iamtardey:
I think I'm going to stick with this no girlfriend thing, ...
All I do this days is just look big big yansh for street, appreciate dem, call Dem fine girl, smile and move on,.. lol

The other day, I called one girl,as she came up to me, I told her I don't call her, I saw it on her face e choke,..

Hahah bad boy na soapy you dey do

Benteazaa:
I met my wife at my lowest, when I say lowest I mean I was penny less, jobless. She stayed put with her support, brain, prayers and today I we are married, we might not be rich like cubana but we don't beg anybody for anything. Avoid women that only depends on you to survive and believe me you won't regret it

You are One of the most luckiest person on earth thank God alot, I don't think she is a Nigeria girl May be she migrated

aysnoopy:



You're perfectly right.
The babe I'm about to get married to now endure so much for me. U know why?
I told her when I was wooing her that I'm not financially buoyant yet. So if she will accept me, she has to think well about it coz I'm not forcing her to choose me. And also, cheating coz I wouldn't take care of her isn't acceptable. So she accept and stick to me. We'll be getting married soon.
What I'm trying to point out is, I told her beforehand that I'm still struggling and hustling so she shouldn't expect much from me monetarily

Another lucky guy tuwee

theForth:

And the same women will say that broke men deserve no pussy even when has a great personality.

Abeg make we hear word.

Broke men with bad personality are hated openly. When they get money, they still keep the bad personality and are hated secretly. Therefore, they are still being divorced.

Why? Deep inside they aren't men of value and have not improved their characters. A rotten apple will always be a rotten apple.

Get all the money in the world, if your character is rotten, the woman will still go.

That you think it's all about pussy says a lot. Even the woman you think doesn't know anything will know that's all you're after and will bolt at the most convenient opportunity.

Bishop dey do soapy nah abi bawo

Hassanmaye:

Hahah bad boy na soapy you dey do

femixville:
Our fathers, were they stable before they married.. If not for big farm they do cultivation that provides food..

Then sef, women only need food and few clothes, everyone stays in the hut, so far the room can shield from sun nd rain

This days, all this daughters of what I can't describe, I no know which part of heaven they send them from, con dey frustrate men..

Oga, do your best, na God dey reward man.. Anyone wey no won stay, mke she go marry God.. Simple

they came from the great beyond

Any babe dat leave me because of money palace when I get richer make she no ever come back o

BRATISLAVA:


Most of you don't work on yourselves. You think money is everything. The P-square man with a lot of money (even Bill Gates) was divorced by his wife.

If money were heaven and Earth in a relationship, they wouldn't be divorced. Most of you men in Nigeria have convinced yourselves you need money to buy over a woman, forgetting that you cannot buy emotions. And you don't want to know the truth in that regard, except sweeping generalizations. Get all the money in the world —but don't change yourself and no woman will stay.

This is what happens when men neglect true development and believe money will sort out their character and beliefs.

What do you mean by work on ourselves please explain better

I totally agree with the OP. This is something I keep advicing my fellow men of, if you don't have a Money just rest, until you make the money.

Don't go and put yourself in high jump. The lack of peace, embarrassment and troubles that comes with it is suicide filling.

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lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

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Stupid goat, how is marriage and relationship the same thing?

abbatoir:



Well.. tell me how many % of lady from wealthy home in Nigeria.

wealth is always not about money but the dignity to carry your self. Gone are the days I let poor family elders push me around when I don't meet their financial demands, because I asked a 70 year old uncle where he was when his mates were making money that he now wants to shame me for not giving him money. Poor peoples proud and lazy mentality is very bad to be around. Girls their brothers have nothing to show can never shame me. Relationship is for friendship and companionship which may lead to marriage not for poverty alleviation of a girl and her family. Her Toto na gold? Dirty things ..

lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

Smiles! My Brother, her exit May be a blessing in disguise. Don't see the negatives alone. Step on the positive energy that comes with this disappointment and prove her wrong. What does not kill us, makes us stronger. All the best bro!

Relationship people.

babyfaceafrica:
But Regina Daniels left her boyfriend and married her grandfather, you must be naive to think Money cannot get a woman

She said keep not get. Moreover, Regina never had a boyfriend. Som was just a friend.

nenyewrites:



She said keep not get. Moreover, Regina never had a boyfriend. Som was just a friend.

You believe this?

BRATISLAVA:


Broke men with bad personality are hated openly. When they get money, they still keep the bad personality and are hated secretly. Therefore, they are still being divorced.

Why? Deep inside they aren't men of value and have not improved their characters. A rotten apple will always be a rotten apple.

Get all the money in the world, if your character is rotten, the woman will still go.

That you think it's all about pussy says a lot. Even the woman you think doesn't know anything will know that's all you're after and will bolt at the most convenient opportunity.

I never said that.
Women broke shame men, heck! Even cardi b made a song about it.

And I also hate the fact that women think they do men a favour by being with them when they were broke, they can date rich guys for all I care, but its not a favour.

babyfaceafrica:
You believe this?

Babe that connects her friends to runs. You think she is a naive girl? Babe don tear eye since.

DankemzI:

Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn.

Sense go finish you there. Nice talk brother.

