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What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by HotieTima(f): 3:52pm On May 29, 2011
if A girl was inlove with the older brother still she meant the young one and was that they are more the alike, unlike the older brother.

and then why do ppl call then sluts?

what's so bad about falling from one brother to the other? undecided undecided undecided undecided

or is it a crime to love two brother in one family
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by justwise(m): 4:08pm On May 29, 2011
Hotie Tima:

if A girl was inlove with the older brother still she meant the young one and was that they are more the alike, unlike the older brother.

and then why do ppl call then sluts?

what's so bad about falling from one brother to the other? undecided undecided undecided undecided

or is it a crime to love two brother in one family

She will be silly to do that, she will end up tearing the family apart, yes she is a slut by doing that and the younger brother must be a dick/head for going for his elder brother's gf.
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by danben(m): 4:10pm On May 29, 2011
that will not be good as it can tear the family apart if not handle with maturity
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by HotieTima(f): 4:26pm On May 29, 2011
justwise:

She will be silly to do that, she will end up tearing the family apart, yes she is a slut by doing that and the younger brother must be a manliness/head for going for his elder brother's gf.

but what about if they love each other man don't that count undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by justwise(m): 4:39pm On May 29, 2011
Hotie Tima:

but what about if they love each other man don't that count  undecided undecided undecided undecided

They may love each other but its pretty risky thing to do, its no-go-area. The elder brother 'may' not take it lightly that his younger brother is sleeping with the same girl as him, i mean. . the girl must be pretty silly to even dream of doing 2 brothers.
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by Nobody: 4:41pm On May 29, 2011
Hotie Tima:

if A girl was inlove with the older brother still she meant the young one and was that they are more the alike, unlike the older brother.

and then why do ppl call then sluts?

what's so bad about falling from one brother to the other? undecided undecided undecided undecided

or is it a crime to love two brother in one family
Sweetheart, are you ok? Are you reading what you wrote?
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by HotieTima(f): 4:43pm On May 29, 2011
rokiatu:

Sweetheart, are you ok? Are you reading what you wrote?


don't worry it's not me ooohhh i am single
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by Nobody: 4:58pm On May 29, 2011
Lets hope so lol.
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by HotieTima(f): 5:06pm On May 29, 2011
rokiatu:

Lets hope so lol.

i swear
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by femzy(m): 10:57pm On May 29, 2011
Hotie Tima:

i swear

I swear that you aint
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by iice(f): 4:11am On Jun 02, 2011
Sounds gross.
Complicates matters
The whole siblings sharing partners is gross.
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by Nobody: 4:53am On Jun 02, 2011
Go ask Randy and Jermaine Jackson lol.

Randy's wife left him for Jermaine after Jermaine wooed her. She had children with both. Those kids are now sibling-cousins. Randy and Jermaine have been estranged ever since.

That's one example anyway. Whether or not kids are involved, I find it risky and disgusting in a way. It reminds me of this polygamous family in the US; twin sisters married to the same man *shivers*

If the siblings are okay with it, then more power to them. I would never recommend that to anyone though. Borderline Oedipal love in my books.
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by MrsChima(f): 5:31am On Jun 02, 2011
There is nothing wrong with dating brothers. You all are tripping.

Hottie do you boo. kiss kiss kiss
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by 190: 5:34am On Jun 02, 2011
rokiatu:

Sweetheart, are you ok? Are you reading what you wrote?

lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by Dynamique: 5:46am On Jun 02, 2011
she wud come across as being cheap,but in d actual sense,it love coz love changes.
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by african1(f): 5:50am On Jun 02, 2011
Dating two brothers is disgusting. What is the matter with people now days? I really hope you are not doing it.
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by HotieTima(f): 6:58am On Jun 02, 2011
african1:

Dating two brothers is disgusting. What is the matter with people now days? I really hope you are not doing it.

lol i am not man i swear.

but i also hope it don't happen coz i wouldn't do it,

but is it wrong if it happens tho. undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by tosyne007(m): 7:46am On Jun 02, 2011
Hotie Tima:

lol i am not man i swear.

but i also hope it don't happen coz i wouldn't do it,

but is it wrong if it happens tho. undecided undecided undecided undecided

if u aint doing it then maybe it happened to someone close to ya. cos i really dont understand why u av so much interest in it.

anywayz, in response to the topic, it's really a bad thing to do. one should not even think abt it. it's a shame i dont av a brother/brothers (got sisters instead) but i cant even imagine any of ma relative dating same gal. i wont take it lightly and am sure rest of ma family members will think the same way. it's n-no in short.

Hotie Tima:

don't worry it's not me ooohhh i am single

abt this, am sure u must be joking, right?
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by HotieTima(f): 8:50am On Jun 02, 2011
tosyne007:

if u aint doing it then maybe it happened to someone close to ya. cos i really dont understand why u av so much interest in it.

anywayz, in response to the topic, it's really a bad thing to do. one should not even think abt it. it's a shame i dont av a brother/brothers (got sisters instead) but i cant even imagine any of ma relative dating same gal. i wont take it lightly and am sure rest of ma family members will think the same way. it's n-no in short.




well i have seen it happen and i don't get it why they are calling the girl a slut.

i believe she has done nothing worng, she just fall inlove with the wrong person at the wrong time, is it her fault that they were brother no i don't think so.


and thank you for your opinion  wink wink wink wink wink wink

i am not in such situation but if i were i wouldn't find anything worn with it.

i personally know a girl who has done it.i hated her for it but now i really don't think is that bad as long as she don't bleep both brothers, damn that will be nasty  lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed but this girl's one was just dating, my thread is how about if it's love them what happens

and don't give your self headache about my relationship.  wink wink wink wink wink wink wink
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by Energy48(m): 10:09am On Jun 02, 2011
Hotie Tima:

if A girl was inlove with the older brother still she meant the young one and was that they are more the alike, unlike the older brother.

and then why do ppl call then sluts?

what's so bad about falling from one brother to the other?   undecided undecided undecided undecided

or is it a crime to love two brother in one family

It is a natural thing that when you love someone and you meet other members of his/her family, you will be attracted to them as well. Remember the physical qualities that attracted you to the person you are with, is present in these family members as well. Those qualities may be even more pronounced, and you'd find yourself falling head over heels with the wrong brother or sister. Also the fact that their relative found you attractive means they are also going to be attracted to you in return. Thus it should not come as a shock to find, you like your partner's brother or your like your partner's sister and they also fancy you.

What you do about those feelings is what matters. Liking people does not mean you should sleep with them. Rather the fact you all have this attraction for each other should allow you to build strong friendships and become a strong family where you the new partner, is greatly loved within your partner's family.

If you find you are weak and can't stay faithful to the one you are with, but wish to have an affair with some other member of his or her family, the best thing to do is to avoid the family altogether, STAY AWAY. Because if you don't,  and you are caught or the affair becomes public knowledge, all that attraction they have for you, will quickly turn to hate.

Better to use your head and do the right thing than allow emotions to wreck your life and that of those you claim to love.
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by Dyt(f): 10:25am On Jun 02, 2011
Sha dont fall 4 d sisisters 2
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by MMM2(m): 11:17am On Jun 02, 2011
is ok if d both brother re rich.
Re: What So Bad About Falling From One Brother To The Other? by 190: 11:40am On Jun 02, 2011
^so you can eat from 2 sources abi undecided

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