Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

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TO DIE JUST THEY HUNGRY YOU? ONLY TWO OUTCOME IS SURE DATING A MARRIED WOMAN, IS EITHER YOU BECOME A KILLER OR YOU DIE YOUNG.

please no one should insult him he need a solution that was why he posted it on here so we can help with a little advise. And remember nobody is perfect we learn everyday and don't let us forget it is only peace of mind that matters alot.

Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

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Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

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oga na knack u wan knack either ha yanch or bwest dey enta ur eye

nyiamfrank:
If it's just to have sex with her, then approach her on a one time deal. Dating her for long may bring trouble to her, you and her husband.

If she agree, chop one time on code, because as you claim to love her, you should equally do everything to protect her marriage.

Many may not like my view but you should understand that we are mere human beings, whether married or not.

Haba bros lol
What if she was your wife? Would u say same?
Having sex with her once will not quench op desire, it will even make it worse, sex is another form of bond.

Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

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You need slap of reality, so do you want to sleep with a married woman ?

Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

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You have gone mad. My advice is stop going to the shop for a while until your madness has subsided then maybe you can return to work after that. If you don't do that then the madness will only keep getting worse.

Raalsalghul:


Are you telling me that there was not some effort from your part?

There was no effort sir.

Especially with the alcoholism. I just went for a party one day..ordered my drink as usual, tasted it and it became wierdly uncomfortable in my mouth..i couldn't finish it..even as other people gave me more to try..I couldn't and didn't drink. And that was it. Before that my throat would itch and crave for Vodka. Or beer...but it ended there. That was 2010.

Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

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Take your mind and heart off a married woman.
A word is enough for the wise.

LordIsaac:
Such a lust, which you mistaken for love, Scripture warns that it is tantamount to putting fire under your bossom and not wanting to be burnt. Love does not covet another person's wife. Scripture frowns against it in the 10 Commandments and also in Proverbs. In fact, Proverbs affirm that "... whosoever touches another persons' wife shall not be innocent."
Kill such evil thoughts... It is faaaaar from love!
And change your topic to: "I'M MADLY IN LOVE WITH DEATH! "

God bless you more abundantly my brother, you answered correctly nothing to add and nothing to take out from it......CASE CLOSED!!!

Bigman101:


no be die be that??

Hahahaaa!!! You are heading straight to hell oh!

Eya sorry you're madly under a curse.

Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

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Na mumu dey worry u

You are not serious o, you want to die before your time abi, no single lady to love abi?

Op, it's normal to have feelings but she's married which makes it wrong.

Solution.. Just see her as someone u need to help and that's all. It's a mind thing.

Forbidden fruit comes with consequences.

Ask Adam and Eve

LordIsaac:
Such a lust, which you mistaken for love, Scripture warns that it is tantamount to putting fire under your bossom and not wanting to be burnt. Love does not covet another person's wife. Scripture frowns against it in the 10 Commandments and also in Proverbs. In fact, Proverbs affirm that "... whosoever touches another persons' wife shall not be innocent."
Kill such evil thoughts... It is faaaaar from love!
And change your topic to: "I'M MADLY IN LOVE WITH DEATH! "

Iaff don push me down....

The first thing you must recognise is that you have done nothing wrong in liking her. Feelings can be blind a lot of times. Don't mind those saying derogatory things about you already. If most of them see a married young lady right now, they will still have erections.

Attraction is part of the human nature and it is no respecter of persons or statuses. Am I saying you should go after another man's woman? No! To thine own self be true. It is what it is, admit it and tell yourself that is not the way you will go.

P.S: I bet there are many in this comment section who have felt attracted to either someone in a relationship or someone who is engaged already, that is if we do not even have people who have been in your exact situation.

...you must be stupid bro....why are you displaying your dumb act to the world by disgracing Nigeria as a whole

Why bring tribalism into this...you need an orientation in manner bro....

Omo ale jatiti...

Ile laati n kesho rode

engrchykae:
you must be a Yoruba, adultery is your national sport.
Look at the nonsense you are spewing.

Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

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Oga that mrs alone before her name should be a major turn off for you. Abeg forget lusting after what's forbidden

My father gave me lot of sound advice growing up. but he told me two are very important among all the advice i:told me never to hit a woman ii:told me never to play in the garden of a married woman.
so dnt do it bro..olewu gan

Even ur village people will deny knowing u! What a janbolicious thinking

ayourbamie:
Pls stay away from married woman, you're digging your own grave.

Forget these love stories you see on tv or read in novels. They don't mostly exist

Do you have a bad experience

MY BROTHER YOUR IN LOVE WITH THE RONG PERSON.

Skullano:
See eeeeh. Lash, tear, bang, roll even swallow a single girls punaaaa but you see married woman.

Bros, RUNNNNNNNN

Why

Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

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Comot eyes from married women,dem go bit u die one day:
That eveil spirit of lust in u,dem go corect by slap or cutlass for ur head bfo u get sense

Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

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It is lust and not love. Just run for your life. Take your mind off her. Otherwise, it could cost you your life.

What's this one saying?

kingxsamz:
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Lol, this post is funny. It reminds me of the video I saw recently of a man who walked into his room after mounting a hidden camera to catch his wife cheating, and then he used that knife to stab her to death. The man escaped, but with serious injuries. As for the woman, he stabbed her more than 20times till she died. Everything was captured in that video. You wan toast married woman. You no like your life. Even to collect person babe dey risky, not to talk of person wey dem spend money do wedding and pay bride price for her head. Continue.

Lol this One is deep I swear, enough advice for the wise

What you feel for her might be love or opposite. What I know is having feelings for somebody's wife is socially, morally and religiously condemned. It's is totally wrong. How many plp can you yourself tell that you are in love with married woman? Kill the thought before something you will not live to tell happen to you .

I beg don't dig your early grave because a man fell into same pit few months ago and it was bye bye to hell as he fell into the trap of thunder bolt that was set for him

Stupid guy, do you know if the woman is interested or not

perambulator:


I didnt read your story but let me tell you this. Stay away from married women, it is the biggest curse you can bring upon yourself!!!! Everything will start to go wrong in your life!!!! ignore this advice at your peril!!!

I will take this advice serious