Hmmm., this is an interesting topic.

ALl these guys, yapping and yapping around! You people should zip your mouth jare. As if it's not you guys that Taught us (i mean them). lol

Seriously though, I delete Messages because I want to create space for incoming messages.

And i sincerely can't deal with explaining to a guy why "Bolaji" said, He'll see me at 2:00. Or why "sammuel" Said, He loves it when I do that. Or why "Raymond" said, "Lizzy, why do you tease me so much?"

I mean seriously, all those things could be taken as either sexual innuendo's or double entrendes. While in all honesty, Bolaji was just telling me to meet him at 2:00 so that he could give me the book his mom (who happens to be my aunty -- making bolaji my cousin) said he should give me.

In all honesty, Samuel could be saying he loves it when i do that. "THAT" meaning, when I tell him to "shut up and tell my sister who happens to be his 'girlfriend' to come home right now.

In all honesty, Raymond could be telling me I'm a tease because I told him I'm eating rice, and dodo with pomo and shaki.

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So you see? WHy don't I Just save myself the headache of having to explain arrant nonsense by Deleting messages?

You are talking about TRUST??!?! Ohh Trust me honey, I KNOW all about trust.
WHy don't the guy Trust me enough to know that I'm not hiding things from him, but that I just would prefer not to cause any shenenigan between us?
Why don't he trust me enough to believe that i delete my messages because somethings are better left unseen/unsaid?

Abegggii, close this chapter and bring up the next one jo.

I have no problem showing you my texts. But guys get K-Leg. They will tell you "I have no problem with who sends you stuff".

But when argument time comes, the next thing you'll hear is "WHY DON'T YOU GO AND MEET BOLAJI!!!! If you think I YELL TOO MUCH??!"

They will say "hunnie, you can tell/show me everything"!
But when argument time comes the next thing you'll hear is "How is our uncle 'raymond' doing?" ANd they say it in this irritating voice that you just wanna slap them on the head with frying pan.
This is the same guy you told that raymond was just a friend oo! I mean, COme on noW!!! WHere's the trust ehh?

They will say, show me show me, don't delete don't delete, but when argument starts the next thing is: "Why don't you just go to samuel to do BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH"!

See me see wahalah oo. Ladies I beg Delete All your Inbox Jare!!

Don't even stop there, DELETE THE CALLING LIST! Matter of fact, Give all the guys on your phone Girl Names.

Make Bolaji, Bolatito, and make Samuel Become Samantha. lol, Okay that was a joke!!

@ Hot-angel

You're very right, misunderstandings could take ages to level out!!


@ topic

What in the whole wild world of living creatures will he be doing with my phone . . we're in love and all that but not with my phone. I won't be spying on yours and do mine the same favour.

I personally do not delete my messages, both the personal and unpersonal ones, I'm not sure if its time to do it or the strength to do it i lack, but I only delete messages when and if i have to (my inbox is full or almost full)

My theory: STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM MY MESSAGES if you trust(ed) me, you won't be there snooping in the first place!!

That is what we are saying. Trust and decorum. First, if a guy trust his lady all other men and their antic doesn't matter as long as they are both honest. I personally don't hid a thing from my girl. If I get a lovely message i won't delete it. If she like, she read it and at times, she ignore it. That is why i respect her. The rule we made was if any suspicious arose, we must ask question and be honest about it. No one is perfect but true love recognize there is bound to be diversion. So we must be prepared. Personally I had an adopted sister who is now abroad. I used to send her lovely texts regularly. She told me her guy read the messages and initialy got suspecious. Of course she explained to him. I met the guy later, and we had fun over the messages I sent his babe. Believe me, we are best of friend even more than we imagined. The point is, if you have no skeleton to hide, you need not panic. Love is trust. Without trust, there is no love.

This however doesn't implied that you turn blind eye to obvious cheat. There is always a way to catch a flirting partner. Best way is: relax. Let her play her her game. Remeber something about how they catct monkey in India ?

That is what we are saying. Trust and decorum. First, if a guy trust his lady all other men and their antic doesn't matter as long as they are both honest. I personally don't hid a thing from my girl. If I get a lovely message i won't delete it. If she like, she read it and at times, she ignore it. That is why i respect her. The rule we made was if any suspicious arose, we must ask question and be honest about it. No one is perfect but true love recognize there is bound to be diversion. So we must be prepared. Personally I had an adopted sister who is now abroad. I used to send her lovely texts regularly. She told me her guy read the messages and initialy got suspecious. Of course she explained to him. I met the guy later, and we had fun over the messages I sent his babe. Believe me, we are best of friend even more than we imagined. The point is, if you have no skeleton to hide, you need not panic. Love is trust. Without trust, there is no love.

