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Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Lucrativress(f): 6:12pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
Oduduwa707:Sebi.. If karma was soo accurate, Nigeria will be a perfect place.... Cause evil leaders and bad people would have met their Waterloo already... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Munzy14(m): 6:12pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
Liyastitches:They make want a priority over need. It happens to both male and female genders. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by BluntCrazeMan: 6:49pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
Lucrativress:The reason she used UNLUCKY was because she doesn't even know how to decipher (from far far away) what lies below the surface of human beings. So, she counts herself unlucky for always falling victim of shadows which she always fail to see |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by djon78(m): 7:00pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
SmartPolician: I thought I was the only one that noticed it. There is nothing good about the person. This thread has opened my eyes to a lot of stuffs. My knowledge bank just increased. It has changed how I see some things 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 7:23pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
Ellasure:Yeah This captures the whole essence |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by dlordy100: 7:24pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
Because breakfast nah national cake e go reach everybody |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Lucrativress(f): 8:19pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
BluntCrazeMan:Exactly The good thing is that there's always that first instinct our mind tells us about someone that we tend to ignore. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Zorn: 9:49pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
Lucrativress:please don't you will be very wicked and vengeful |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:06pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
2braithe:You are a mofo when your wife has already had two surgical operations and you still go in raw. And then you are bold to even mention it in your last post because you paid a miserable bride price that you can do anytning with her. You are a wicked dundie United. You deserve all the insults in this world. Ma.d man. When that lady passes to glory, you will pick another woman. Ma.d man. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Aaaoo: 10:33pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
Hmmm |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:38pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
SmartMen: Haha.. you vex gan. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:41pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
franchasng: Very well said. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Stargurl20(f): 11:11pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
Same thing my mom and I were discussing tonight. There are thousands of good women who were unlucky to get bad men. Just wondering why life has been so unfair. So...bad.. And the few men that happens to be good, are given the bad women. Can life be any unfair than this? As a good man or woman, when u get a good and lovely partner, u gat no idea what God has done for u. I pray God blesses all good women and men out there with good soulmates. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by SmartMen: 11:50pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
nighter:It is annoying. These people think those doing good don't have the mind to be wicked if they want to. The chose to be good because it is the right thing to do, not because they are gullible. na so one stupid girl, because I dey show my good side, go misyarn say "if I want to bill you, I can bill you but I don't want to" she said those words because these people automatically assume that once you are good, it means you are brainless and that you can't be wicked... From the day she said, I started changing towards her... and I didn't hide it. It got to the point she said "You have something against me" It is just as if they prefer you to be bad towards them... a very idiotic sense of reasoning. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by SmartMen: 11:53pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
Stargurl20:Actually, it is because good people tolerate a lot and often let themselves down in the process. Good people allow themselves to be disrespected by being too good and easily accessible. When you do that, you are no different from a cheap item that is easily found around and you know nobody values anything that is common and cheap. This is why I advise people to be wicked when the need arises..., like be wicked to the point that even the devil will shiver. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by kepstone: 12:14am On Feb 21, 2022 |
