Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by nurain150(m): 3:23pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
frozen70:
My dear sister, you don't need to regret anything at all from keeping yourself during the time you would have been carelessly pregnant till now that you are still waiting for a guy
You known what, your status and educational status are part of what is scaring some men to come and hook up, but that shouldn't be an issue for real men who appreciates successful women
Who marriage help ?
In as much as you have once slept with a man in your your life, simply get pregnant and have a child of yours before the egg gets finished
Also note that the care and responsibilities of that child is strictly on you
You will be glad if you have a child of your own especially at old age
Lastly, don't live your life on regrets, the past is gone what we are talking about now is the future
Dust them off and move on Lol, you think it's easy, who will give her that child, ghosts right and fake men. Shior. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by DeeMain(m): 3:24pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Streamz:
I met some cool nairalanders. Some very good people are out there. Good to hear that. We need such news from time to time as it renews our faith in humanity. Best wishes |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 3:25pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
duyox2004:
I dey tell you I should have done that. I forgot.
People it's from quora.... Op you are just an attention seeker and obviously craving for likes and bashing of women! You copied it and you couldn’t tell us you did so... |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by AbdulAkpan: 3:30pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Pathetic |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by BabbanBura(m): 3:31pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
mysticgal:
My toes curled to your balked attempt at a comeback. Keep looking for what will make you toes curl up and down instead of putting those eggs to the good use they are made for! |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by nurain150(m): 3:39pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
mysticgal:
I know but this same man from his digital prints detests the lgbtq community so how he switched and picked up a quora post is surprising ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Madam either man or woman, I know someone in that situation, so this is so real And it's sad. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Joshua0108(m): 3:44pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
You need real help call me 09063982769 |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by driand(m): 3:45pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
duyox2004: I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.
I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.
I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��
When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.
Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �
I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �
Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! �� can we talk about this privately? |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by duyox2004: 3:46pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Xilsbridalhouse:
Op you are just an attention seeker and obviously craving for likes and bashing of women! You copied it and you couldn’t tell us you did so... I didn't do it for attention. Simply forgot to say it was from quora @ least now you know it is. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by A305: 3:46pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
pocohantas:
Isn’t that the standard? Blame everyone but yourself?
That is why I will continue to commend Linda Ikeji for having that boy. She did what a right thinking woman should do. Not taking postinor 2 at 38.
If you want a child and you can cater for that child, by all means have that child. Even small girls of 21 are having their babies. Then a grown financially independent woman in her late 30s is somewhere asking “hope you didn’t cum inside”. ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png)
People must talk. When they are done talking, they will move on. With time they’ll appreciate the decision you took years ago.
I am 43. Not me.
No need for that. Menopause came early. Poco, you 43 but look 23 the last time you had your picture up on here. Good gene I must say or probably good diet. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by whirlout: 3:49pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Fuk off with your fake stolen story |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by chimafirst(m): 3:51pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
the guy that truly loved you in your prime you probably rejected him or threw him off which left u with douchebag guys as options. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Tajbol4splend(m): 3:52pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
SARSCoV2: Regrets!
You will be alone!
Trust me, it ends in regrets
You just be on social media forming artificial happiness Wow, sour truth |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Hathor5(f): 3:55pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
nurain150:
Lol. I hope you don't get married and also no kids till you grow old.
If you don't wish for that, don't be an hypocrite . None of your business. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by mentorandfriend(m): 3:56pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
I just sent you a mail. Kindly reply. duyox2004: I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.
I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.
I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��
When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.
Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �
I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �
Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! �� |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Empiree: 3:58pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Hassanmaye:
Haha just like myself bro there is this girl I love like die during our university days but this girl was forming hard to get, though I'm handsome thank God, but I it's because I wasn't financial stable then, now Aunty want me back NEVER! It's their problem when boys where Young we will be given free love but no they want to explore, until it's too late they will try to pin you down! Though it's there choice then so let them deal with it, now is my choice too Bleep love let me enjoy myself too 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by frozen70(f): 4:01pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
nurain150:
Lol, you think it's easy, who will give her that child, ghosts right and fake men.
Shior. A lot will do so Have you forgotten that, a woman will and can become pregnant without a man's notice, till the pregnancy gets to 2/3 months before she announce it. Even if the man refuses the pregnancy, she may decide to keep it |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by kiddkash(m): 4:04pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
duyox2004: I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.
I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.
I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��
When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.
Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �
I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �
Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! �� people abroad don't marry because of the fear of divorce. but just a little time, your own will come |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Tohsynetita1: 4:05pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
duyox2004: I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.
I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.
I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��
When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.
Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �
I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �
Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! �� Buy eggs. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Empiree: 4:11pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
omoharry: This write up was copied from Quora (an America site) this op just went to copy and pasted it here just to bash single women . It was written by an American. lol. Only Americans can comment on Quora?. You funny. This is nairaland. Have you never seen African Americans registered on this platform?. Even Caribbeans yet this is NIGERIA website. You weak me |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by rentAcock(m): 4:14pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Op send me a tweet @Rentacock, we have able bodied young men eager to donate sperm for IVF. 20% discount available. Goodluck |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Hassanmaye(m): 4:15pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
[quote author=Empiree post=107021959][/quote] Lol do you blame me? |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by omoharry(f): 4:16pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Empiree: lol. Only Americans can comment on Quora?. You funny. This is nairaland. Have you never seen African Americans registered on this platform?. Even Caribbeans yet this is NIGERIA website.
You weak me
I did not weak you . I read this story on Quora and I remembered there were not so many comment to the write up there . This is not a Nigerian story and it did not originate here. The op copied and pasted it from there . So na u weak me pass. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by naturefellow(m): 4:17pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Tayosteve: Bros, you are not running out of eggs. All will be well for you as long as you are not a simp
Have a stable income and get a nice girl. ogbomosho weed? |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Tajbol4splend(m): 4:18pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Anyahuruagu: I actually discussed this with my folks the other time.
The single lifestyle of our generation affects the female gender more than the male gender.
When you age you will understand that the most important aspect of marriage is actually companionship, sex is while you are younger but as you age.
You need a confidant, a partner no matter how hard it is you need someone.
To our single women out there, please use the opportunity now.
I have met plenty aged single women, i must confess that 85% of them aren't happy with their life. Singlehood ain't a good thing tbh 1 Like |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Kyf1: 4:18pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
You weren’t let lose and free with men just like any woman of your age that’s why you are still single
I have a woman which intend to get married to but each time I invite her to come over despite being close six over 8years she still feels reluctant and doesn’t know what she wants trying to play safe. I have other girls that are Serious and ready to get married which if they have the chance to get invites they will never leave.
Most single women of your age contributed mostly to part of their single hood . Some will never want to struggle with a man when they are supposed and some was never ready to settle and after flashily lifestyle thinking time is on their side until they lose it all.
I pray you get the right one soon |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by naturefellow(m): 4:19pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
OBIGS: I really feel your pain. You grew up to be a very obedient girl and its good, Just that the right man did not come for you. Hey guess what, it's not too late. I trust your not looking bad and you still have some eggs. thanks for making a difference with your empathy and positivity. So many mean comments here. Most nigerians don't know to STFU or avoid a sad situation, if they have no intent to help it. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by UncleJudax(m): 4:20pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Ow0eg0kudi: Hmmmm @duyox2004 You asked a question and answered it yourself. You are old (though not too old) and you're already feeling like this, so just imagine what you'll be like in 10/20/30 years from now.
Perspectives: some give advice based on evil intent, some based on their personal circumstances, and some will give you advice that thy feel will be the best for you BUT the ultimate decision is ALWAYS yours to make.
Àmọ̀ràn: You can choose to marry before this year runs out because there are men waiting to marry your type - full yankee babe spec with better fonee - and will worship at your nether altar for the rest of their lives BUT are you willing and ready to marry such?
The ball is in someone's court...
A kú ojúmọ́...ẹ dẹ̀ kú ìsinmi, ẹ̀mí a ṣe ọ̀pọ rẹ̀ worship ke. na to get paper and then go hustle 20 year olds. Stop with the false advertising. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by UncleJudax(m): 4:21pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
izzou: You are the first lady I'm seeing that's blaming everyone around her for her predicament, except herself.
the first lady? ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) This is how women act. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by nurain150(m): 4:28pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
frozen70:
A lot will do so
Have you forgotten that, a woman will and can become pregnant without a man's notice, till the pregnancy gets to 2/3 months before she announce it. Even if the man refuses the pregnancy, she may decide to keep it All still boils down to it's the man that will donate no matter what means |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by nurain150(m): 4:29pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Hathor5:
None of your business. I see you coming here again in the next few years to complain. Almighty willing. I would remind you then. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Empiree: 4:32pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
omoharry: I did not weak you . I read this story on Quora and I remembered there were not so many comment to the write up there . This is not a Nigerian story and it did not originate here. The op copied and pasted it from there . So na u weak me pass. I don't doubt what you said about the write up. That's possible. But the storyline itself sounds very much like female in 3rd world country. Americans don't have time for someone giving them advice like this. They waste no time getting pregnant at every opportunity they get. I'm weak because you sounded like nonAmericans can't comment on American websites. |