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| At What Stage In The Relationship Should He Tell Her He Can't Have Kids? by omicron(m): 5:22pm On May 24, 2011 |
They are in a serious relationship leading to marriage. He is not impotent (so able to have s. ex), but he is sterile, meaning he cant still father a child due to a medical condition yet only known to him! He truly loves her. But when should he let her know of his misfortune- early in the affair? Later in the affair but before he proposes? At the time of proposal? After the proposal but before the wedding? After the wedding? Never? Honest comments pls! |
| Re: At What Stage In The Relationship Should He Tell Her He Can't Have Kids? by Seun(m): 5:25pm On May 24, 2011 |
Of course it has to be before the proposal. If she loves kids, then you should tell her immediately. You should not waste a woman's time because it's limited. |
| Re: At What Stage In The Relationship Should He Tell Her He Can't Have Kids? by Abbycrown(f): 5:34pm On May 24, 2011 |
The guy loves the lady, so he doesn't want to be selfish. He should tell the lady before the proposal & leave the decision to her. It might get ugly if the lady discovers after exchanging vows. |
| Re: At What Stage In The Relationship Should He Tell Her He Can't Have Kids? by obowunmi(m): 5:42pm On May 24, 2011 |
Under what circumstances would an able-bodied woman want to marry an impotent ? |
| Re: At What Stage In The Relationship Should He Tell Her He Can't Have Kids? by Nobody: 5:55pm On May 24, 2011 |
now. today. they should have already had this discussion. |
| Re: At What Stage In The Relationship Should He Tell Her He Can't Have Kids? by armyofone(m): 6:05pm On May 24, 2011 |
he should tell her right away. no need for mind game. there is still hope at least medically. of all the million/billion sper.ms that swim, one could do the job not thru the normal way. if he is in the west, he should sign up with a good ins company and go from there. keep hope alive. |
| Re: At What Stage In The Relationship Should He Tell Her He Can't Have Kids? by dayokanu(m): 6:40pm On May 24, 2011 |
armyofone: Me and you dont have any reason to worry cos I can shine your Kongo wella and you would born octuplets instanta |
| Re: At What Stage In The Relationship Should He Tell Her He Can't Have Kids? by omicron(m): 7:27pm On May 24, 2011 |
@obuwunmi, pls read the post well. It dint say the guy in question is impotent. |
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