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My Heart Is Broken. Committing Suicide On My Mind Now / Help!!! Something Is Bothering Me / This Thing Is Bothering Me Badly.. Scientist Help Me Please (photos). (2) (3) (4)
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Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by Jerewise332(m): 11:01am On Sep 19, 2021 |
HenryDion: Okay! It's not "just" I've admitted my mistake. What's bothering me now is how to pay my semester's school fees which is 25k but I've raised about 15k now. Hope I'm correct this time boss? ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by zexy2030(m): 11:11am On Sep 19, 2021 |
In need of genuine serious relationship with 1.a force woman in the medical field . ...........Or 2. A white or latina babe. A serious life time relationship. |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by Realashbobby(f): 6:27pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Nicenancy: I am in dire need of accommodation around old ife road ibadan as the place I rented/ staying is no convenient. No water, ceiling had fallen, the door is bad and rain water always flood the sitting room. This has been bothering me for a while now. All effort to get a new place around that axis has been futile. Somebody please help me. |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by okikiosibodu(m): 2:45pm On Sep 20, 2021 |
debbydams:Hmmmmm. Thank God for the person. Permit me to share an experience with you. Will try to split it into two to make it readable Growing up as a child, I used to have this two brothers... The elder one (who is about a year or two older than me) , let's call him Pius.... And the younger (who is about a year younger than Mel, let's call him Bayo. Pius is a brilliant genius, he used to help out with my assignments in sch and all. He was the first person that ever told me he preferred further maths to the ordinary Mathematics because he found it easier and simpler to solve (it's not as his he won't secure his A in ordinary maths effortlessly) Bayo on the otherhand, is not much of a bookworm, but the street kind of guy.. He has this hustling spirit... The kind that will be like.. Let us enjoy the present, tomorrow will take care of itself. There will always be a way out to survive the day when it comes. Me in my part, I knew gambling was never my calling. I never had the luck-not even the faintest of luck, its the way God curbed that act in me and till date, I don't gamble, same with Pius. But you see Bayo, he can make up to 1,000 with 20n or 50n sef.. This was way back around 2010, you should have an idea the value of money for a teen by then. Let me not bore you with details and go straight to the point. I woke up on day to Bayo's Facebook profile to see people commenting RIP.. I literally clean my eyes and washed it water sef, and came to the profile again, this time checking the profile name meticulously and even profile picture.. I couldn't believe my eyes. I chatted up one of the commenters, only to be told Bayo committed suicide. He drank sniper. He got to the limit of his challenges and couldn't hold it anymore. I learnt (don't know how true) he was trying some traveling runz that he put all the money he had, but didn't work out. He couldn't take the loss and he took his life. This was someone I was thinking of randomly few days before then, and considered him the strongest person I ever knew... Not knowing the mighty can fall. I avoided chatting Pius cos from childhood, he had always taken me as his younger brother and there is no way he won't remember his biological brother each time we commune. Me on my part, a phase came in my life, it was ass if nothing was working. I work and earn salary but can't account for how it got spent eventhough I lived no exavagant lifestyle. Wasn't womanising and definitely not a drinker but it crazy. It took my almost 8 months after getting my accommodation before I could buy a TV. I have always wanted to be a pilot but funds is the stumbling block. Being on my job for about 5 years now, no slssry increment for about 3 years now, and this are getting expensive at time went by. My msc supervisor was making life difficult for my with his style of supervision, though he is a sweet man. Everythng bottled up, was like a pressure cooker trying to release some pressure 2 Likes |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by Pumpumking: 2:47pm On Sep 20, 2021 |
Nicenancy: Pegi23 pucccccy ...I want some!! (no oofense) ![]() |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by okikiosibodu(m): 3:06pm On Sep 20, 2021 |
Cc: Debbydams I felt helpless and just wanted to end my life to let go of all the pains. To crown that, I lost about 280k to some investment companies (200k to Themap.ng, and 80k to Quinsessientials.... Money turn monkey wey go market but e no return). Crazy thing is/was,noone to hold responsible. They were doin fine until I decided to try them out. I had tried doin businesses on 3 occasions (I sold Bluetooth mouse, smart watches, and palm slippers), but only broke even. I was happy I didn't lose though). Everythng got me frustrated. I was tired of life with all that was happening Around that time, my contacts on their WhatsApp status were posting... Depressions is real, talk to someone if you feel depressed, check up on someone you have not heard from in a long time... Blah blah blah.. So I decided to chat up some of my friends The first 2 I told were my online female friends I was comfortable with, but they were all scared and couldn't sleep that night.. They kept on checking up on me at short intervals I broke into tears at some point and told them to go and sleep after they made me promise them not to do anythng funny that night. Pius upload a pix on his WhatsApp status and I commented Nd we got talking.. Then I told him how I felt.. He called me on phone instantly and told me some things I will like to share to you, that made me have a rethink. If one commits suicide, he switches to the other world, and will be dead to the pains of this world. It is the loved ones that bear the brunt. They are the once that feel the pains. Imagine the parents waiting to reap the dividends of their investment someday, only to get shattered at such bad news. Some collapse upon hearing such news. Now Pius said when his won happened.. He had to be strong for his family: his fragile mum who is now of age, his dad, his younger sister, his wife (she already got fond of him) and himself. This is a young man in his