well not EVERY WOMAN BLEEDS when they first have intercourse, so, there u go,

@suzy, u deserve any consiquences that come out of it, atleast it wil be a lesson to u young girls out there, for known that u can never build a solid relationship wit lie.
Any way i advice u to tel the guy d truth, the way i see it, for not have make love to u 4 2yrs and stil stay wit u, he loves u, cox me i cant do that, just cal him and tel him, he wil understand. Pls dont allow him to found out by him self.
But u deserve some punishment. Lier girl, u beta ur girls wit this ur after infect.

neva too late to say the truth

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aminalib:

well not EVERY WOMAN BLEEDS when they first have intercourse, so, there u go,

So, you are even giving her more ammunition to deceive him further, kai nawa oo, women I dey fear wuna

She's a good liar. The LUCKY guy's yet to discover more about this deceitful cheat. The marriage is about to start on a deceitful note, one with no real trust, so its not going anyway. Trust is like a good glue that'll hold the relationship together when all fades away,and they will,So sad.

tashanja:

So, you are even giving her more ammunition to deceive him further, kai nawa oo, women I dey fear wuna

well i am just stating what no one else is stating, not every woman bleeds, infact since most young girls get their period early, the hymen could have been broken due to them wearing tampons, or even sports, riding horses or gymnastics, it could have been broken way before a girl has intercourse, i never bled when i first had sex, so im just saying.

She shouldn't say anything. Remember the thread of the _immature guy that broke up with his girl when she wouldn't have sex with him? He believed that he was being cheated because she wasn't a virgin and he wasn't alone in this.

Odds are, since she hasn't had sex with him, then she was trying to remain celibate and thought if he knew she had sex in the past he would pressure her.

She should have told him the truth in the early stages of the relationship, because if she tells him now he may not trust her at all. And how many men truly reveal the extent of their past lovers to their serious girlfriends? Odds are there are a couple of skeletons in his closet too. Sometimes ignorance is bliss.

Nekai:

She shouldn't say anything. Remember the thread of the _immature guy that broke up with his girl when she wouldn't have sex with him? He believed that he was being cheated because she wasn't a virgin and he wasn't alone in this.

Odds are, since she hasn't had sex with him, then she was trying to remain celibate and thought if he knew she had sex in the past he would pressure her.

She should have told him the truth in the early stages of the relationship, because if she tells him now he may not trust her at all. And how many men truly reveal the extent of their past lovers to their serious girlfriends? Odds are there are a couple of skeletons in his closet too. Sometimes ignorance is bliss.

Yeah, let her keep quiet, till wedding night when hubby finally discovers the deception and that the puccy had been busted wide open (who knows, maybe wide enough for a jumbo to do full 360 degree U turn) then we'd like to see how she would go about explaining that phenomenon.

A couple of skeletons? Abeg what this girl has is more like a graveyard to me - wouldn't surprise me also if she'd been shaaggiing all along while cruelly depriving the so called fiancée.

Now that her game is up, some people are still willing to assist her with more deception i.e. how to set him up to accept the mystery of the "opened-gate," effectively the huge let down to somebody's ordinary sloppy seconds