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Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by lonelyisland(m): 11:36pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer. The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind. We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again. Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found. What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead. At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving. She left, but her courage and strength is still there. My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going. Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo 423 Likes 30 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Nobody: 11:51pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
. Bread and tea wey everybody dey manage for breakfast, e reach your turn, you turn adviser Onuwabhagbe. . 404 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by ipobarethieves: 1:05am On Aug 21, 2021 |
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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Caramia2020(m): 5:31am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Money is like fuel, as relationship is like a car, it's highly needed in order to avoid unusual frustration. 155 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by SenecaTheYonger: 5:37am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Why is her family pressuring u for money? You could have married into a burden family lol 98 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Sonnobax15(m): 6:51am On Aug 21, 2021 |
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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by zexy2030(m): 6:54am On Aug 21, 2021 |
All a woman need to bring into the relationship is just her soulish character and cute body. But a man needs money to retain a good woman...she is not alone, marrying you. 46 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Starz825(m): 7:08am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Na only fool go say wetin op talk na lie ![]() Guys forget about the bad things we say about Nigerian girls this Nigerian girls that... Guy if you no get money you no fit enjoy life let alone a relationship... Abegii 349 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by DankemzI(m): 7:12am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Relationship needs care and attention, irrespective of her financial status you'll need your own money for self esteem and confidence to avoid see finish! I remember Jemi my lover, this girl showed me all lights I had to call her aside and tell her I'm not financially buoyant to be in relationship with you RN, Omo she started funding me till I found my foot again true love exists for real. Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn. 288 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Brunosamel(m): 7:29am On Aug 21, 2021 |
lonelyisland:I totally agree with you same happened to me 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by dhameelare(m): 7:41am On Aug 21, 2021 |
DankemzI:Na true talk oo Na u go turn atm for her younger sibilings 66 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by constance500: 7:48am On Aug 21, 2021 |
lonelyisland: No lies.. Secure the bag first 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Polynek(m): 8:05am On Aug 21, 2021 |
It depends, Moni no b everything in relationship 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Nobody: 10:32am On Aug 21, 2021 |
lonelyisland:You have an inferior mindset, that's why you think you must have money to stay in a relationship, there are women that provide for the house, to keep it going.i guess you've been hanging out with hungry ladies. Relationship needs both parties effort both financially. Stop feeling you have the burden of providing alone. Every body cannot make money in this life, but with two head, a family won't lack basic needs. 177 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by omoadeleye(m): 11:33am On Aug 21, 2021 |
You don't need to tell us, we are discipline and knew about this before, you are the one that choose to experience it. 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Mangekyo: 11:33am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Rubbish thread 10 Likes |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by wunmi590(m): 11:33am On Aug 21, 2021 |
![]() You just made an undiluted truth about relationship... Honestly, every relationship needs money to grow, forget if you have a good woman, even if you have a good woman, that money part must be constant... Yes on my own part, I have a woman who is over supportive, but as a man, you must also strive to make sure that your source of income must not dry up, because if it does, that your supportive woman would turn her back on you one day.... Even majority of our celebrities who married rich people still divorce to get married to more richer politicians and business men, because they believe money is everything, in most cases when you have more money your sorrow disappears... 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by BAZ001: 11:33am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Not all ladies leave cos of money, tell us the truth? If you don’t have money but caring and hard working even if she doesn’t respect you (cos money Na respect in Africa) she will stay cos of the care. Most guys jump into relationship or marriage cos they feel love is blind and over look red lights or from an heart break. Imagine a single lady that is naturally not happy, will go into marriage or relationship expecting the guy to make her happy all her life. Then she goes like I’m no more happy in this relationship. He doesn’t care enough bla bla bla. Make yourself happy before going to look for happiness mshewww. The guy will now start feeling it’s cos of money 29 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by CondemnBattery(f): 11:34am On Aug 21, 2021 |
It's not always the same for everyone though. Some people dated and got married when they where poor. Today they are rich and still together. Some dated and got married while they where rich. And today are no more together. Who will stay will stay, and who will leave you will leave you no matter your status or condition. I buy condemn inverter batteries 54 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by MrCover: 11:34am On Aug 21, 2021 |
To Me As MR COVER, Nigerian Ladies has nothing to offer me, apart from my mother who gave birth to me, Most Of The Ladies Who I have met so far, all of them has poor Mindset, they are not heading to the same direction I'm heading to, If I talk A, they will reply with Z. Money Is Not Everything In Relationship or Marriage, it only takes God's Grace for any relationship or Marriage to work out in Nigeria. Mr Cover, Is Currently Talking From His Experience with so many ladies here. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by pennywys(m): 11:34am On Aug 21, 2021 |
![]() Bro you nailed it Same thing am putting my head now But got to use style and run 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by DuduParaPara: 11:34am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Hmmmmm. Pressure from her family? Is she a money making machine for her family? Wait until you make it now, you will see that they will be the ones to tell her to come back. Talk about the issue that happened in acrimony 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by dragnet001: 11:34am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Abeg when the Mayoo match dey start? 2 Likes |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by saphiere(f): 11:34am On Aug 21, 2021 |
lonelyisland:Is Paul Okoye not having money? You must be sick if you think money can keep a woman. 44 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Nobody: 11:34am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Buhari is a bastard 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by NamelessOGBENI(m): 11:34am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Carchoice:No mind OP, no be so life be na.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Onyi22(f): 11:34am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Op just go n Mk money that's all you need 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by NamelessOGBENI(m): 11:34am On Aug 21, 2021 |
This relationship matter ehnnnn. Bro, your barney don jam another abobi wey get the raba based on say na money be una motivational factor, no worry, if things soft for you, jungle mature and the abobi wey she dey reason now no too hold, she fit branch back. Buh make I clear you as e dey be for here, OG! Chase the mulla whether you wan reason relationship or not and don't ever feel bad cause a lady left you, na because of poverty man dey hustle o no bi to impress one barney I'm not a red piller yet but i keep it real enough that realities in relationship don't escape me. 67 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Sonnobax15(m): 11:35am On Aug 21, 2021 |
![]() Well, personally.i think the op is so right on this one...And I must commend him for That... My banny called me this morning and was complaining about her phone which is faulty and how she's thinking about buying a new phone...I just dey try shift her attention from that side but the witch kept emphasizing it ![]() Back then in 2015,this same banny told me to get prepared in 3 years time that we must get married....Now we don enter 2021 which is automatically 6 years down the line and I never even consider about seeing her papa self let alone marriage ![]() This life ain't balance....So Op,na nothing but the truth you talk.. 32 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by arejibadz(m): 11:35am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Lol |
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by McOluOmo: 11:35am On Aug 21, 2021 |
[s] lonelyisland:[/s] Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind 36 Likes 4 Shares
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