BABE!:

@ OP: In the case of that kind of special event, there's no big deal mehn! My man will allow me, coz he knows I like boys/men. I like being around males than females, so---

Like seriously though, If you're with a man, does that mean you've lost the right to mingle and relate to other human beings around you?

Men! Big up yourselves jo! It's just a male friend---Geez!

amefi:

Mrs Chima wan follow persin go chop life 4 club. I wish una two luck oooo.

xynerise:

@op. I will if the event is done during the day. Because if she comes after 7pm, she will knee down on  concrete stones.

Mrs.Chima:

Who said this has to do with me? It is a question to generate discussion good or bad. This is not Dr. Phil or Oprah Winfrey show.

Now would you allow your woman to go to an event with another man if you are unable to?

Crude Oil.:

I have some serious trust issues so, I wouldn't.

MzDarkSkin:

I don't know about that one. Tough question to ask. I guess if I have ppl there at the event who can act as my eyes while I am away,
then yes. It won't be a random floosey however, more like a mutual friend or a relative of mine. But if I have the slightest feeling against it then it won't happen as my intuition has yet to fail me.

basically,

DEPENDS ON THE SITUATION (& who he goes with!)

Pweety4me:

It depends, but i guess if it's strictlly business & there are no pictures taken it's cool!

Mrs.Chima:

And you won't toss and turn wondering if the chick is trying to "size" your man up?

Pweety4me:

Na trust is needed here, so if i trust him no wahala.


_{Men will cheat anywayz}

Inked_Nerd:

@OP: I would have no problem having a male friend tag along with me and I would have no problem having my boyfriend's female friend tag along with him. I'm not insecure about stuff like that nor do I get jealous over things like that. If I trust you to go out in the streets [which are crawling with women] then I see no reason why I would be uptight about him going to an event with another girl.

Mrs.Chima:

Men/boys, would you allow another man/boy take your woman/girl to an event in your place?

For an example, your girl is invited to a special event that requires her to give a presentation or she is honored by an agency of interest and you are unable to attend because of work or you have taken ill would you mind if her male friend or male coworker tag along with her? 

Ladies, would you allow another woman/girl take your man/boy to an event in your place?

Why or why not?

ermmm Mrs Chima, are you cheating on me again?

Orton1_0:

Being "The Man" sometimes sucks - big time!
I mean theres every tendency that I'm gonna get jealous, and hey its not about insecurity or that I don't trust her or anything like that - Just don't wanna share.
But I can't let it out now can I? Jealousy though understandable amongst lovers is considered or seen as a sign of weak emotions amongst 'men', so as 'the man', i tend to suppress it . . .leave it in.

So regardless of that fact that I'm a jealous lover, I'll  say Yes - I can permit/allow My Friend to take My baby out in place of Me.

Probably get drunk awaiting her arrival.lol

LOL! hahahahaahaa! Probably doing so while sitting in the darkest part of the parlor/living room! 

I imagine men get jealous which sucks I mean who wants to be jealous just because? Sure some people like competition but when the heart is involved that is a game one does not want to play whether it is with their own heart or that of someone who adores them. Just as Chima said it's the 'Alpha Male' mentality that causes men to be jealous INDISCRIMINATELY lol. While most women are very particular and only upset depending on WHOM it is that is around our men. It's a complicated thing, this thing we call love and its resented fraternal twin jealousy but there are many things that cause one to be over protective be it having been burnt or fear of being burnt. At the end of the day we are human and it's because of this fact why I am against anyone having to 'suppress it' although I don't think one should be irate about it unless there is evidence of cheating. I think it's best to understand yourself and you partner by having a few dialogues and set a few unanimously accepted boundaries if you know you or your partner have an issue with jealousy.