This however doesn't implied that you turn blind eye to obvious cheat. There is always a way to catch a flirting partner. Best way is: relax. Let her play her her game. Remeber something about how they catct monkey in India ?

cute-ass what this topic really all about?

Hot-angel She is Back for very long time

Welcome back girl.

I totally disagree with what some people r saying: DO NOT CHECK HER PHONE.

i will check and continue checkin any chick thats acting suspicious. I've been in relationships where i never even pressed a button on the phone because i trusted the girl and she gave me no reason to search her phone.

The only way i'll search a lady's phone is if she gives me a reason to.

osereka:

happen to check my babe phone one day , guess how she save my number? HEAD BOY 1
and there are other head boys up to 8. imagine that!

That was really funny. 

I've had girls storing my name as one letter e.g T . One even stored my name as smiley face

all b i t c h es are the same. take heart dude, keep your love-vendor hand strong.

You can decide to delete your messages and set your phone to low tone depending on the nature of your partner .
If a guy happen to be a kind that flet around , that might bring a kind of suspicion for him and make him feel you are bird of same feather , you know there are some guys that prove sturborn at time sending romantic messages , you might not give your number but they can go to any lenght to get it and some mission is to destroy your relationship .So the best you can do to make your partner mind rest is to delete the messages and avoid receiving such calls, but few ladies do this for the reason i stated .But for me i have no reason setting my phone to low tone 'cox i have no hidden agenda .

niceuzor:

Hot-angel She is Back for very long time

Welcome back girl.

Thanks hunnie. Whoa. . . ! You know me??

hot-angel - you re great & i saw some of your pleasant post

you are one of the best in nairaland.

keep your good work going,

They are smarter than their selves. but it is a sign of dishonesty?

I met a girl once that have ma name with . . .

When i confronted her, she told me the . . . ( dot dot dot) means her final busstop

On checkin her phone book, i saw names like

U stiill dey
u no dey tire
u again
na watin
. . ?
na by force
hmm?

I did tell her, that to me the relationship had just hit a serious dotted rock.

I allowed it to go, we became friends afterwards, but it hurts thou. U know

kamura:

I met a girl once that have ma name with . . .

When i confronted her, she told me the . . . ( dot dot dot) means her final busstop

LOL

@ osereka "HEAD BOY 1"very funny.
@ kamura", " final bus top LMAO
na wa oh things dey happen sha.But if dem act am 4 film now ppl go dey shout"it happens only in d movies"

Anyway,back 2 d topic;about deleting txt msges,hot angel wz right.There r som mssges u just hv 2 delete.For instance wen a guy dats nt ur bf sends u a txt wit plenty"i luv U(s) and "really miss d time we spend together.Its better u delete it because"I no fit shout"

@ osereka "HEAD BOY 1"

Does it mean you give her the best HEAD there is





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@ Kamura,

The thang is SEE NO EVIL, HEAR NO EVIL.
Personally, i would not check ma woman's phone to sift through her messages but once i get suspicious i take it to anutha level.
Its time to get FORENSIC. I don't let any chic outplay or outwit me.
Nothing makes me happy than catching a babe red-handed especially when she's denied all allegations claiming she's innocent.

Go on the net and download Tulp2G and then buy any SIM card reader.
With this 2 powerful tools, u will recover all the deleted messages on girl-friend's SIM card since the day she bought it.
Read it extensively because it will be loads . . . . . .Sift out the incriminating ones and print em out as hard evidence.

Confront her again to know her level of dishonesty.
99% of em still lie not knowing u have an authentic evidence against em.
When you're absolutely sure she's not going to repent . . . . . . .Present your evidence and watch as she stutters ,  . . . . . .
But . . .I wanted to tell u last year. . . . . .Therefore . . .I can explain . . .Wherefore . . . . . .Moreover . . . . . . .and all the known disjointed words/phrases will start dropping from her 2-faced mouth. then its CHECKMATE.

If any of y'all need any instruction, hit me up @ Nairaland Sports.
I have caught over 200 cheating bastards(chics) with these methods so it is 100% effective.
U will be surprised with some nasty discoveries of what these daughter of Eve have been up to while u were thinking u were the only dude in her life.
Meanwhile, it takes loads of guts and gall to go through the motions . . . . . .The decision is entirely yours though.
Anyways, Consultation service is FREE.

Cheers.

Like to get to know u better i am intrested.