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Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by envoymedia: 8:33pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Bayelsa Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure (Photos) 200-level student of History and Diplomacy in the Federal University Otuoke (FUO), Arikekpar Lucky, allegedly suffering from depression, has committed suicide, IgbereTV reports. It was gathered that the 27-year-old student popularly known as Don Zednas, hung himself with a rope tied to a ceiling fan in the early hours of Monday, March 22, after locking the doors and windows. The deceased, a one-time aspirant of the Ijaw Youths Council (IYC) Student Representative, Central Zone, hails from Otuakeme, Ogbia Local Government Area of Bayelsa state. Sources in the university community said the student took the drastic step because he had been battling with depression because members of his family tagged him a failure in academics and life. Arikekpar was said to have left a suicide note expressing frustrations with the pressure from his relatives, saying they left him with no option than to kill himself for peace to reign. A source, who spoke to newsmen said that this is not the first time the deceased had attempted to take his life, adding that he had made such attempts twice last year. "His family is always complaining that he spends too much effort, time and money on Ijaw Youth Council (IYC) politics rather than facing his studies.” the source said. Confirming the incident, the student union leader, Mr Kojo Debekeme, explained that the student died out of depression, as he could not cope with some family issue again. A family member, who pleaded anonymity, said that the young man has been buried "according to the tradition of the Ogbia people when such tragic incidents occur." Spokesperson of the Bayelsa State Police Command, Asinim Butswat, who confirmed the incident, said no official report has been made at the headquarters yet. Meanwhile, friends and colleagues have taken to Facebook to mourn the deceased. Meshack N. Sintei wrote on Facebook; "I hate the fact that I'm sharing this bad newshttps://www.facebook.com/100004256493428/posts/1894770244008174/?app=fbl 11 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by envoymedia: 8:33pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
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Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Henrydonland(m): 8:37pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
He could have just donated his vital organs to people in need before killing himself so atleast he could have died a fulfilled death. 66 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Nobody: 8:38pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
I have problem with black people , must all of us go to university, we are born to be Successfully in one way or the other , see mercy and Ronaldo but since the only way to steal public fund in Nigeria is through paper qualification from university 72 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Righteousness2(m): 8:38pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Very unfortunate Wrong move from the young man. Any being/Spirit ministering to you that Suicide is an Escape or peaceful route, is the Enemy of your life. Rebuke them and Cast them out in the Name of JESUS. Suicide is Eternal Destruction in Hell Fire. 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by GIdiata(m): 8:39pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
may God save us from Evil People. including family members 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by donstan18: 8:40pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
No matter the angle you want to view this incident from, the truth remains that he is responsible for his death and not his family members. Nobody, I repeat..... Nobody alive will say his/her family members haven’t said bad things to him/her before. Enough of these blames!!!! 99 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by decatalyst(m): 8:43pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Righteousness2: A very wrong move. I hope his soul finds peace. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by dollytino4real(f): 8:48pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
that is y i mind wat I say to people dez dayz o! because many people are facing one challenge or the other! 40 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by illicit(m): 9:05pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Depression is real.... 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Simplyleo: 9:06pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
"His family is always complaining that he spends too much effort, time and money on Ijaw Youth Council (IYC) politics rather than facing his studies.” the source said.If the above is true, then his blood is in the hands of whichever member of his family that tagged him a failure. They should find out the extra curricular activities of Dino melaye in school and tell me if any of Dino's family members can tag him a failure. If you tag this young man a failure, what do you tag illiterates following and drinking urine of one albino hunchback fraudster? ![]() 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by tillaman(m): 9:20pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
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Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Dailybell(f): 9:20pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
God help us. |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by lilvicky68(m): 9:25pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Too much spoiling of children na wetin dey cause all this rubbish.. 12 Likes |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by OnlineMe66: 9:28pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
lilvicky68: True to some extent. 2 Likes |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by lilvicky68(m): 9:29pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
OnlineMe66:Them use hard way train me.. nothing dey shake me again 6 Likes |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Pochettino(f): 9:36pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
At least he got something right 1 Like |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Hopeoflife: 9:36pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Ngg 10 Likes |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by drizslim(m): 9:36pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Some family push loved ones into depression Since he cant make it from education have u tried his other skills Screw this unbalanced life 10 Likes |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by MarvellousG(f): 9:37pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
So sad he shouldn't have himself because of that,no one knows tomorrow |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by jaxxy(m): 9:38pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
The fact people fail doesn’t mean they are failures. Everyone has failed at some point. The only failure is the person who stops trying or gives up. Even If u fail 100 times ure not a failure if u keep on trying. U will/can eventually get it right obviously by learning and correcting ur mistakes. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Felabrity: 9:38pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Apparently, not everyone survives depression Say no to suicide 1 Like |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Uyi168: 9:38pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Henrydonland:. Shut up please. 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by 175(m): 9:38pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Terrible indeed |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Drsnives(m): 9:38pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
We should be careful the way we scold or talk to our wards Nawaooooo 4 Likes |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by mcmbonu: 9:38pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
He could have just donated his vital organs to people in need before killing himself so atleast he could have died a fulfilled death 2 Likes |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Commonguy(m): 9:39pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
as they lost the boy now Wetin dem gain.. |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Muhylonaire007: 9:39pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Lobatan o.. E Don spoil!!! |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Nobody: 9:39pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
He's not proving anything to them by quitting,,,,,, coz quitters don't win ![]() BTW, I don't think the deceased has any loved ones to send a condolence to ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by starbuck(f): 9:39pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
We should limit the negative words we usually use on kids of nowadays because they are just too soft in nature.. My 11 year old has been giving me concerns academically until I decided to diverse another method to know if he can pick up no matter how little.. I told him if he puts all effort and passes his upcoming external exams, I will buy him a game console.. Was surprised when his teacher called me the other day and was like my son has really improved and she decided to probe further from him when he opened up. She told me that I should try to keep to the end of my own bargain 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Bayelsa FUO Student Commits Suicide After Family Members Tagged Him A Failure by Seniorwriter(m): 9:40pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
DonKafra:Depression from his family pressure must have been what promted him to suicide... @Donkafra your show of unintelligence and ignorance towards my post stinks how I'm I related to the deceased but you chose to type nonsense...your use of abusive words on this public space shows how toxic you will be to people close/ around you in your life. Get a life because there are better ways to act on a public space like NL. Mind you this is my first and last response to call you to sanity so even if you quote me a million times I'll ignore cos I hate toxic conversations. Proactivity Leads Productivity!!! @Seniorwriter |
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