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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by focus7: 10:53am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Your friend. Why can't you just owned up to say it's you. Ladies with useless forming. I read the story of a guy here that a homo employer wanted to take advantage of, he didn't say it was his friend, guys are always forthright but ladies will be forming claiming my friend like the one that missed a proposal from the good looking rich guy with a good ride yesterday claiming it was her friend. You all should tell your friends that they are suck hypocrites 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by samwillyco1(m): 10:55am On Jun 12, 2021 |
He is very smart, no need spending anyhow on a girl that is not your wife, sister or mother. I love the guy it is called judicious use of resources 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:55am On Jun 12, 2021 |
ClearAll:I am talking about if they get married, he wouldn’t want to share in the finances of the home with her!!! |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by McOluOmo: 10:55am On Jun 12, 2021 |
slimman007:u'r the best, are you free this weekend? Just wanna buy u beer! 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Slurity(m): 10:55am On Jun 12, 2021 |
goldman777:I am a married man and I know better, Any boyfriend that did not have the sense of responsibility to give as a boyfriend will be even worse as a husband. Any lady that go ahead with such a stingy boyfriend is surely very stupid. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by skywalker240(m): 10:56am On Jun 12, 2021 |
bepositive11:Oga there's a difference between please help me buy and help me buy I mean doing a favor and order Paying for favour is 50 50 Paying for Order is a contract What if the money is not actually his, but meant for serving a purpose, say a contract? Pfft the Op sounds like a young girl in her 20s, heck I can't remember the last time I bought pad even for my woman 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by slimman007: 10:57am On Jun 12, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: Madam go and work! Free yourself from this leech and entitled mentality.There are limit to what the guy you are dating can do for you he musn't provide all your needs moreover he is not your father or benefactor.Nigerian ladies get this into your skull and stop been a liability in a relationship 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AutoChick4U(f): 10:59am On Jun 12, 2021 |
slimman007:Baba shut up. Who says anything about providing all my needs? Is he god? Una no just get sense and you allowing yeye sentiment cloud common sense and reasoning |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by samuel1986(m): 11:00am On Jun 12, 2021 |
You call him stingy guy because he don't spend lavishly on you or your so called friend. You said he is a nice guy in all aspect only that he doesn't spend as you wish. Why do you expect him to spending his hard earned money on just a girlfriend and not yet wife. My sister if your brother is spending lavishly on a girlfriend, how would you feel? Did I hear you said "not being materialistic"? What are you then? You supposed to be thinking on how to become successful and not depending on guys money. Please don't distract me from this Bihari must go protest with your irrelevant post. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AutoChick4U(f): 11:01am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Slurity:Thank you. All these small boys that are frustrated won't reason with their brains |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Gambo004: 11:01am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic: Damn! Grace really dey follow dat guy. See how real niggaz be fighting for him in his absence ![]() |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by juniorstar(m): 11:01am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:U are interfering in your friend matter!! If your friend wants to dump him...in my opinion I dont thinks she needs to tell you. She is just using all the talks with you to distract herself from the supposed stingy boyfriend...she is going back to him after all una gist. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by amazingspiderma: 11:01am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Slurity: As a married man person, there comes a time in a courtship where you have to test the waters. It helps inform future decision making. Atleast the guy was not abusive. There are ladies who not just take care of themselves, but show financial Independence. You can't buy a pads for yourself. How can you take care of children if there no money coming from the man tommorow. Some people don't know the up's and down's that comes with life. Fantasy is a huge problem. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by breathelove(f): 11:02am On Jun 12, 2021 |
my dear miss know it all, I am sure you have been the one advising and choosing for your friend. My advice to you is, leave your friend to enjoy her wonderful relationship. I am certain you are not having it better in your relationship. Your friend has an intelligent, principled, and decent guy. Some guys are very wise and prudent with money. You say he is loaded, do you think he made money by spending like a fool? Your friend has a great guy, leave her alone and try fixing your life. Just so you know, I am a lady like you but a wise one 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by emflex(m): 11:02am On Jun 12, 2021 |
This is what happens when a lady collects #10 for cooking cubes from her boyfriend. I want to believe that the lady has shown how stingy she is during trying times so the guy is in for the competition. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AutoChick4U(f): 11:02am On Jun 12, 2021 |
samuel1986:Who said anything about lavish? I hope he ain't expectung to eat her cookies if she can't eat his money. Rubbish |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by TheEnforcer: 11:02am On Jun 12, 2021 |