early 30s. He had to be strong for everyone. Can you imagine how that would have been for him, especially for someone that just lost his younger brother? When next such funny thoughts come you, remember all your loved ones esp those that care for you. Imagine them smiling and how happy they will be when they hear you achieve a ground breaking success (because you definitely will, if only you persevere a little). Now, imagine their expressions of they hear the crazy news about your enemy... Once there is life, there is hope. For me, I don't take the sound of depression or suicidal thoughts likely since that incident. Try to make yourself happy when you get moody. Stroll out, see a movie on your phone, talk to your close friends, watch comedy on YouTube (I have grown to love AKPAN AND ODUMA, and PAPA BENJI). Whatever makes you happy. You happiness and sanity is key. Nigeria is crazy enough on its own, Lagos stress sef na real wa. We still love you, esp on nairaland here ![]() #OneLove Sorry for the lengthy post 6 Likes |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by boomssey(f): 3:13pm On Sep 20, 2021 |
Money... children's school fees |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by Kenpaly(m): 4:00pm On Sep 20, 2021 |
Purifychy:I can help u through prayer, i am a stronge member of ccrn in catholic church and God has been using me to help many peopl.im 4rm eastern nigeria. |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by debbydams(f): 9:32am On Sep 21, 2021 |
okikiosibodu:hmm it is well |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by depato88(m): 10:35am On Sep 21, 2021 |
SimeonOTC: Pls which online biz are u into...is it forex? |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by biddostandard: 10:41am On Sep 21, 2021 |
qtguru:Where is your area |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by qtguru(m): 10:42am On Sep 21, 2021 |
biddostandard: Gbagada , during night time, there is some insecurity because no one is that vigilant. |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by biddostandard: 10:42am On Sep 21, 2021 |
Blessiing:will you come share with me |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by biddostandard: 10:45am On Sep 21, 2021 |
Worry plenty but if I talk am What is anybody gonna do about it |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by biddostandard: 10:45am On Sep 21, 2021 |
qtguru:it's everywhere jare |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by davbamxodun: 10:48am On Sep 21, 2021 |
as i no just get money............. asin babes no even gree look myside ooooo |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by qtguru(m): 10:49am On Sep 21, 2021 |
biddostandard:It's normal everything is expensive in Lag,so crime gatz rise, but too many touts and area boys here. dem stab one of my friend and gbagada na safe place before. |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by Uduakden(m): 11:39am On Sep 21, 2021 |
I'm dying ooooooo. A guy scammed me of huge amount of money since last year December. Because of that I'm broke. No one to help me. Please can anyone tell me how to get him. I mean the scammer arrested. Note I know where he stays. He is not picking my calls but he is from my local government. I know his family house.��� |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by The5DME(m): 12:05pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
SimeonOTC:cc udemzyudex 1 Like |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by SenecaTheYonger: 12:35pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
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Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by SenecaTheYonger: 12:38pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
aktolly54: True. Actually there are some people that are even afraid to help because you can become a target just by helping people. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by sheanzy(m): 1:44pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
SimeonOTC:oga shut up.. u make to a million naira a week and u no fit repair laptop... U think say na small pikin dey here 10k no Dy ur account, if I I Dy lie show me screenshot bastard 1 Like |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by Ade4all080(m): 2:19pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
I am into chicken processing where I buy live birds and process to frozen chicken, but I was frauded #350k when seeking for loan online hence business has been stagnant close to a year. I have contacted friends and family for help but none could help because the fund needed is much (#3M). i applied for a facility at Sterling bank closet to three months yet no feedback. i felt like committing sucid but when I look at my son and wife I have a rethink non the bills are pill ups. THIS IS REALLY EATING ME UP. if I get investors I do not mind.. see my signature |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by Perfectman91: 2:41pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
Thinking of how to get like 100,000 to support my business and really unhappy about this naira downfall as it may affect my sales |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by SimeonOTC(m): 3:20pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
sheanzy:Lol..mumu..I got new one and repair the spoilt system too..it was having board issue ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
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Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by seanjy4konji: 5:53pm On Sep 24, 2021 |
Have you gotte a place now ![]() Realashbobby: |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by Crazydamsel: 6:26pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Pumpumking: U are a stalker..crazy asshole |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by Davies25: 12:26am On Oct 26, 2021 |
Guestonline: Can you please message me on WhatsApp? 07038152004. Can't access my mail right now. Thanks |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by Ayrastarr(f): 4:25pm On Nov 05, 2021 |
okikiosibodu: I thought themap is now in business? |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by Nobody: 5:05pm On Nov 05, 2021 |
Nicenancy:I need $25m but I honestly don't have any clue on how to get it.. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Is Bothering Your Mind Now? by debbydams(f): 6:55pm On Nov 05, 2021 |
okikiosibodu:lol..when there's life there's hope 1 Like |
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