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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by justmondris: 4:48pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Because their father thinks their only duty is to work hard and provide for the family and not to spend time playing with their kids. |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by mariahAngel(f): 5:10pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Kriss216: Chai! Aru! Who dared? ![]() Ebubedike di ka gi.... ![]() Ujo atuhu onye owu? Ishi o dikwa ya mma? ![]() |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by ofiko123(m): 6:04pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Mothers are more caring than father's in a certain way... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by gaftsoil(m): 6:31pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
9jatriot:Bro, I want to tell you something, why Africa is going back is because everyone wants his child to be lawyer, doctor , engineer. As a father, train your child towards his passion. Everyone must not be a lawyer or engineer. What if my dad sent me to a football academy and allow me and my destiny to decide my fate. I'm happy now because he realised it lately that he should have supported me. I own 3 shops now and doing well and I'm planning to go into sports fully, maybe become a football analyst. You can't cheat destiny. |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by bamideledavid: 6:38pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
when they grow up, they usually get to understand the sacrifices of some good fathers...but most times, it might be late 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by danny56: 6:56pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Bola146: Sorry. See what your father made you believe. I think I should be very proud of my own father....! |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Kriss216: 7:06pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Ishi adighi ya mma. o wu onye nzuzu. |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
I am not sure how you misconstrued what I wrote. Or why you are sorry. My children know my sacrifices for them. They know they will not be where they are today without me. They also know that I will cherish a simple plaque showcasing their appreciation to me more than any money, when that time comes. You can't put a price tag on the sacrifices real men make for their children to become good global citizens. If my father was alive today, it will be the same way. It'll be much easier to give my mother money than to my father, even though I cherished him more. It'll be an insult to him, since he was already comfortable. Again, men should not put themselves in a position where they will incessantly require money from their children for survival. It is just not natural. With women, it comes natural. Hndrrxxx: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by mariahAngel(f): 7:56pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
topatee: Are you really up to 60yrs? Are those truly your own experience? I want to know before I share it... |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by calcal: 7:59pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
If your father receives #30M, he will be chasing another woman whereas your mother won't. Bola146: |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by DeRay98(m): 8:07pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Bola146: Stupid stupider stupidest comment. More likely single mom raised broken vessel. Men go out to work to provide for their wives to feed the children, comes back exhausted with little energy left to attend to his wife and preserve the marriage. Mothers are supposed to raise the for the family and not turn them against their father as many mothers do today. |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by zomby(m): 8:19pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Very simple answer: The bond that is established during the 9 months our mothers spent to carry us is unmatchable. This is why it is a natural thing for kids to automatically favor their moms much more than their dads. Some kids are able to balance the love between their parents, but 90% of the time the moms get the most love. And dads should completely understand and maintain their position…It is not a big deal. |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by tiswell(m): 8:21pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
ibechris:traits of single parenting bro 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by topatee: 8:32pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Because you ask me, I will tell my little story. When I was younger I thought my Dad was the most wicked man living, he always wack my bum and my mum was the most loving, maybe because I was her lastborn, but unfortunately due to my rambunctious attitude, I had an accident and almost lost my left leg, the mark is still obvious today, due to that, I lost the opportunity to represent Nigeria at the 100m dash. It was after I had my kids that I began to realise the pain father's goes through to raise responsible adults, so everytime I have the opportunity, I always tell my kids, my story. So you see my dad was not mean, he saw the handwriting on the wall. It pained him of my lost opportunities but it is me who is living with the regrets. I hope a lot of us bashing out at Dads on the forum will think deep. Finally, responsible Dad goes through a lot of stress in life not for themselves but to provide for their family, most mothers acknowledge this and that's why well brought up mothers stick with the Fathers no matter what, The crisis in our world today is because of absentee fathers. Someone jokingly ask at a wedding, when great grandmother and Grandma was called to the podium, "where are the Grandpa's gone. We fight it out in the outside world and still come back home to fight it out on the bed. God bless Fathers 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by mariahAngel(f): 8:45pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
topatee: Yes. God bless responsible fathers. Thank you for sharing. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by KCNATH(m): 8:49pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
