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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by MartinsD12(m): 6:14am On Feb 03, 2021 |
kalu61:We are too religious and blame everything on the spiritual for one's failure in life its poor African mentality, in as much as I don't support that immoral act, the writer should ask himself why so much famous moneybags in the world who are open gays are making it, infact even here in Nigeria bad evil people tend to make it in life than the good people. 2 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Komu1048(m): 6:21am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Goldenfinger: From experience, when you relapse don't feel bad about it. That's satan trying to play on your thought, making you feel you have sinned and therefore makes you feel dejected and you give up. But it's all lies, pray for forgiveness and study the Bible each time you find yourself relapsing at no time should you feel dejected. The freedom doesn't come overnight, it's an addiction so it takes time but always request the help of the Holy Spirit he alone can help you break the addiction. That's what Gal 5:16 said. I await your testimony bro 2 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by MartinsD12(m): 6:24am On Feb 03, 2021 |
soulwin4life:Mr man stop deceiving the public, masturbation is not the reason things are not moving well for you, you failed to plan your life well, infact when things don't work out in life people gets depressed some start drinking, smoking that is what is happening to you, you need to reshape your thoughts and plan well, check your spending habits how much are you Saving, do you gamble things like this might be your problem not necessarily what you are blaming it on, fix yourself remember am not supporting any immoral act but fix your yourself up, plan your finance well. 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by PericomaNwankwo: 6:28am On Feb 03, 2021 |
troublemakea: If you ever get the urge, tell you this; " I am not a slave to my bodily desires" never be a slave to your desires, be the master. It's true, a life of no masturbation is possible and it's the spiritual life. This would set you apart from the people of the world. 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by MacMkboy(m): 6:31am On Feb 03, 2021 |
soulwin4life:Hallelujah. God's word has the power to transform lives at any time. May God bless and keep you. I have a similar testimony of deliverance from the slavery of masturbation. 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by jaxxy(m): 6:47am On Feb 03, 2021 |
soulwin4life: U were not serious or organized with ur life b4. Masturbation only made it worse. Thank God uve seen the light. Organize ur life also to ur goals. Cheers 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by miketayo(m): 7:08am On Feb 03, 2021 |
fuckingAyaya: Its called addiction and its psychological, similar to drug addict, drunks or smokers. There r therapies to fix that which will take a while to change. Any of those addiction can render ur spiritual life useless, but even with these addictions u can still extremely wealthy. We are always looking for excuses for our misfortunes. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by joegigs(m): 7:11am On Feb 03, 2021 |
You want to stop masturbation and start fu*king the real thing .my dear ,go hustle joor church don blow ur mind soulwin4life: |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by chubinwa(m): 7:13am On Feb 03, 2021 |
excess of masturbation is very bad. lately, I became so addictive and it's giving me a serious concern. such as forgetfulness. I had practiced semen retention but collapsed. God I want to be totally free please help my helpless soul |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Champneys: 7:13am On Feb 03, 2021 |
soulwin4life: Ok, ex left hand wa....nker! |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Yada01(m): 7:14am On Feb 03, 2021 |
troublemakea: Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewal of your mind. How to renew your mind: 1. Study and meditate upon the word of God always 2. Think God thoughts and when evil thoughts comes, think about something good. 3. Speak the word of God to yourself and start confessing positive words to yourself 4. Pray that to God for strength. The reason why you still see flashes of those things you were engage in is because, those pictures are still in your mind. But as you continue with God and renew your mind, you begin to see the less. It may look as if it is not working and difficult to achieve but you will find it easier to achieve when you begin to pray more and study God's word more. 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Goldenfinger: 7:17am On Feb 03, 2021 |
