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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by doxijaw: 12:07am On Feb 03, 2021 |
seanwilliam: That has a logical explanation, you just need time to think it through. On the other hand does masturbation put money in your hands I hate straw man arguments. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by jamiudinho(m): 12:09am On Feb 03, 2021 |
troublemakea:masturbation is bad but if u say masturbation stop u from achieving some many good things hope u are not fornicating also cos it kills good destiny fast den masturbation |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by berrystunn(m): 12:09am On Feb 03, 2021 |
troublemakea: young man Go and marry.. If you can't get married, then get your self into trouble... The feeling will not come near you till the trouble is over... Trouble back to back ... You will be too busy with issues to feel shiittt.. 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Potatochips(m): 12:11am On Feb 03, 2021 |
soulwin4life: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Tbvxl: 12:14am On Feb 03, 2021 |
I need to be healed please. I have been masturbating since 2009 ![]() |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by BLoomfrancs(m): 12:15am On Feb 03, 2021 |
soulwin4life: You go seek the face of God tire and nothing go happen. God is too busy with other pressing needs of this crazy world than to bother about the self-servicing of a loner. My guy masturbation is not bad! The problem you have is because you have got no sex mate and you have got no money. Get a girlfriend and get a life! Stop being a simp and go bang some pussy. Pussy was meant for your dick. What do you think prostitutes are meant for. Lemme tell you simp, no matter the amount of prayer in this world that anybody will pray that will eradicate prostitution. This is so because prostitution is very vital for humanity. Bleep what your pastor is telling you and go and start banging some sweet pussy man! Do you know that abstinence creates room for prostate cancer? Well, that's a story for another day. If you like do fasting and prayer for 40 days and 40 nights, nothing will stop you from feeling h orny. Jeez! Africans and stupid ass superstition. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Joystark(f): 12:16am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Sure... Blame under achievement on masturbation. Give a dog a bad name and hang it. Op moderation is key. Anything done in access does no good. I don't think masturbation should be blamed for things like this. If you had something keeping you very busy, it wouldn't have gotten to this. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by nedekid: 12:22am On Feb 03, 2021 |
GuyWise101:Bro 5m is 8k UK pounds and just a little over 10k usd. Well, na condition buhari put us. Even with 2k pounds you are a naira millionaire. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Goldenfinger: 12:22am On Feb 03, 2021 |
I just did it not too long and I feel very down, I feel God does not love me anymore. Lord have mercy upon me, maybe I will just lose my virginity and probably it may stop |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by FYsol: 12:22am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Dont give. Things will turn around soon. God dont keep record of sin once you have asked for forgiveness. You time around the corner. Keep on pushing on. Congratulations troublemakea: |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Haywiz1122: 12:26am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Nonsense Masturbating is normal, everyone touches their private part, it’s called sexual awareness but you’re a fool to turn it into a full time job Better go and find job to do, go to work 6am and get home 8pm at night, to cook and get busy and stressed out. then, you will tell us if you have time to “soapy” everyday again. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Thefxchanger: 12:29am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Arrant rubbish ... So u concluded masturbation was what was blocking ur success? Damn... Religion has enslaved so many in this country... U can as well say everyone masturbating are not succeeding and everyone who’s not masturbating are succeeding... right ? Since masturbation is what is blocking success 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Thattallgirl(f): 12:35am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Soulwin4life troublemakea and any other person that had or has an issue with addictions or depression or anything not of God, read the below. I didn't write it though: Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. Romans 8:1, NASB Today, I want to talk about how you can have a victorious thought life. My friend, the solution to temptations, sinful desires and thoughts is found in the very first verse of Romans 8: “Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (By the way, some Bible translations, like the New King James Version, go on to say “who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.” This was added by the later Bible translators. In the oldest manuscripts of the New Testament available today, the Greek simply states, “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”) You