lure women all because of sex.
You men need to get yourselves in order.
Bring back masculinity & take back your self respect.

Nazgul:

A man cannot sleep with a woman unless she allows him.

This is where decency comes into play. It's the responsibility of every woman to tell them no, and stand by her word.

When you're contented with what your parents or husband gives to you, it would be very difficult for a man to lure you to his bed with money. The reason men still disturb married women is because many women are confused and greedy.

When you're married, you're expected to sever all ties with ex lovers. But many ladies don't do this. They still want to cash out from their ex even in their husbands house. And as the saying goes that nothing is free even in free town, they will end up submitting their vagina in order for them to cash out successfully.

It's your responsibility to guard your body jealously, it's your responsibility to respect your relationship and marriage by turning down passes from men, it's your responsibility to respectfully decline cash gifts from your ex...when you greedily give into these, don't come out to blame men for acting like goats cos it takes two to tangle. Meaning you're as guilty as the man.

Leshurr:


So is it men's responsibility to guard their wandering pricks. So are you saying men are incapable of showing respect to their fellow men by refusing to lure their wives?

Shortyyy:


It is not going to be easy to break that societal norm that makes women believe they're nothing without a man. A woman that's aging is constantly reminded that time isn't on her side, that menopause is coming, and the pressure from family to bring home a man. It is not going to be easy to break that.

englishmart:
It's impossible to break

Shortyyy:


It is actually. Many women have gone past that, while some are still in the shadows.

englishmart:
Many women, but most are still on the shadow

Shortyyy:


Says who..?