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Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by InkedNerd(f): 9:15am On May 12, 2011 |
Ifedisky: Ummmm maybe because people like you choose not to believe it does happen. Have you ever thought of that?!?! |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by vivaladiva(f): 9:19am On May 12, 2011 |
ohhhh but men get trumatised, u cant escape truma----u might hide it but it wld manifest its self in many other ways i give u an example, a whole bunch of nigerian buys r fucklicants, i asked my self yyyyy----suddenly i began to see apattern emerging----about 80% of my male friends were at one point molested and violated by women---aunts, cousins, house helps even their mothers----now they grow up and think that self worth invovles sleeping with anything that crawls or walks in skirts---he feel like a sharp guy because he has shagged twenty million women n stilll counting, an average naija guy has no qualms---he can sleep wiv ur sister---ur friend----ur aunnty----ur cousin----and marriage wont stop them tooo----u begin to wonder where this sexual deviousness came from, it alll started, when he was a lil boy being forced against his will to sleep with women, althoug he didnt put up much of a fight some how it felt coool in the crazy world that he grew up, he didnt think it was a big deal, infact most of his friends regularly got molested by their female watever---but u know wat, some negative energy has been transfered wether u see it or not and it has to manifest its self somehow----so they grow up to be sexually deviant, cant keep their dicks in one place and see sex in every possible creature-----u start to wonder let me tell u something---the nigeria that i know---i wont not trust my daughter wiv 80% of the men that wld come around me and i wont trust my son wiv 80% of the women tooo 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by CrudeOil1(m): 9:28am On May 12, 2011 |
Lord_Reed:Lol. Believe me, men do get raped by women. You would never know until you are a victim of the act, or you meet someone who is a victim. It happened to my cousin when he was in Nigeria. He, like you, never thought a woman would rape a man. |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by Ifedisky(m): 9:33am On May 12, 2011 |
vivaladiva:Those patterns you developed are imaginary. By same account, a despoiled gurl should be a 'fucklicant' too. And given the proclivity to rape in 9ja, then half of our gurls will be 'fucklicants' no? Guys sleeping around is rooted in primordial times so don't come with this 'na rape cause am'.cos we know it isnt. And by the way I had experience of househelp horseplay tool. It didn't start or stop me being promiscuos more than my mates that weren't so exposed. |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by Ifedisky(m): 9:51am On May 12, 2011 |
Inked_Nerd:Yea sure. The more I think about it, the less likely it seems. Very remote possibility. But then we have to pander to Legal mumbo jumbo and their attempt to cry wolf where there's none. The only possibility of rape lies in some quaint legal documentation gathering dust somewhere waitin for a day to be unleashed on some innocent victim |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by InkedNerd(f): 9:53am On May 12, 2011 |
Ifedisky: Good, continue not believing that's entirely up to you. The facts still remain though. |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by Tosinville(m): 10:00am On May 12, 2011 |
6 ladies in the neighbourhood sneak into my house and tried to tie me & rape me just because am handsome with swagger, i screamed b4 someone can come to my aid, i had to sue 'em last friday to get some stash but court had 2 release them this tuesday sayin, they're men admirers then i was perplexed Moreover, if its me[men] dat try to rape anyone of them, i'll be sentence immediately quoting 1999 constitution law, section 149, code 56 dat its crime |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by Ifedisky(m): 10:14am On May 12, 2011 |
Inked_Nerd:There's always a 'fact' when one digs enough. However, are the probability ratio of this enough to warrant being discussed in the same breath as traditional rape.Itz an aberration. Do not think I misunderstand you. I don't. It might have happened but believe me, a lot has happened in life that are not documented. Why? Cos they aint worth a second thought! So is this. Men, by nature are not built to be raaped. |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by InkedNerd(f): 10:20am On May 12, 2011 |
Ifedisky: There's no such thing as "traditional" rȧpe so please get that thought out of your mind. You say you haven't misunderstood me yet you're still here arguing. Generally, its not documented because a lot of victims don't come forward and the few that come forward aren't taken seriously. They are either ridiculed, made to feel ashamed, or ignored because of social perceptions. Because someone like you would easily disregard someone claims of being rȧped doesn't mean its not important or shouldn't be recorded. Like I stated earlier, its thinking such as your own that prevent people from either talking about it or reporting it. |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by Ifedisky(m): 10:51am On May 12, 2011 |
Inked_Nerd:There is. Female rape is traditional, male rape is more recent Inked_Nerd:how come we 'know' so much of this when it's not even documented? Folklore or pillowtalk? Inked_Nerd:women are subjected to the same harrowing experience at least in 9ja. I've been in court where a female rape victim was treated as if she was horse turd, yet women keep reporting and documenting rape. Are men scadey cats for shying away from doin there's or they just feel itz no biggie? |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by LordReed(m): 11:24am On May 12, 2011 |
@viva Make una baff too o! Even I no see I no wan the smell fishy sweaty coochie o! lol |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by InkedNerd(f): 11:36am On May 12, 2011 |