may experience temptations and sinful thoughts from time to time, but right in the midst of that temptation, you need to know this: There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. Notice that this verse is in the present tense. Right now, even if at this very moment, sinful thoughts are going through your mind, there is no condemnation because you are IN CHRIST JESUS! Are we then to sit still and entertain those sinful thoughts? Of course not. Sin cannot take root in a person who is full of the consciousness that he is righteous in Christ. You cannot stop birds from flying over your head, but you can certainly stop a bird from building a nest on your head. In the same way, you cannot stop temptations, sinful thoughts and desires from passing through your mind, but you can certainly stop yourself from acting on these temptations, sinful thoughts and desires. How? By confessing at the very moment of temptation that you are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus! The power of Jesus to overcome every temptation kicks in when you remain conscious that even at the point of temptation, Jesus is still with you and that you are righteous in Him apart from your works (Romans 4:6)! When you do that, you reject the condemnation for the temptation that you faced. You now have the power of Christ to rise above your temptation and to rest in your righteous identity in Christ apart from your works. That, beloved, is the overcoming life in Christ! 3 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by SarcasticMe(m): 12:39am On Feb 03, 2021 |
kalu61:Someone said he's discovered the cause of his problem, and by God's grace, he's conquered it, you're here stepping on his victory. If it was as easy as just taking a stroll, many people would be free today. You think it is about being in America or Europe? Go and hear stories of people who couldn't find meaning just because of masturbation. Masturbation knows no boundary, just like other addictions. Maybe there's something wrong with the African man, but it is not the testimony of this man. It is comments like yours that depicts more of that wrongness. "make female friends", you say. So that he'll leave one sin and fall into another? Abi, how's that a remedy? 2 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by SarcasticMe(m): 12:43am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Thefxchanger:What exactly is your problem with his testimony? The man said he discovered a pattern of backwardness in his life that's related to masturbation. Several others around the world have confessed same thing (including me). And by the grace of God, he's free from it. And with that freedom came clarity. I guess your problem is the fact that he gives credit to God? 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by simplesearch: 1:08am On Feb 03, 2021 |
kalu61: Let him alone, he knows exactly what went wrong with him and you sure don't want to intrude into another man's life or assume you know and understand his situation better than him. There are psychiatric patients abroad and those under the yoke of masturbation, drug addiction and unnatural sexual Attachments, who've never being able to walk away from it, some leading up to suicide. One may try to feign ignorance of some certain predicament at the initial stage and act as if they don't exist, but mark it when madness reaches the level of psychosis you sure can't continue to pretend as if nothing is happening when its visible you are out of range. OP have subjected himself to a ruinous culture that had him overwhelmed, which here is masturbation a somewhat an open invite for demonic infestation, manifestation and forceful posesssion. When people share their problem don't always speak in such a manner as to make them feel stupid, or that they really don't know what is going on with them. 3 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by PotatoSalad(m): 1:17am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Nigerians are filled with envy, they cheat, deceive one another, lie, do all sorts of things but those things are lesser sin than masturbation. Whenever it comes to masturbation, everyone's eyes do waaaa. Infact masturbation is being treated worse than fornication. (See how everyone is preparing for just a single day for weeks now. A day of immorality, but masturbation is a bigger sin) Anything you do in this life, always exercise moderation. Alcohol, food, medicine, sex, social media, hanging out, spending, video games, movies etc. Why are you surprised that your life is turned upside down when you spend all day online, you watch movies all day. You're not productive and you expect miracles to happen. It will never happen. Stop blaming masturbation for your misfortune and start doing things in moderation. You can't quit a habit in 3 weeks. When the withdrawal symptoms set in, you'll beat the living hell out of your meat, and still come here to complain 2 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by kalu61(m): 1:39am On Feb 03, 2021 |