Ayoolamax:Please, do away with her, no matter how much time you have spent with her and she been there when you had nothing. The red flags are there already. A woman who is disrespectful, does not regard you again and has stopped loving you broda. Respect is the language of love a woman who wants to be with you gives to you. She has even cheated on you. Don't think distance is the excuse..nope love has been flung to the window. Walk away no matter what you have invested. Trust me I have been in your shoes and after much prayers, God asked me to walk away, I was faithful, did everything and I was cheated on, disrespected and was insulted. In the end she went and got pregnant for another guy. Please and pls, walk away.. you will be fine. The moment a girl starts to disrespects you she has ended the relationship with you in her mind, the whole attitude and blunt disrespect is a subliminal language to end things with her. Please know how the psychology of a woman works. She may have loved you in the time past but not now anymore. Love is consistency. I have to tell my ex recently that she does not respect me and it seems I am forcing myself on her, so many bad behaviours she exhibited but I have heard enough from her. I just knew that this person doesn't respect me, I have to move on with my life. Mind you I spent on her little, I was planning to do more but I discovered that this babe is so selfish and very greedy, it's a about her, buy me this, buy me that, urgent money here and there, even when I was in a financial mess, I explained to the girl I wanted to marry, she never bulged, never showed concerned, never cared, never called so I got the message that this one is the wrong person to marry despite my investment in her. Please be guided, marriage is such a lifetime journey that you don't need to ignore red flags. I am not asking you to seek perfection in anyone because no one is perfect but I am asking you to seat down think things through, seek his face. I was praying seriously about my last relationship and I dreamt from that dream I heard a voice, she has someone else. So I decided to remove my emotions from the whole stuff. People are terrible, they want to always take advantage of people with good heart. My joy is that all I spent on her miraculously came in one day, so I am not feeling a pain at all. You have sown the seed of love towards her, please allow that seed to germinate in another, Because I don't see you and this girl heading to the alter with all you have said. Please be careful and be guided both by God and the wisdom of the elders. ✍️ |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Peskid: 12:54am On Feb 21, 2022 |
They easily trust people. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by otipoju(m): 1:31am On Feb 21, 2022 |
aklion: Please dont feel any guilt. Sometimes you have to be a lion for a moment just so that you can be the sheep that you really are in peace. I have this very calm and innocent appearance and dialogue is always my first option, then compromise on my part just so we keep the peace...but when you cross the line, those who have witnessed my other side prefer not to ever find my trouble....and this has nothing to do with violence. I will put you in your place and wont stop. It allows me to have peace of mind now. Some people really took me for a big fool and i played along for a long time. I cant stop being kind, generous, understand and humane..that is how i love to be but when the situation demands ruthlessness...i wont hold back and i wont look back. I still prefer easy going people cause i just hate unnecessary drama of any kind. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by kepstone: 3:00am On Feb 21, 2022 |
Farfalla: I beg to differ on this you are not 100% correct. My experience with my ex is the reverse of this put me in the ladies shoes and the lady in my shoes I was good to my girlfriend, started giving her without her asking going all out to make sacrifices for her showing commitment for 7 months not knowing that this lady was using me to catch cruise it was all about her and her selfishness n greed. See I have seen things ooo. I have to let her be because I told I don't think she loves me , I am like a means to an end. She can't apologize, she can't forgive, not picking my call, no responding to my message. Everything I did to make the relationship work it was not working. Getting angry over my own money I told I will send if I have. She has never given me anything neither have I asked her. She gave me attitude because of money, trying to manipulate me untop. She lost a good guy... But I know my wife is arround the corner. Her loss |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by 2braithe: 3:01am On Feb 21, 2022 |
PeaceJoyLove: You sound hungry.Drop your Account number let me help your life(no jokes) I gave you the chance to bridle your uncouth tongue your parents failed to bridle but you blew up the chance. My life,My wife,My decision! A cre.tin online can't tell me how to live my life.I can give birth to 50 children if I wish. When you get the chance to speak to your mother's wretc.hed sperm donor you call your father,tell him I said he is ma.d for having a sorro.w child like you. My last reply to you. Omo Ale jatijati!! |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Nobody: 4:50am On Feb 21, 2022 |
2braithe:I do not understand the last part but I want to believe that is for your parents. See, na your mama and papa I have "scores" with. When you see me real life, dem no born you well...you.will prostrate. It's only online you can flex muscles. Those parents of yours who didnt train you well are the ones I have issues with. That time, you will repeat all you have said cos you will know who I am. I can see that you are still a kid for you to even wrote 50 children. So, I should just leave you in your world. But if you are sure you are who you said you are, just make the mistake of allowing me to know who you are. Just be bold for once in your life. I will use you as a sample. I swear, your parents will face me on their knees. That your papa is who I want to even know and then we will see who is older then. Very useless kids of these days. In your presence, I will walk on your papa while he is prostrating and let him know he gave birth to a senseless boy and his fault is that he trained the useless boy to be useless in life. I have told you what I am going to do. You can only abuse back. But if you know you are who you are, show your face. I will meet you