The lady,Bola is criticizing her opinion made her choice. She's an adult to know who deserved to be love more between two parents. For me I love both parents but I'll say I love my mum more. Mum and dad hustle coz they are business people, they return late at night so I'll sadly say that we lacked that parental relationship. But never the less, my mum cares more. Despite dad been a businessman he keep scaring us a way to go to our mother that he don't have money. He kept saying this to us especially since my secondary school. Mum despite she doesn't have will try her best to give us the best. She borrows money or join money contribution saving groups and when it get her turn she collects the money to save us. Sometimes she borrows money to save us but father don't always claims he don't have and we always feel abandoned by him. He's rarely at home, too harsh or don't take responsibility. God bless mothers who make efforts to train their children. My mother was the only one who trained 4 of us. I've followed her to shop and most times see how bad market is but yet she can borrow money to cook good meal for us and pay our bills, buy Christmas clothes, give us money to barb etc even she's the one supporting my tertiary education. Mumsi na God go bless u. And who told some of u that fathers are not manipulative too. He's tried to make us hate mum but we are no kids. |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by IYANGBALI: 9:00pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Bola146:oniranu, olosi, were, asewo, odoko ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by KCNATH(m): 9:02pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
SeriouslySense:Very baseless that's not an excuse. I have seen children who love their fathers more than their mothers. What matters is how close u are to ur children and the love and care |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Deepthoughts: 9:12pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
mathskid:It's because the mothers are often more around the children than their fathers and use such closeness to brainwash the children into believing that they live them more,worst of all they use the resources provided by the very fathers such as money n food in their dubious act,most mothers deliberately refuses to discipline the children only threatening them with reporting to their fathers who is then term wicked by the children, it's only children that grows up to really understand life that truly appreciate the value of their fathers. |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by NairaMaster1(m): 9:12pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
mathskid: Your children? |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by NairaMaster1(m): 9:13pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Hathor5: Don't mind them. My children won't spend a day without me but they pray for their mum to travel |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Deepthoughts: 9:19pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Bola146:I challenge you to sit your mother and father together n sincerely try finding out why you think your father may be useless,I bet you,you will be surprised,see for the sake of honour n peace most fathers just keep quiet and hide some secret to their grave rather than run their mouth like women,ask yourself this question,has any man ever set out purposely to marry a woman just to maltreat her? |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by brainhgeek(m): 9:27pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
You never jam pkin. My son doesn't allow.me go anywhere. To go toilet na wahala. Even if he is sleeping his leg must touch my body. Anytime he senses that our body is not making contact he will cry down the house. I sneak to work when his mum is bathing him. |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Bola146(f): 9:30pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Bola146(f): 9:31pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
IYANGBALI: lalastical, please kindly delete this lunatic! Enough of his madness please |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Bola146(f): 9:37pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
DeRay98: Exactly your family example kid ? ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by STKing(m): 10:12pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
They will turn into the gays man. Most gays have domineering mothers who don't punish children as often.
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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by alabo1: 10:37pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Bola146: I don't know about your experience. My dad is my role model in life and I am closer to him than my mum. I have tried to emulate him and can say today my kids are closer to me than their mum. I spend all the time I can with them |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by iwalolamhi: 11:16pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Mothers are the best in the mode of bringing up a child because a mother is always there for the child in trouble and peace, but some fathers don't care much about the child. After dropping the feeding money he goes until a late hour that the child is asleep already. For a father to be love is not all because of money he dropped but his care and attention towards that child will speak more to the child! It also speaks that 74% of people plan to celebrate fathers day while 84% plan to celebrate mothers day That's why children celebrate mothers than fathers and spend more on mother than father! |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by streetsoldier1(m): 11:44pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
Bola146:perhaps you were raised by a bad mother who didnt make you see your dad's sacrifice or your dad is just naturally useless, not all men are useless and not all women are wicked like your mum |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by lakefist(m): 12:15am On Jun 06, 2021 |
mariahAngel: God bless you for this. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by unmask: 12:30am On Jun 06, 2021 |
mathskid:it's all in the breast |
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