I just heard it from someone today that my younger sister brought her 10 years+ boyfriend to come borrow up to 600K from my father. My mom was even in support of it. I have to give her a serious warning, but I don't know if it's the right thing to do.

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Give it time

My own is how the boyfriend agreed to such abomination

[quote author=Bestty101 post=99092885]I just heard it from someone today that my younger sister brought her 10 years+ boyfriend to come borrow up to 600K from my father. My mom was even in support of it. I have to give her a serious warning, but I don't know if it's the right thing



Abeg you get another sister?

Bestty101:
I just heard it from someone today that my younger sister brought her 10 years+ boyfriend to come borrow up to 600K from my father.

NO IT'S NOT ACCEPTABLE TO COMMIT SUCH ACT.

Very bad!!!!!! 10 years Some guys no get shame, I prayed for my future husband to be on one section, most of this guys alike started weeping He will collect the money and run away . Tell your sister that the juju her boyfriend is using on her is very strong.

Its really bad of him, probably a greedy fellow. If he was married to her, it would make sense. For your parents to consent to such means your sister has great influence over her parents. If you must warn her, let it not be a quarell. You also need to talk to your parents, tell them it's totally wrong and such is hardly heard of in other places. As parents weren't they supposed to ask the young man when he was coming to marry her properly? 10yrs relationship, hmmm

LilMissFavvy:
Its really bad of him, probably a greedy fellow. If he was married to her, it would make sense. For your parents to consent to such means your sister has great influence over her parents. If you must warn her, let it not be a quarell. You also need to talk to your parents, tell them it's totally wrong and such is hardly heard of in other places. As parents weren't they supposed to ask the young man when he was coming to marry her properly? 10yrs relationship, hmmm

I'm not even sure the guy is ready to even marry within the next 5 years. If I reach there this evening Sha...

My ego no go gree me do am

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My sisters have sense but this particular one..

Bestty101:
I just heard it from someone today that my younger sister brought her 10 years+ boyfriend to come borrow up to 600K from my father. My mom was even in support of it. I have to give her a serious warning, but I don't know if it's the right thing to do.

Maybe your parents already see him as family, like their son, so they see nothing wrong with it.
You can't tell your parents what to do with their money.

Your sister's boyfriend too should do the needful and marry your sister.

mariahAngel:


Maybe your parents already see him as family, like their son, so they see nothing wrong with it.
You can't tell your parents what to do with their money.

Your sister's boyfriend too should do the needful and marry your sister.

And they can't lend money to their own son to boost his business...

Bestty101:


And they can't lend money to their own son to boost his business...

Well, did you ask?
Or you just feel entitled to their money because you're their son?

I don't understand. Is this a joke?

Boyfriend has the guts to enter your house after dating your sister for 10years without wifing her talk more of borrow money? You as the brother what did you do when you saw them? You nor use 2by4 plank he toothpick leg comot una has?

Bestty101:


I'm not even sure the guy is ready to even marry within the next 5 years. If I reach there this evening Sha...

How old is the guy?

It’s none of your business

10 years? He should be chased away with a stick.

Bestty101:
I just heard it from someone today that my younger sister brought her 10 years+ boyfriend to come borrow up to 600K from my father. My mom was even in support of it. I have to give her a serious warning, but I don't know if it's the right thing to do.

How old is the guy? How old is your sister? What is your sister good? What is the guy doing?

Prior to now, what is the relationship of the guy with your parents?

I read in a post that your parents did not lend you money: could that be your anger and not the right/wrong of their action?

It is very wrong but I can not elaborate on why.

Ask even the pastors that collect tithes and they would tell you it is wrong.

Why is he still a boyfriend after ten years ?

Is your sister so desperate to please this gigolo ?

It is wrong and do not let young nairalnaders tell you that it is not a big deal.

This is weird.

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It is very wrong but I can not elaborate on why.

Ask even the pastors that collect tithes and they would tell you it is wrong.

Why is he still a boyfriend after ten years ?

Is your sister so desperate to please this gigolo ?

It is wrong and do not let young nairalnaders tell you that it is not a big deal.

It is not even in his place to decide whether or not it is a big deal.
His parents have the rights to do whatever they want with their money, and there's little or nothing he can do about it.
His father is not a child. The old man knows why he's even considering the idea. It's his money after all, and he doesn't need his son's permission to do whatever he wants with it.
Heck! The op wasn't even supposed to know about it because it's none of his business!

People who give out their monies to charity organizations and strangers are not aliens. They have families too.

@op, your anger can only be justified if you can swear that your father has never helped you, otherwise, you're just envious.
Most men would rather give their money to a humble servant, than an ungrateful, proud son.

:I just heard it from someone today that my younger sister brought her 10 years+ boyfriend to come borrow up to 600K from my father.NO IT'S NOT ACCEPTABLE TO COMMIT SUCH ACT.

bukatyne:


How old is the guy? How old is your sister? What is your sister good? What is the guy doing?

Prior to now, what is the relationship of the guy with your parents?

I read in a post that your parents did not lend you money: could that be your anger and not the right/wrong of their action?

Obviously yes @bold

Of course it’s ok. Let her grow with him and help him in every way she can. You too prepare yourself, they are coming to borrow from you next.

veave:
I don't understand. Is this a joke?

Boyfriend has the guts to enter your house after dating your sister for 10years without wifing her talk more of borrow money? You as the brother what did you do when you saw them? You nor use 2by4 plank he toothpick leg comot una has?

This post made me laugh out so loud.

The idea of coming to borrow the money isn't my problem but the forever relationship. Perhaps they are okay being partners without the commitment of marriage.

nenyewrites:
Of course it’s ok. Let her grow with him and help him in every way she can. You too prepare yourself, they are coming to borrow from you next.

lol..you are silly

10+ relationship..

Your sister go don turn lord of the rings.

Money and family, money and friendships doesn't mix.

Your father should not be tempted to loan him the money because he won't get it back.

Gift what he can. 600k loan, no!

armyofone:
Money and family, money and friendships doesn't mix.

Your father should not be tempted to loan him the money because he won't get it back.

Gift what he can. 600k loan, no!

Na d amount even dey vex me, even till now.

your father want him to succeed and marry your sister.

maybe your mother have told with him why he is not yet ready behind your back. and it's money issue.

so before your father agreed on loaning him your mother must have talk to him and supported him.

it's just to see him succeed and do the needful.

marriage nor easy oh. your mother must really like this young man.

Your sister is still on girlfriend level after 10 years?!

Is your sister that ugly that she can't leave that loser and get a more serious person?

To add insult to injury he has the effrontery to ask to borrow money from her father

Bestty101:


Na d amount even dey vex me, even till now.