- dating a guy and spening ur  money/time 2 him becoz him promise u marrie, wat do u think about this. the guy in question is nt working bt he hv HND.and he is caring. (u are staying 2gether with him)

Well you can still give a chance, within a twinkle of an eye he will surely find something doing and all what he promise he will fullfill them

Don't be discourage that his not working "so how will i manage with him", so i crave your indulgence, to give him some time and always show him that you do care alot about him.

promised ma marriage so?

It is a very unwise thing to do. You cannot bribe a guy to marry you. Men don't like to be treated like women.

I would never let myself do that. Leave a woman watch my tv with my nepa, eat my food and fill my toilet while I leave the house every morning to go and toil? To feed an extra mouth. . . Buahahahahahahah. . . That won't be me

Ko possible!

well to me i think its all depends,

What are your ages?

How long have you dated?

Did he have a job and money when you met?

If you've been going out for a while, you should at least know the kind of person he is. If you are discerning, people will generally not be able to pretend for you for long.

There's nothing wrong in supporting him if it's only temporary.

As sistawoman asked, "How long have you dated?" and "Did you have money before you guys met?"

I would have to apply for a job at World Red Cross and learn how to just give, give and give before I offer all those goods and services for free. It takes two to tango

This service is rendered and common to a particular tribe in naija. _{hmmmm. . i won't say}

Ben20001:

This service is rendered and common to a particular tribe in naija. _{hmmmm. . i won't say}

YORUBAS U MEAN.NAUGHTY BOY

_{poster above me, pls I don't take insults without the Grin emoticon in front of it.}
if you say yoruba, you have your reasons. But don't expect me to say it.

supporting him is not bad, but the idea of you staying together does not sound right.

don't think it's right to live together when u are not yet married.

The guy is cute,ladies can do anything for a cute guy.

Youngpo413: The guy is cute,ladies can do anything for a cute guy.

that is some ladies because a guy is cute I should be spending for him and after he get his he will be spending on another lady doing all sorts of things to break up

prettythicksme: that is some ladies because a guy is cute I should be spending for him and after he get his he will be spending on another lady doing all sorts of things to break up

you are right sha but most ladies dont reason that way.

There are millions of guys spending for girls they don't even want to date not to talk of marry, but because the role is reversed it becomes a public topic ! I am sorry for the poor guy!