anyway. If you think you can use area boys or kidnappers, then you will know what you are up to. It's only your fingers you can use online. If you are a man who can impregnate a woman to have just one child, not to talk of the 50 you wrote above just show face. Then, you will understand. If I dont waste 20 good precious years of your youthful life, then, count yourself very lucky. Maybe if you have any of your grandparents alive in their 80s, you can have some mercies. Cos inrespect old age. But those parents of yours will cry because of you. I promise you. Show your face. You can run your fingers again....but just show yourself. You will learn Peace. Joy.love by force. You will take your woman like your real partner and equal. You will learn to cherish her, love her, and support her. See, I promise you you will watch well before you use that your useless pen.is by the time I am through with you. The question is if it will even stand again after I am through with you.. So, be bold....like I am bold....show your face. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Teymanhenry(f): 6:39am On Feb 21, 2022 |
Cos they love with thier heart instead of loving with thier brains. A lot of people misunderstand this |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Aklee4994(m): 8:24am On Feb 21, 2022 |
There are only joyful and miserable one in every relationship never think that someone is good or bad to you... if you want an absolutely relationship keep it with the dead or GOD.. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Nobody: 8:44am On Feb 21, 2022 |
pansophist: No truly innocent person can ever be hardened by people. It can never happen because it is their nature and they don't know how to be something else. There are truly good people, bad people and those in between. They can never change. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Nobody: 8:51am On Feb 21, 2022 |
Farfalla: THIS IS EXPERIENCE WRITING AND I CONCUR! |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by CsRockefeller(m): 12:34pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
otipoju: Summary of my persona. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by otipoju(m): 1:29pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
[quote author=PeaceJoyLove post=110404526] I do not understand the last part but I want to believe that is for your parents. See, na your mama and papa I have "scores" with. When you see me real life, dem no born you well...you.will prostrate. It's only online you can flex muscles. Those parents of yours who didnt train you well are the ones I have issues with. That time, you will repeat all you have said cos you will know who I am. I can see that you are still a kid for you to even wrote 50 children. So, I should just leave you in your world. But if you are sure you are who you said you are, just make the mistake of allowing me to know who you are. Just be bold for once in your life. I will use you as a sample. I swear, your parents will face me on their knees. That your papa is who I want to even know and then we will see who is older then. Very useless kids of these days. In your presence, I will walk on your papa while he is prostrating and let him know he gave birth to a senseless boy and his fault is that he trained the useless boy to be useless in life. I have told you what I am going to do. You can only abuse back. But if you know you are who you are, show your face. I will meet you anyway. If you think you can use area boys or kidnappers, then you will know what you are up to. It's only your fingers you can use online. If you are a man who can impregnate a woman to have just one child, not to talk of the 50 you wrote above just show face. Then, you will understand. If I dont waste 20 good precious years of your youthful life, then, count yourself very lucky. Maybe if you have any of your grandparents alive in their 80s, you can have some mercies. Cos inrespect old age. But those parents of yours will cry because of you. I promise you. Show your face. You can run your fingers again....but just show yourself. You will learn Peace. Joy.love by force. You will take your woman like your real partner and equal. You will learn to cherish her, love her, and support her. See, I promise you you will watch well before you use that your useless pen.is by the time I am through with you. The question is if it will even stand again after I am through with you.. So, be bold....like I am bold....show your face. Please stop making noise. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by livinbygrace: 11:57am On Feb 22, 2022 |
Farfalla: Read and understand the question op is asking.No person with good heart will exhibit such heartless characteryou just listed above. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Farfalla(f): 1:14pm On Feb 22, 2022 |
livinbygrace: You should also read and understand that I wasn't responding to the topic in general, but to a particular poster who raised certain issues I felt differently about. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by oazeez1991(m): 8:10pm On Feb 22, 2022 |
aklion: Sadly, I'm with u on this. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by Jackanda1(m): 8:48pm On Feb 22, 2022 |
Ikillbrokehoes:Have you heard about Assertiveness? Well, you can stand up for yourself, disagree, say NO, and express your opinion and grieviances without been aggresive atall. |
Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by DonroxyII: 4:11pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Liyastitches:There is different between Good Heart and Emotional Stupidity. People with Good Heart are always Lucky in a relationship People with emotional Stupidity are always unlucky in a relationship |
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