I have a trusted friend that I share even my deepest existential fears with. So it was normal for me to discuss my interactions with my girlfriend in my relationship with this friend of my. However, my girlfriend "caught me" last weekend- did i just say she caught me? well to me, it's "men's talk" that is supposed to and is indeed kept away from their ladies because mostly, what is talked about during such sessions is our honest assessments of our ladies in the most lurid and sarcastic of terms;
So anyway, she caught me and was so cross with me accussing me of discussing intimate stuff between us with a third party- infact I think we might end up with a break up with the way things are going down now.

Dear Nairalanders, I have been defending myself that I have only been involved in "men's talk" and I don't see anything wrong with it. She seems to be getting more pissed with me but sincerely, I don't have anyother way of rationalizing what I have done to feel the guilt that she probably wants me to feel.

LOL You ain't wrong, she probably does the same thing with her friend(s).

But since it's all out now that she's caught you, and she clearly has a problem with it, it's time to dump that b!@tch.

Maybe you went too deep into details. We all do that shi**t but we don't say everything.

Some stuff that happen between a man and a woman in the bedroom should stay between them.

There's nothing wrong with that. At least you weren't caught cheating, she should grow the f&Ck up.

Not every lady like this. I did it myself and was caught too
I still hear about it after 2 years.

u dot have any other thing 2 discuss?
Than ur GF.

U tell someone ur gf has 3 dotted red pants and u r tellin me its alrite. R u nuts

sulad82i:

Not every lady like this. I did it myself and was caught too
I still hear about it after 2 years.

Just tell her you were wrong and apologize and let the matter end there. Must you keep insisting you were right?

ITbomb:

U tell someone your gf has 3 dotted red pants and u r tellin me its alrite. R u nuts

Funniest ish ever!!!
@O.P;people talk about their relationships to other people in their lives-i think that's pretty normal. It could be to gush over how great things are because you're so happy you just can't keep it to yourself,or it could be to get another party's opinion on something that's bugging you.

I think i'd be alright with it-just as long as my guy understands how to be discreet. I don't think i'd be comfortable if he reveals very intimate details;as far as i'm concerned anybody with a lick of sense should know there are things you can share and there are things you keep to yourself,and should have the wisdom to differentiate between the two.
I also think it would be pretty silly if he told his friend about every single argument we have,small or big. We should be able to settle our issues without the whole bloody world being aware of it.

Atreides:

Funniest ish ever!!!
@O.P;people talk about their relationships to other people in their lives-i think that's pretty normal. It could be to gush over how great things are because you're so happy you just can't keep it to yourself,or it could be to get another party's opinion on something that's bugging you.

I think i'd be alright with it-just as long as my guy understands how to be discreet. I don't think i'd be comfortable if he reveals very intimate details;as far as i'm concerned anybody with a lick of sense should know there are things you can share and there are things you keep to yourself,and should have the wisdom to differentiate between the two.
I also think it would be pretty silly if he told his friend about every single argument we have,small or big. We should be able to settle our issues without the whole bloody world being aware of it.

she will get over it. Just keep ur kool.

IZUKWU:

she will get over it. Just keep your kool.

you think wish

It depends on what you discussed with your friend, but its not always advisable to discuss some personal things in relationship with anybody whosoever

What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. It was wrong and disrespectful of you to discuss intimate stuffs about your relationship with anybody. How would you feel if you were to hear a honest assessment of your weakness in the bedroom with a friend?

^^^exactly and Op still dey use gbanko

ITbomb:

U tell someone your gf has 3 dotted red pants and u r tellin me its alrite. R u nuts

LWKM4H!

Too personal should stay personal. You can share how you feel about your partner or what general activities you guys would do but to go in details is really not necessary.

I am talking about the bedroom activities and personal discussions.