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Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by ahmedinho1(m): 9:18am On Jun 26, 2011 |
That's a fallacy. Fallacy of OVERGENERALISATION! The question ought to be "Why some men cheat?" 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by cold(m): 11:02am On Jun 26, 2011 |
queensmith:All i know in Africa indeed.You just keep going on & on about monogamy without substantiating anything.Shows how intelligent you are. The union, in marriage of two members of the opposite sex is a tradition that has been around since men were living in caves. So have extra-marital affairs. Since almost the beginning of time, humans have believed that marriage was important in maintaining a cohesive, healthy society. Another belief that was collectively held about marriage was the idea that the union was to be monogamous. Despite this belief, some human beings can't seem to live a monogamous lifestyle. Research has shown that affairs are as old as marriage itself. Why do people have extra-marital affairs? Some say that monogamous relationships are not natural. They believe human beings are not biologically inclined to mate for life. I say that for every person who has had an affair there is probably a reason to justify it, in their eyes. My opinion is that we set our expectations of what marriage is too high. When our expectations aren't met we look outside the marriage for someone who can meet them. [url]http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/infidelity/tp/infidelity_hub.htm [/url] 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Pennywise(m): 11:08am On Jun 26, 2011 |
nakedall:All the women on NL should be listening to you. queensmith: Which Romans? Which 18th Century? Which school u go? Which kain babe? Which. . . which . . . .!!!!! |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Sagamite(m): 11:21am On Jun 26, 2011 |
zayhal: With such comments, if I was your man (hope God does not punish me with such misfortune, this is just for illustration purposes), I will definitely cheat as much as I can cheat. I will do my best to chook as much women as I can chook to avoid the displeasure and dehumanisation of chooking you. I will do it without any shred of remorse. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by queensmith: 11:31am On Jun 26, 2011 |
cold: Right- now i see where you get it from. My intelligence is displayed by my ability to make conclusions drawn from research backed with solid evidence. Yours is copied from a statement written by God knows who and proven by God knows what. Where on earth did they recieve the idea extra marital affairs have been around since men were living in caves when at that time there was no such thing as marriage? Where did you or the author of this piece of trash learn your own history?? Monogamy is the natural form of human relationships, even before the invention of marriage men were living- one wife ,one cave. Diversion from that is a result of sexual perverseness and moral limits continuously being tested. We even see evidence of this on a daily basis- the foundation of family for example. Most only keep one best friend, we only openly date one partner, and even developing civilisations continue to outdate legal polygamy. I suggest you pick up some books describing mans evolutionary social affairs before you make cock based assumptions and try to push foolish ideas on others. No matter how many biggotted men try to further justify thier nonsense by pulling rubbish out of thier arses the bases of infidelity will remain the same. They are all a bunch of perverts!!! |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by cold(m): 11:34am On Jun 26, 2011 |
queensmith:Indeed.Yet you failed again to show that intelligence & the 'solid rock evidence'.Oma se o! |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by queensmith: 11:39am On Jun 26, 2011 |
You mean the way you intelligently proved cavemen without the faintest idea of a future invention called marriage still managed to have extra-marital affairs?? |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by cold(m): 12:01pm On Jun 26, 2011 |
Please can you point me in the direction of any book or article that lay claims to fidelity being a man's thing from the days of yore until recently?Even the Greek gods mythology is steeped in adultery & infidelity.I don't know the books you read probably the ones you wrote yourself but they sure are affecting your cognitive skills. Zeus was the god of the earth and the sky. His symbols were the thunderbolt, the eagle, the bull and the oak. Although he was married to Hera, his elder sister, he would frequently cheat on her with many mortal women. other goddesses and nymphs. He is depicted in statues and paintings as a middle-aged man seating on his throne or throwing a thunderbolt. http://www.greeka.com/greek-mythology.htm |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Hardeyorlah(f): 12:35pm On Jun 26, 2011 |
Men r polygamous in nature |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by OCCULTIST(m): 3:28pm On Jun 26, 2011 |
Some men cheat because they have a target of the number of women they want to drive in their hummer with before they die,i have this friend who keep record of the women he has slept with,now he is counting 465 women that he has slept with world wide,you need to see his sexual Diary,it has the ladies names,age,date he slept with each of them,place and country. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jun 26, 2011 |
@ALL ALL MEN CHEAT |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Nobody: 3:39pm On Jun 26, 2011 |
Not all men cheat. Call me naive, I don't mind |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by alexola20(m): 9:02pm On Jun 26, 2011 |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by ochayi(m): 11:17pm On Jun 26, 2011 |
We MEN dont cheat, we only help our spouses to reduce the pressure on them, else we go kill dem b4 their time with our innate and voracious desire for sex, |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Nobody: 4:57am On Jun 27, 2011 |
The reason men cheat is simple: there is some available woman who is willing to open her legs. |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Sholaf(f): 12:50pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