[quote author=nica95 post=98689548][/quote].my problem is that immediately I see any form sexual content, I will just get triggered and started watching porn and later masturbate. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Ofadaman(m): 7:27am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Lol, funny how people apply more weight to "alleged" sins that revolve around sex. Same Person telling you masturbation ruined his life may also be an unrepentant thief or liar, or taken to gluttony and procrastination but blames his problems on masturbation or his sexual orientation. Even the rich snd powerful indulge in it, and they are still where they are.. people who are lazy always attribute one spiritual reasons for their problems. While you masturbate and go to sleep after that or spend hours useless, someone else may be a CEO rushes to the toilet to masturbate and feel clear headed to run hus business. Both men has taken to same "sin", but one uses it to further his vision, the other without a vision uses it to run away from his problems. Its same way people drink alcohol to celebrate a promotion ad big day, while others consume it to avoid their problems. Its not about the substance it's the about the man and his vision 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by maskara01: 7:31am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Your problem is not masturbation. You are! If you have a job interview and rather than preparing you spent your time masturbating and then when it's time you screw up the whole thing. Do you blame masturbation? Why not blame your hand? Or your eyes? Or your smart phone? The TV... So if your spouse strokes your john thomas what's that? I pray you don't have to cough out N1.2m for IVF.... After stopping masturbation shebi you are now richer than Dangote abi? Better go fix your Life and don't put blame on something else other than your irresponsibility. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Nobody: 7:39am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Evolutionlove:The thing tire person. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by bluefilm: 7:45am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Say whatever you like, as for me, Masturbation is cool. So cool. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Goldbw122(m): 7:57am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Abeg pardon me for my English write up, so I see people on the internet saying masturbating is not bad that even the doctor recommend it that it is a sleeping pill… lol I pity you well I don’t mean to disrespect. You are drilling you human energy, yea.. okk let’s do a experiment, if you can go a week without masturbating or two weeks, try to write about diary for each day anything that happen I mean anything and when you are able to complete the week…. Okk open any porn site or video you keep for a long time a porn video you have watch for a long time and you will see the way the urge will come back like a breeze… and you will feel the urge to have sex with any one at that moment… even your sister if you are not careful…that is what cause rape.. and if you try to quit that you won’t masturbate at that time your mind will tell you to have sex.. If you are the type that visit brothel and have money, you will visit ashawo tire you go waste a lot of money, and still yet you wont be satisfy even if the prostitute gave you a hand job and a Mouth Action, yea if you even discuss the matter with her, she will tell you that you will come a 100 times and it is addictive or if you have a girlfriend and she is willing to have sex with you at that time you will have sex like a 100 times, even if she gave you hand job and Mouth Action.. that urge will still be there… is like a stagman a state of mind.. and it is ugly…the way it start is the state of mind to watch porn and the rest follows… I have been there… when you masturbate that diary I told you to write you will not be able to write it you will be lazy and you wont even remember I told you to write it.. yea but if you stay away from masturbating and find a way to be yourself and get yourself busy, find a work, like programming, graphics design, or if you have interest in learning other skill, you will find out that you will be able to write the diary. The most important interesting part, is that you will be confident and you will have this Godlike appearance in you and you will feel it, and people will even use style to tell you, it will affect you emotionally, mentally, and all surrounding, so it will make you to be more aware of you and yourself and your surrounding, If you are the type that masturbate a lot you will notice that you will be feeling headache, back pain that back pain is very common, it is like the energy you need to repair your body in the night or day, is being wasted when you masturbate, you will notice that you will be very hungry, yea.. very hungry you can even eat 5 times a day trust me, is like you have loose a great energy, and you will need the food to build up.. if you if you don’t masturbate you will see that you will even eat once a day like in the afternoon like 12.00 am, so that is how it is.. you will be full with energy, so that is it, and if you masturbate you will be filled with guilt yea, like a state of mind that judge you that you have done something wrong, and it will trouble you if you are the type that is emotional, If you masturbate it draws you away from God, being spiritual will be like a waste of time in your eye, yea… is like