dominique:I dont support being stingy.The fact is You should spend on your wife and not girlfriend.A wife deserves it.A girlfriend doesn't really. A break up can occur. And both of you should have your jobs that are sustaining you.Now,you could help the girlfriend out sometimes financially if you deem fit. But not this entitlement mentality that you must always lavish on her because she is your girlfriend and she is entitled to it.That should be on the guy's volition. I'm a generous person |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ogascomax: 11:03am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: The best thing your friend should do is to tell him that this is what I have noticed because I have understudy you for quite a while now. You know that I am not materialistic but they are certain things that are unacceptable. Like this particular submission and the initial story that you shared. Call a spade a spade. If I don't want to spend for someone I should be able to defined the relationship by telling you were I am not doing certain things. As a man you must take care of a woman it is a standard. Poverty has caused many people to be thinking that spending for a woman is bad. Spending for key things for her and wasting your resources on irrelevant things are not the same. Forget this thing wey una dey talk as a boy, even a child I have always known that a lady is to be taking care of naim adult go dey think otherwise. Men take care of your ladies jor. That is how God made it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Olayetan(m): 11:04am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Oracleforce: 11:05am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Your friend started on a bad note by tagging her boyfriend stingy. And she is deceitful and pretending... She is the type that supposes to date a well-to-do guy...demanding from someone what you know he can't afford is not good enough....let him define is the relationship and let the guy know before she ruin the life of the guy because she is like a wolf in a sheep cloth.... If she is a demanding type, let her tell her bf and if her bf can afford her opulent lifestyle, he will stay but if he can't afford it, he will go... Stop coming on social media and start badmouthing what your friend accepted in the first place...there is no pretense in life....let call it a spade, a spade. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Ishilove: 11:05am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:Na wa o. This kind of stinginess is strange and baffling. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ThatIgedeBoy: 11:05am On Jun 12, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:Bro I am a father of 4 boys, not married, and the last thing is not to be able me to provide for my sons. I provide for their mother too she can't work and she takes care of my sons. But you see if she were parasitic I wont drop a dime more than is needed. Even times when m broke she provides for the kids with money from the little business she does .... A man spends money on value, we no stupid.... My baby mama haa never asked me for transport money or money for pad... The lady i am currently dating would spend alot of time with ne discussing business, where she wants to be in few months and years, she gives me advice .... .OP and friends are busy looking for pad money when other women are building empires with their husbands. . 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by frozen70(f): 11:06am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: He wasn't diplomatic when he was collecting his money from her for the items she requested for So why should she be diplomatic to tell him that she has had enough of the relationship |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Ishilove: 11:06am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Oviebright:E shock me |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Olayetan(m): 11:06am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Nothing goes for free, i have the perfect idea to discard people like that mutually, but you goan pay for consultation. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ClearAll: 11:06am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Simran94:he would share or even cater for everything at home, maybe, just maybe he might not be giving her money freely but she’d be happy unless she wants to emulate her friends with all the big Cars, shoes and dresses, just maybe she ought to be doing all those extra expenses with her own money And Who says he wouldn’t be a better person when married, baba no wan spend make another person come rip where he no sow, una gender are unpredictable, no vex. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AFONAMARO: 11:07am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: It appears most Nigerian youths go into relationship to gain favours. First, a boyfriend owes his girlfriend nothing, just as the girlfriend owes her boyfriend nothing. A relationship is place to learn values, morals and support each other. Not one party feeling entitled. Second, relationship is not a poverty alleviation scheme. If you need money, go get a job. And if a guy needs sex, he should go get a wife. Women are not sex machine, neither are men, ATM. Finally, a man is only responsible for a wife, not girlfriend. Just as a lady is only answerable to a husband, not boyfriend 7 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Olayetan(m): 11:07am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Oviebright: E shock you sef., Shame no even catch the akagum man. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by pazzini: 11:08am On Jun 12, 2021 |
When you know how to type "excuse" correctly, come back for my advice. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by omoyeni37: 11:09am On Jun 12, 2021 |
breathelove:I checked your profile, and i saw that you are from ghana, i wasn't surprised because most nigerian girls don't reason like you do. God bless you maam. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by CzarChris(m): 11:10am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:How much una go pay? My advice is proven to be effective. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 11:11am On Jun 12, 2021 |
I don't even know why some of you are supporting the guy because I know most of you won't go that low towards your girlfriends.Some things are redflag and should not be ignored and she isn't a leech as she does not demand from him. 2 Likes |
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