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Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by seyz91(m): 9:04pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Confirm! Can't be said any better lilvicky68: 4 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by QueenVaji: 9:04pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
MajorOvakporaye: very useless human being...behaving like a kid 6 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by debbydams(f): 9:04pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Newboss:abeggi ![]() |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Newboss(m): 9:04pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Feminists are the female version of red pillers. No one love being used. 2 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by seyz91(m): 9:05pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
![]() Machinegun91: 1 Like |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by mirinder: 9:05pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
debbydams:how many kids would you love to have |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Crucialgem(m): 9:05pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Yes they do other thing, yes they engage in societal activities but still yet, there is that vaccum that needs to be filled, and once a while it really grips them. I am younger bachelor though but there are times I just feel something is really missing 1 Like |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Newboss(m): 9:06pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
debbydams: I did. I was referring to your comment and what the thread is about. Bachelors, not childless men 2 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by GeneralPula: 9:06pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Till now, I still don’t understand what loneliness really means cuz as a young bachelor, I don’t miss anything.. I have girls, I’m not just dating.. I live alone. I do all my things alone. House cleaning to cooking to washing to clothings to cooking.. I have Netflix and I have a Ps4.. So when people say they’re lonely, does it mean they don’t have nothing going on in their lives or what cuz I just don’t get it.. Having no girlfriend is no factor for being lonely to me.. 10 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Ocholu: 9:06pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oblongata: Do run DNA test on your kids bro. Envy ko. Envinus ni! 5 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by lexy2014: 9:08pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
AgentGoat: How did u arrive at 4-6m? Can u give a breakdown of this 4-6million? What's d time range this 4-6m will be spent? How many bachelor's can afford this 4-6m in Nigeria to do get surrogates to have children for him, pay them off after birth, hire nannies to be care givers...? 1 Like |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by seyz91(m): 9:08pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
I also beg to differ further sir Cuz you happen to know a person or two doesn't generalize it But truth be told in general sense! You can't really miss what you never had Oblongata: 2 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by lolu2019: 9:09pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Ocholu:hah,u r a bad guy.u mean the neighbor is knacking op wife. 3 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by suffering: 9:09pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Humanoid01:You’re right. I miss the feasts I partook in Heaven, the never ending battles in Valhalla as well as the unspeakable tortures of hell. 1 Like |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by princewarri1985: 9:09pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Bro you have a good wife you are lucky, because the way women dey perform now ehn, to marry even scare me more than death, so we older bachelors miss nothing because we dey enjoy our life dey go, peace of mind is priceless and i wont trade it for anything on this earth, nothing is more fun like coming back home from work everyday and meet the house just how you left it and no wife to drag the remote with you, just get yourself a baby mama and train you kid, fvck marriage 5 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by folks4luv(f): 9:10pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Although is it not part of the discussion but that your friend has an issue be is not discussing with you. Could be mental or physical but there is a strong issue and being choosy is a cover up Oblongata: |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by debbydams(f): 9:10pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
3 is cool mirinder: |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Kobojunkie: 9:11pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
princewarri1985:Abeg go see psychiatrist! ![]() |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by debbydams(f): 9:11pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Newboss:moti gbo |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Tedpgrass: 9:11pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
AleAirHub: You need to get occupied With a hobby, a project or charitable function.... When on getting home, all you can think of, is food, sleep and spiritual sustenance - - boredom is far away. The men of faith preach it.. Largely to the sisthren... Keep occupied. I'd say likewise the men!! . I accept that at the extended family or Owambe party it becomes a stark reminder when a much younger niece or nephew has his growing football team toddlers running after him. But hey such is life. . 1 Like |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by debbydams(f): 9:12pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Kobojunkie: 9:12pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
folks4luv:OP, see, it wasn't just me who found something off about the description you gave of that friend of yours. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Delph123(m): 9:14pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
TarOrfeeek:As in I don read comments tired ![]() Born child and train them don’t let woman pressure kill all because to satisfy what people will say , you’re alive that’s why they are talking ,if you die today no one will remember you again ,just live your life But make sure you get the big bag � 5 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Newboss(m): 9:14pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
debbydams: No vex me this night. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by don4real18(m): 9:16pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
It's not easy living as a not-too-old bachelor. I tend to reach out to my friends and their families regularly to rid myself of loneliness temporarily. I take their family like mine because I miss not having a family at this stage of my life. Knowing I was once engaged and went ahead to do the family introduction only for my ex-fiance to call it off over a ridiculous reason few months to the wedding makes the feeling worse. I sometimes find myself lost in thought. I know that one day I will get married and also raise my family. It's not easy. 5 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Epher: 9:16pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
[quote author=Oblongata post=105786886] I beg to differ sir! Merely seeing friends/family that are married then Bachelors know what they are missing. I have a very close friend who is a 43 year old bachelor and he has turned my kids to his kids... Dude calls me way ahead of time to discuss how he would celebrate my kid’s birthday (without asking for his help o) We (Me and wife) tried hooking him up a lot of times but he was very choosy. The last girl we hooked him up with (That appeared to be perfect. 24 year old Young lawyer Who just finished law college) he said she had incision at her back and that was it... He confided in me sometime ago that he envies me a lot, and that he knows something is missing in his life, which is having a family. Reason he had been treating my family like his. Truth is: Bachelor’s know they are lonely, and they miss having a family. |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Burgerlomo: 9:17pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
lilvicky68: Wa gbayi iwo bobo abi sisi yi ![]() 1 Like
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Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Lacash: 9:17pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oblongata:It all boils down to the fact that you’ve already had the experience, Bachelor never get any experience, so dem nor no as e dey be. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Babydaddymateri(m): 9:17pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Yinmu... Iffa feel anything, kin bend. Ordinary gf wey I get sef, I'm feeling choked - commitment is xoxo tasking if you ask me why 1 Like |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by chemgee: 9:19pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
E be like say na person like you dey carry shoulders up for church wen d pastor announces: "Please Men (i.e married males) wait behind after d service 4 a brief meeting" Why do you assume that Single folks = Lonely folks or unhappy folks? Baba, please better find a new hobby/project or increase your circle of friends... The idle (lonely) mind is da devil's workshop. Ask David o. 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by AleAirHub(m): 9:20pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Tedpgrass: Thanks for your recommendation, I will give it a try. |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by debbydams(f): 9:20pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Newboss:I'm not in my best mood tonight..u won ![]() |
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