you don’t need it, like living the day ordinary, like letting the day goes by just like that, even choice will be hard for you to make, but it may seems easy but it is not a confidential choice, so masturbating is very evil, very evil, Okk Do you know that too much sex cause draining of energy, and you know that masturbating is worst than sex.. yeah.. It is.. 5 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Tamaris1: 8:37am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Masturbation is a silent killer. I was involved in it for over twenty years. Doctors always maintained that Masturbation wasn't harmful to health, but the experiences I was having proved to the contrary. I strongly appeal to to you to put a final stop to the act. It was like a strangle hold on me. I could only stop when I realized the destruction it was doing to me. I will list some of the destructive effects of Masturbation on a man: 1. It will destroy your eyesight. Images will soon become blurred and you will need glasses. 2. It reduces your sexual performance. Masturbation will make it difficult for you to be able to satisfy a woman in bed. You will ejaculate so early that you will be so embarrassed. 3. Low self worth. Masturbation makes you feel like you are worthless. 4. Demonic oppression. There are demons in charge of the act. They possess you and reduce you to nothing. 5. Guilty conscience before God. Spiritually, Masturbation weakens you. I believe these few points will be of value to someone. Flee from Masturbation and never look back. 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by porthouse7(f): 8:40am On Feb 03, 2021 |
soulwin4life:go find better work do brother, maybe u masturbate daily. remember too much of everything is dangerous, no spiritual connection with masturbation... alaye double ur hustle stop blaming masturbation 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Willy123(m): 8:45am On Feb 03, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color] soulwin4life:l am happy for and l celebrate with you. Although you didn't mention your sex. May that wish you have pray concerning yourself be answered. 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Bolaji26(m): 8:50am On Feb 03, 2021 |
GuyWise101: Boss, bless me with 5k please, I don't know of God can touch ur heart to help a brother . 0210126852. Gtb O l i s a. Thanks and God bless sir |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Dagrace01(m): 8:54am On Feb 03, 2021 |
KanuSE:If it's too much it brings weakness and dizziness.. Sometimes it makes u not to have much interest in the opposite sex, also it kinda dissociate u from the rest of the world for a while.. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Willy123(m): 8:58am On Feb 03, 2021 |
[quote aut[color=#006600][/color]hor=Felabrity post=98683645]Niggr above me Damn niggar kill you there[/quote] l support. Give advice you no give! Damn niggar is so right..is that an advice |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by denvers: 9:18am On Feb 03, 2021 |
I see nothing wrong in masturbating,
I do it, infact I have not heard sex in more than one year and some months,
It's better cos you will not have problem with woman. 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by AlexJustin(m): 9:18am On Feb 03, 2021 |
troublemakea: someone once said that when the burger comes, he ll watch the PASSION OF CHRIST and the urge will disappear. u can try that. God will see u through. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Monben: 10:01am On Feb 03, 2021 |
God has forgiven you bro, and He has forgotten the past. To Him, you are now a new creature. It is as though you have never sinned. What you are dealing with now is the devil reminding you of your past. The devil does not want to let you go. But this is where you need to be strong in your faith. Keep reminding yourself that Jesus loves you. That God has forgiven you. That you are a new creature. That God is, even at this very moment, restoring all you have lost in the past. Whoever the Son of man sets free is free indeed. Don't let the devil tell you otherwise. Peace! troublemakea: |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Princessbettyj(f): 10:04am On Feb 03, 2021 |
GuyWise101: |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by tayeloveme4rel: 10:12am On Feb 03, 2021 |
I will rather m a s t u r b a t e t h a n t o Bleep any dirty olosho with my hard earned n a i r a 1 Like |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Dangerousboy(m): 10:12am On Feb 03, 2021 |
GuyWise101:see testimony o, promotion/ financial breakthrough via masturbation |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by InstamediaTv: 10:33am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Bro, God doesn't punish forgiven sins okay.. If he has forgiven you, he has forgiven you.. No punishment attached. troublemakea: |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by InstamediaTv: 10:43am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Is it the masturbation that made you to have 5million in ur acct? Eh mR ELIEja? GuyWise101: |
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