seyibrown:"GBAM" Well said. |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Sagamite(m): 1:08pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
What I know is that, women cheat a lot as well. Only amateur and gullible guys don't know that. It is not about so-called women's "discipline" or "selflessness" or "morals" that prevents their all-out cheating. Women will cheat more if they had as little to lose as men do. Even I am 100% sure women are more selfish than men, whilst men are more greedy than women. Both sexes have their good and bad individuals. The bad are way more than the good people. You have to be careful who you choose. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Oluschenco(m): 3:47pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
Wen dey are tired of missionary style & hence go for a beta offer. |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Bolarge1(m): 4:06pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
MEN CHEAT BECOS MOST WOMEN LOST THEIR SEXUAL EGO AFTER HAVING CHILDREN. YOUNGER GIRLS ARE MORE DRAMATIC ON BED THAN MARRIED WOMEN LIKEWISE YOUNGER BOZS ARE MORE ACTIVE IN PLAY THAN MARRIED MEN. THE ONLY SOLUTION IS TO STICK TO WHAT YOU HAVE AND MANAGE IT THE WAY YOU SEE IT. IT'S VERY SAD THAT MOST WOMEN WILL NEVER TELL THEIR HUSBAND WHEN THEY ARE NOT SATISFIED ON BED, BECOS THEY NEVER WANTED THEIR HUSBAND TO FEEL THEY ARE WHORES. BUT LIFE EXPERIENCE HAS SHOWN THAT WOMEN WILL PREFER TO LOOK FOR A YOUNGER GUY THAT SHE WILL DEPLAY HER SEX CRAZINESS FOR THAN TO HER HUSBAND AND LIKEWISE THE MEN TOO. HUSBAND AND WIFE SHOULD LEARN TO OPEN UP TO ONE ANOTHER AND ENJOY THE FUN TOGETHER IN ANY FORM THEY DESIRE. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by chika98: 9:33pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
Sagamite: I do not agree. Men are selfish in nature. Women are just a bit too emotional. Nice back pack. The color and the GQ feel of it 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Sagamite(m): 9:49pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
chika98: I will have to disagree on that. Based on my experience with women (and admittedly, this is vast ), you tend to see that women tend to always want things their way and will use emotional blackmail to get it if they have to. They are more subjective than men and tend to give priority to their own (e.g. kids), that is why it is hard for a woman to agree for the same punishment she wishes on others for their own kid. Furthermore, women know that women are more selfish. I think this is a major contributor to woman always having beef with each other and bitching on each other even without knowing each other. And as a guy, you are wondering "why". Men just get along with each other. The amount of times I am in amazement how my female friends are beefing the person they are smiling with is shocking. Women are not selfish in situations they know they risk public condemnation. Once you remove the threat of that, they are more likely to act selfishly without a shred of contrition. Absolutely zero contrition because . . . . ."they are the weaker sex" hence they are entitled to misbehave without consequence or responsibility. That is not to say there are no selfish men. chika98: Thanks. I just love the vanity of it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by coogar: 9:56pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
el-effizi: and you want me to believe you are a man, seriously? my question to you is when is your next menstrual period? |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by armyofone(m): 9:56pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
the cheating should be two way thing. not one person cheating and hidding things. thank God for where i am, you cheat, you are a goner |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by chika98: 10:00pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
Sagamite: Ha haaaaaaaaaaa very predictable Mr Sagamite but I don't want this to turn into a gender argument so I'll gladly leave it be. Selfishness is a human trait that both women and men possess. Let's leave it at that really. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by coogar: 10:01pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
armyofone: where are you? |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by armyofone(m): 10:04pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
place where cops are no jokers, you knnow i can catch you cheating and land you one hot slap and call the cops still for you. coogar: |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Sagamite(m): 10:04pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
chika98: I agree it is a human trait. So is greed, emotions, vanity, parental instincts etc. I think for some traits some sex have more that the others. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by coogar: 10:08pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
armyofone: you will have to catch me first. . . .and even if you do, landing me a hot slap will produce the same reaction from me. you call the cops, they charge me for battery and i counter charge(i will make sure there are 2-3 witnesses that saw you delivering the hot slap on my face). we both get arrested and it's up to us to drop the charges against each other or have a nice rest @ the po-po station. |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by MissyB3(f): 10:10pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
jennykadry:I agree! omo_to_dun:Briefly and neatly put! |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by chika98: 10:11pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
Sagamite: I agreed with this bit Then this other bit about more traits being more expressed in some gender than others. . . Hmm Right! now I don't believe only men cheat. The biggest thing is they always get caught. Women however can take it to their graves |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by dayokanu(m): 10:13pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
armyofone: Cheating is not a punishable offence under law. Thank God your hand cant reach me even if you jump |
Re: Why Do Men Cheat ( Strictry For Females) by Sagamite(m): 10:14pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
chika98: Hell yeah! |
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