simplesearch:My argument wasn't addiction doesn't exist or may lead to suicide. Addiction is addiction and needs will power and God's help to overcome it but masturbation caused his account went dry all the time and other spiritual backwardness are half trust. He may just be jobless or underpaid, low self esteem around girls, poor to have a girl friend or things are just not falling into place at the moment, he now things masturbation is the root cause. l totally disagree from that angle. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by esonna: 2:01am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Fornication is one that affect growth however too much of everything is bad. Are u a drinker, an eater, a sleeper, a sex addict, a workaholic etc all are bad. When u find the right balance in all will make ur life worth living. Masturbation is not the problem. You have not found the right balance. 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Dayoebe(m): 2:11am On Feb 03, 2021 |
I've seen many of this kind of story hitting FP. OP must have thought he has overcome it, but I give you a month. You are coming back to the fold! Masturbation is not the cause of your unfortunate life. Find something or someone else to blame |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Wolfeye: 2:24am On Feb 03, 2021 |
PotatoSalad: KNOWLEDGE here. It’s the style and tradition of Africans to always blame something or give something the responsibility. If it’s not God that will magically bless us, it will be someone’s juju that will prevent us from succeeding. People simply have no habit of responsibility. This is why the society will forever pray and things still get worse. Person go wake up for morning no get objective or goal begin blame another thing for distraction. smh. There is time for everything |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by calcal: 2:30am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Actually nothing bad in once in while masturbation. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Wolfeye: 2:30am On Feb 03, 2021 |
simplesearch: You just dey scatter talk. Africans have a culture of shifting responsibilities. Every damn time it’s one thing or another. If you were in a country where you don’t need to suffer that bad to earn a moderate salary you won’t be here crying that something is eating your life away. People in other countries have problems too but it’s easier to deal when things aren’t that hard. You earn unemployment cheques at the very least. You have 24 hours a day. Masturbate with 1 full hour you still have 23... so what are you doing with those?? Smh. Primitive. And na only men e dey affect which is funny. 9/10 girls/women masturbate REGULARLY I haven’t seen not one run out here talking about it’s ruining her life. People own freaking intimacy gadgets...do you know how addicted you have to be to masturbation that you invest in actual toys? Yet you will never hear this nonsense! Na always men wey no get focus go dey find Wetin to blame. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by doxijaw: 2:32am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Wolfeye: You're arguing with idiots. They will never understand 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Tannhauser(m): 3:36am On Feb 03, 2021 |
humilitypays: Great write up. However this level of reasoning is wayyyyy beyond the average Nigerian ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Nobody: 4:33am On Feb 03, 2021 |
kalu61: I've been waiting for someone with good sense.... Bless you brother 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Mairice125: 5:05am On Feb 03, 2021 |
justli:they have never been there but they act all very smart 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by mercyland93(m): 5:19am On Feb 03, 2021 |
GuyWise101: It's a bad habit if with 5m in ur account, u still masturbate. It even shows that u are stingy for u not to get a girlfriend despite ur fat account ( if u're not lying oooo). Mr bros, try to find a living soul to seldomly pour ur acamu.. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by femi4: 5:21am On Feb 03, 2021 |
HopeVictor:Nonsense I was none. Masturbation is addictive, why start what you cannot stop There are many good addictions out there that youth can channel their energy into |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by nica95(f): 6:06am On Feb 03, 2021 |
[quote author=Goldenfinger post=98686464]I just did it not too long and I feel very down, I feel God does not love me anymore. Lord have mercy upon me, maybe I will just lose my virginity and probably it may stop[/quote Having sex wont cure masturbation so you better Keep your virginity.Stay focused,pray frequently, get yourself & mind engaged with positive activity. when alone read a book,play an online intellectual game like loop or chess or watch an enlightening documentary or chat with positive minded friends whom you can always keep a daily chat check up/gist relationship. You will overcome. don't lose hope. God will help you. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by desoul2004(m): 6:10am On Feb 03, 2021 |
troublemakea: What are the opportunities someone can lose because of masturbation? |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Komu1048(m): 6:12am On Feb 03, 2021 |
NewSoul:. Are you serious right now? Anyway, No. But thank God I'm free and my body can't dictate to my soul anymore. And I enjoy more favour and blessing as well |
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