Akuruoulo:

Why the one wey get oil still spoil ?

Constant servicing is needed.

omoadeleye:
You don't need to tell us, we are discipline and knew about this before, you are the one that choose to experience it.

lonelyisland:

Bro. This parents matter is a story for another day, there are so many hidden truths we Nigerians don't want to tell ourselves about Nigerian parents.
Oneday I will write about it without unbaised truth, anyone that wants to cry should cry him/herself to death

Generally, Nigerian parents no try at all. And actually, many shouldn't be parents. Now a brutal test for you. Imagine the most idiotic, good for nothing, oloriburuku friend in your group, and that your dad is that guy when her was young

See the Nigeria they gave us, i mean back to our grandparents, how could you be so weak that you'll even allow yourself to be colonised? Even before then, how would you allow slavery ? And up till now, when power is in your hand, you're still forking shit up. When will you stop ? Please write and quote me, me too I'm angry.

Fifty years ago, Nigerian population is less than 70m people, and now its triple. Bad economy, but still forking and increasing population but not production. If they ruled well, magnoliaa wouldn't have been a feminist. Nonsense and ingredients.

nenyewrites:



Babe that connects her friends to runs. You think she is a naive girl? Babe don tear eye since.

Okay

BRATISLAVA:


Broke men with bad personality are hated openly. When they get money, they still keep the bad personality and are hated secretly. Therefore, they are still being divorced.

Why? Deep inside they aren't men of value and have not improved their characters. A rotten apple will always be a rotten apple.

Get all the money in the world, if your character is rotten, the woman will still go.

That you think it's all about pussy says a lot. Even the woman you think doesn't know anything will know that's all you're after and will bolt at the most convenient opportunity.

These women will still ensure they marry the man for stability, then divorce him later if need be. Some don't even divorce but just continue for the sake of kids.

From personal experience Nigerian women date fraudsters Yahoo+ boys, during this period they pray they find a legit man to steal them away from their current situation but some don't get that convinient opportunity.

The reality is that women want the good life, fast cars, paid vacations and the only type of men who can provide it at their early age are men of questionable characters. Except you want to date 40+ old men in your early 20s.

That's why women like Nina, Tania Omotayo, Nengi etc settle for fraudsters, character doesn't pay the vacation, money does.

truthsayer009:


These women will still ensure they marry the man for stability, then divorce him later if need be. Some don't even divorce but just continue for the sake of kids.

From personal experience Nigerian women date fraudsters Yahoo+ boys, during this period they pray they find a legit man to steal them away from their current situation but some don't get that convinient opportunity.

The reality is that women want the good life, fast cars, paid vacations and the only type of men who can provide it at their early age are men of questionable characters. Except you want to date 40+ old men in your early 20s.

That's why women like Nina, Tania Omotayo, Nengi etc settle for fraudsters, character doesn't pay the vacation, money does.

As much as there are women who like the easy life, the men they follow also like the easy life otherwise they wouldn't be criminals. But while we criticize them —men and women —who on Earth really doesn't want the easy life? Who doesn't like money? Who wouldn't want to be rich or have a rich spouse? It's not something limited to women only, because there are men who want the same thing but prefer to point at women while concealing their own desires.

But at the end of the day, money can't hold a relationship together. It is character that does. Even the richest man in the world was an awful husband and got divorced at the end of the day, due to his inability to be a man for his family.

Plus, you don't need to be old to have legitimate money. It's a common misconception that makes many men get into fraud.

Carchoice:
Bread and tea wey everybody dey manage for breakfast, e reach your turn, you turn adviser Onuwabhagbe.

I tire ooo

womenareapess:
my second advice to young guys, please avoid naija women with immediate effect

Those baboons are there to eat your banana and go

Better you date a foreigner than to swallow with shame with those useless piece of shiit called naija women

No value in dating baboons

Says a descendant of a baboon. MONKEY

DankemzI:
Relationship needs care and attention, irrespective of her financial status you'll need your own money for self esteem and confidence to avoid see finish!
I remember Jemi my lover, this girl showed me all lights I had to call her aside and tell her I'm not financially buoyant to be in relationship with you RN, Omo she started funding me till I found my foot again true love exists for real.
Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn.

or only daughter ,the pressure on them is high ,

Bouz:
You have an inferior mindset, that's why you think you must have money to stay in a relationship, there are women that provide for the house, to keep it going.i guess you've been hanging out with hungry ladies. Relationship needs both parties effort both financially. Stop feeling you have the burden of providing alone. Every body cannot make money in this life, but with two head, a family won't lack basic needs.

na u day talk this one,let me remind you we have less than 10 percentage of females who will tell u , Their money is also their husbands money ,

Acidosis:


How are will going to survive bayi?

Lemme ask on behalf of firstborn of other genders biko.
Happy weekend sir.

Poverty has ruined african women

Carchoice:
Bread and tea wey everybody dey manage for breakfast, e reach your turn, you turn adviser Onuwabhagbe.

Egbefuwere aba

successsam121:


Even if you have money and taking good care of her innthe past, but now water don pass gaari, she may endure for a while....with family pressure, she leaves.
Oh, she has eventually left.

Then what happens if after she leaves you as a man, recover and bounce back financially