Ifedisky: Sweetie, there is no such thing as traditional rȧpe. Rȧpe has always been around regardless of the gender of the victim and victimizer. Once again, please go do your research before you say such things. Ifedisky: Well first of all unlike the days or the past, more people are now coming forward. Second, there have been information collected and each bit of information various from country to country. Ifedisky: Women may be subjected to the same questions but it is in no way the same as what man would experience. Because the Nigerian system is crappy doesn't mean that women shouldn't report these crimes. Whether or not you want to call those men scaredy cats is up to you, no part of what I said indicated that I was calling men that so if those are the words you choose to use then be my guest. Like I stated before, the reason for men not reporting ranges from shame to fear of reprisals from the rȧpist. People like you and your think only perpetuate this ongoing cycle of silence. Go to a police station in Nigerian and tell the police that you've been rȧped and that you want to file a report I guarantee you that you won't be taken seriously since you seem ti be so keen on stating that this issue. Perhaps then you'll see why it's either not reported or unreported. |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by Nobody: 6:11pm On May 12, 2011 |
Typical man rape story: ![]() dude1: Duude, this chick drugged me last night and tied me up and she and her friends came and rode me hard all night long. ![]() ![]() dude2: DUUUUUUDE you lucky SOB ![]() ![]() ![]() dude1: I know right?!! ![]() <dude1 and dude2 high five> <story ends> ============================== Again, when we start getting into the whole nutsack torture and butt penetration thing, THEN we can classify that under man-rape. But if it's just like that your first narration. That ain't rape in the least ![]() |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by Ifedisky(m): 6:59pm On May 12, 2011 |
Inked_Nerd:Dunno if our problem here is just semantics. Even the origin of rape points to male against female. As near as 2002 The WHO defined rape as ' physically forced or otherwise coerced penetration of the vulva or anus using a penis, other body partz or objects. Now the technical descrptn is penetration. So tell me how it is rape if a guy was not penetrated. Mind, some countries still define rape as 'penile penetration of the vulva' only.if they wake up tomorrow and decide to amend their statutes to include female-male rape, does that not make the initial law traditional? This ambiguities are wrought by changes in law but then we know the origin that why i say, man vs woman rape's traditional |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by sexylogan(m): 7:18pm On May 12, 2011 |
@2buff Guy, better don't pray to be r_@ped oh. And it's not a pleasant erotic experience if a guy is he victim. I know of some dude that was r@ped to death by countless girls. They beat him up, flogged him senseless and took turns riding him and sticking all sorts of things up his @sŝ. Once there's no consent, it's r@pę. |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by Nobody: 7:50pm On May 12, 2011 |
^^I don't want to be. I know what rape is. I am only making fun of diva's first scenario of man-rape, which sounded more like a funny day. Like I said, it becomes more so rapey when physical torture is involved. |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by MMM2(m): 8:13pm On May 12, 2011 |
r a p e |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by LanoV: 12:40am On May 13, 2011 |
women are fighting to be called rapists too hahaha , A woman cannot rape a man rather she can sexually assault or molest him |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by InkedNerd(f): 6:09am On May 13, 2011 |
Ifedisky: It doesn't matter what the sex of the individual is. Rȧpe is still rȧpe, regardless of the sex of the victim or the victimizer. The legal definition of rȧpe varies from state to state/country to country, and yes rȧpe is generally defined as forced or non-consensual sexual contact which can range from penetration of ANY orifice by ANY object, force or threat of force, or sexual contact against the will of the victim. Consent cannot be given [legally] if a person is impaired, intoxicated, drugged, underage, mentally challenged, unconscious, or asleep. If you haven't noticed, I have highlighted the portion that states force or threat, or sexual contact against the will of the victim, therefore the terms STILL applies to men. Like many words we use within our society, it has gone through changes to fit the the times, so unless you have been living under a rock of the past 45 years, I don't see how you could possible sit here and continue to argue as though you've made some actual sense. Like I said before, if you want to see how/understand why men don't come forward to report such acts then your more than welcome to walk into a police station anywhere in Nigeria and tell any officer that you can find that you've been rȧped and would like to fill changes. |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by pleep(m): 3:54am On Jul 10, 2012 |
Very very strange topic. ![]() False rape accusations are endemic in the united states, and i think all women are capable of falsely accusing a man of sexual assault. I've even seen a girl who i knew and respected actually accuse an innocent man of sexual assault so her boyfriend would not know she was cheating...the dudes social life was ruined and she felt no remorse. And naturally everyone believed her over him. If women were in the same position as men rapes would be of the chain... this is because while normal men feel a instinctual protectiveness towards women, females have no such instinct. Women also have what can only be described as a 'reduced sense of honor,' Its sad but true. As it stands plenty of women 'rape' (volunteerily of course) underage males, this is very common and there is little social stigma attached. You have to remember though, that when males commit statutory rape against females is is also voluntary. |
Re: Do You Think If Women Were In Mens Shoes They Would Do The Same? by wealthtrak: 3:22pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
vivaladiva:WTF... ![]() |
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