Hello People, there is this matter i need sincere suggestions. What do u do if u find urself being drawn to a particular guy, especially, when u know he has feelings for u too and is trying to be a ''gentleman'' by not asking.

How do u make him know that u want him without telling him outrightly, especially if u want to act a ''gentlelady'' too.

Kiss him

Not sure dat's a good idea

give him a romantic hand shake.

Op, simple whenever you see him smile and say hi.

Although there are various ways to show a guy that you have interest. But I'd rather stay cool and wait for him rather than approach him or send him signals. If he really wants me, he'd put aside his gentleness and come for me.

Abbycrown:

Although there are various ways to show a guy that you have interest. But I'd rather stay cool and wait for him rather than approach him or send him signals. If he really wants me, he'd put aside his gentleness and come for me.

some guys gentleness has part 2, so will never come to u.

Being a gentleman by not 'toasting' you? I don't get it.

Love portion is an option, he'll still be asking you out even after you have said "Yes"

hasyak:

some guys gentleness has part 2, so will never come to u.

Then he should let the feeling die inside of him.

Send him d signals immediately

Like u said, we must av been friends but since he needs a GREEN light, & i also like him so much n waiting 4 him 2 ask

I'll start by looking into his eyeballs wen we're 2geda , consiously spill a drink on him & clean it sexyily, suggest we go see a movie(romantic), suggest cleaning his fingernails(among odas)

There r so many ways a lady sends d GREEN light 2 a guy witout saying it directly 2 him

Abbycrown:

Then he should let the feeling die inside of him.

funny you should say that, most of the women I ever dated made the first move.

If a girl happen to have interest in me and i too i will go to her and tel her how i feel.

@ hasyak, seriously, some wld rather let it die all in the name of bin principled

Arosa:

funny you should say that, most of the women I ever dated made the first move.

I only talked for myself.

I have been doing dat O, well not all of it

Always say hi & wave to him from afar.

d bigrod:


best responses.

smile and say hi and he will react.

Women being women will do the opposite.

d bigrod:


best responses.

smile and say hi and he will react.

What about when he is a friend already, n we've already done all the hello and hi

ok, like this person is a friend already, and u dont want 2 ruin the relationship by giving him signals first.

I think it depends on several factors.
Answer this questions to urself, then you can think of what is more appropriate. I personally do not see anything wrong in a lady telling a guy how she feels about him. My ex-gf asked me out and we dated for a while before she broke away on the grounds of her parents and religious differences.
You cant be sure he feels exactly the same way as you do. Therefore, he wont walk up to you for anything in this world if he doesnt feel anything for you. Talking about gentlemanism, it doesnt apply in issues like this. A guy may be shy to walk up to a girl and prays and even fast that something will bring you guys together so he could show some gestures and try to win your trust and confidence. Meanwhile, here are the questions that can determine how you approach this issue, Plz note that they are not decisive and are only a few out of a possible inexhaustive list,
1. How often do you see (sight)him?
2. Does anything bring you two together and how often?
3. Do  you meet on casual basis or on formal grounds?
4. How well do you talk (converse) with each other?
5. Do you have his contact (Phone Number/email address)? etc.

The questions could go on and on. But, as earlier suggested, try simple things like;
1. broad but not cheapish smiles,
2. Look accommodating each time he comes near you, that way, you give him assurance of "friendship".
3. If you answer yes to qstn 5 above, try a simple short and nice romantic text or email, This could work in two ways:,

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