I'v noticed that a lot of men like to say "it's ok. we can still be friends even though you have a man. just gimme your number so i can call you and hang out."

Men - have you tried this?
- how would you react to your girlfriend entertaining this kind of friendship

There is really no big deal in my girl having a male friend. I personally support it. Only an insucered man would block his lady from having malefriends.

Do such men imagine that every ladies that have male pals are cheating ? Or is it just to safeguard their interest, which they would lose, inevitably? In that case do such men think before them, their girl had never spoken to men before or must never have acquiantances, colleagues, associates etc ? I think such men need to be given tutorial on human relation. They won't last long in a beautiful relationship. And if they do, they are actually serving a life imprisonment.

@olanajim . . , .if you are right, then, why did you break your relationship with your babe last time?

Who told you I broke my relationship last time? You would be stunned to know i have never done that and never shall. That is being honest and truthful. I am a player, but I don't play the wrong ball or try to score cheap goal.

Did I hear you say player! Anyway, no player without injuries

yes and No!

In Life, you are either a player or a spectator. Even those who are spectator does get injured in the process of cheering their team. they are either partisan or they are neutral. thay only people that deasnt get injured are those who are dead. The injure we suffers must enable us to prevent futher injury and make us stronger and not disable. Only a fool plays to get disabled. only a fool play to lose. you didnt ask me which pat of the team I played? maybe we should have fun since that is your intention. go ahead Zig. i love it

. , lol . . . which part of the team do you play if I may ask

hey, this looks interesting but not for people like me to decide.
simply because i always try something new.

Zignor, you are interesting to chat. You've got a sense of curiousity with humour. I love that. To be sincere, I am a goal keeper! If you like you may ask me why. Then I would simply open a thread for you to have fun. Luckily Naija know how to have fun.

I don't like and I won't ask cos I thought you are a striker

That is why you must believe me. By the way, who told you only strikers scores goal? If a striker score 10 goals and open his flank, everyone one the other side score cheap goals. So just like striker, goalie plays a part in winning. You just need a winning team. Fortunately, there are some chaps on the bench yearning for action while others screams their head off cheering the players.

By the way, which part do you plays, zignor?

there you are goalkeeper can't score goal he will only keep the ball for the striker . , .lmao

Anyway, am a good striker

There is actually no big deal in picking girls on yr way. but be decent about it, even if you want to do it 4 , sake. Let's be human for once, knowing fully well that you have sisters too.

Zignor na coach oooo, Coachiiiiiiii

desgiezd:

Zignor na coach oooo, Coachiiiiiiii

can you hear that? that's one of the beneficiary

You seem to know football enough to believe a goalie can't score? When the game end in a draw the goalies are the heroes. Anyway, the point is not what you play but whether you achieve you goal at the end. I supposed you would be a play maker. Thank God, i have that skill also so that when the strikers had been badly injured and pulled out, the game would continue. I like your humour. It made me thinks. Stay glued to nairaland.

You seem to know football enough to believe a goalie can't score? When the game end in a draw the goalies are the heroes. Anyway, the point is not what you play but whether you achieve you goal at the end. I supposed you would be a play maker. Thank God, i have that skill also so that when the strikers had been badly injured and pulled out, the game would continue. I like your humour. It made me thinks. Stay glued to nairaland.

Beatiful!

and now back to the topic
  A REAL PLAYER DOES NOT ALLOW HIS BABE TO FRATERNISE WITH ANODA GUY!

Coach zignor??! Hmmm ? Is it Mourinho style or Wenger? Or a Fergie? They mean different thing to players.

Yeah let go to the topic. I didn't say she can fraternize with another guy. In fact no guy can tolerate that. What I mean is that, a harmless relationship like work colleagues, associates friends isn't a crime. On the field of play, we handshake our opponents and exchange jersey. Yet we must still score goal to win. When you know your opponents, you can easily device a mean to win the game. If you keep away from them, you would be beaten flat even if all of you are strikers. Let her have a degree of fredom. That is the only way you can know her fidelity and make her trust you. If you do otherwise, she would beat you behind your back. You lose, eventually.

[@poster,a litttle degree of freedom gives away her negatives.If u hold luv 2 tightly,it will die.If u hold it 2 loosely,it will fly!

good say o jare.
NA JERSEY THIERY HENRY GO DE EXCHANGE SEE WETIN HAPPEN TO HIS MARRIAGE

Then we cage it and let it fly within our own boundary. Visitors can enter but they can't take it away.

Then we cage it and let it fly within our own boundary. Visitors can enter but they can't take it away.

oh yeah i'm new by the way

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"Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." - Hebrews 13:4

Olanajim et al

What the original poster described is a case where your babe (wife, gf) tells a toaster (toto finder, potential fu.cker) that she's not available and the toaster decides to leave a little room open for potential consideration by asking to remain friends.

I don't subscribe to it anyday. In fact any further communication after that point is treason. Call me jealous if you may. I don't care. I quite understand work colleagues, school/old friends and such. But my policy remains that there is no fellowship between light and darkness. According to my people's sayings
1.  ere kini aja nba ekun se. (When a dog decides to engage in horseplay with a tiger, it will end up in blood bath).
2. Gbogbo aluwala ologbo, eran lo fee fi ji je (the objective of a cat's dance around the roasted meat pot is to steal some of the meat?).

Conclusion: my woman (or any reasonable woman that is not interested in a relationship with the toaster) should not hang around a playa especially after the toaster has made his first move. I don't mind if someone hits on my wife and toasts her but I will be very concerned if she goes ahead to give out her number after the toastpologies (toasting and fake apologies).

^^^ LOL so true.

Smh