I have been dating my boyfriend for three years now, Recently, he has been calling his ex (also his first girlfriend) too much. I cant say for sure how long the call has been going on, but i noticed 3weeks ago, he calls her everyday at least twice a day >: He tags her in most of his pictures on facebook too (, I don't like insecure people and i also don't want to come across as being insecure, but really should i see it as being OK?

I once asked or should i say confronted him and he told me she is still his good friend bla bla bla and so i shouldn't get unnecessarily jealous Moreover i wouldnt be the one to dictate who he calls or not, I haven't addressed the issue further since then, but really I'm not comfortable with it

I have an ex too and we do communicate once a while,but mostly through facebook,

What do you guys think?

Your relationship probably isn't satisfying him and he is comparing what could have been compared with his former relationship. Hence his running to his ex. You should both work on whats going on btw you two b4 it becomes you three.

There's a fire on the mountain

run run run

This is the problem I have with this whole jibe of being friends with an ex. Its BS! It doesn't make meaning, to be very honest.

Its obvious your bf is still carrying a soft spot for his ex. There really is fire on the mountain

Thats a tough one gal, u might need to let go of your bf eventually. Dude still got a thing for his ex. U dont wana be the rebound

Mcleo007:

This is the problem I have with this whole jibe of being friends with an ex. Its BS! It doesn't make meaning, to be very honest.

I sincerely dont get that kind of friendship NOW with an ex of over 5 years

It annoys me more because i know the girl (not personally though), They broke up cos he caught her pants down with another guy, according to what he told me then, so i just wonder what could still interest him in her, I'm not against being friends with your ex, but definitely not a close one,

judging frm my view, y wud i be talkn to my ex for dat long, if not dat its ida we are talkn bout wat went wrong wen we were dating and prolly myt get back togeda, *unda probability dat ur bf fnks d same way*
jus play ur kards ryt

Get ur minds at rest and wait till he tell you he is no longer interested in the relationship.

beat him to his game by telling him you are no longer interested in the relationship, the shock will be very minimal to bear for you if you adopt this method.

Delete her number on his phone, remove her as his FB friend treathen to break her jaw and this one is very important prepare to be the EX

Poster

The end is near, RUN!

tell him to stop. or else you are out

Omolola1:

Poster

The end is near, RUN!

U are rt to be uncomfortable with him calling her twice a day.talk to him abt it from there u will be able to tell what next to do.

190:

That is what happens when you date KIDs as Boyfriends


Smh

Ya sick!

I'm not joking joooo!

Mynd_44:

Delete her number on his phone, remove her as his FB friend treathen to break her jaw and this one is very important prepare to be the EX

bhusayor:

I have been dating my boyfriend for three years now, Recently, he has been calling his ex (also his first girlfriend) too much. I cant say for sure how long the call has been going on, but i noticed 3weeks ago, he calls her everyday at least twice a day >: He tags her in most of his pictures on facebook too (, I don't like insecure people and i also don't want to come across as being insecure, but really should i see it as being OK?

I once asked or should i say confronted him and he told me she is still his good friend bla bla bla and so i shouldn't get unnecessarily jealous Moreover i wouldnt be the one to dictate who he calls or not, I haven't addressed the issue further since then, but really I'm not comfortable with it

I have an ex too and we do communicate once a while,but mostly through facebook,

What do you guys think?

start calling your ex 5 times a day as well. . . . .

^^^lol, actually tot of that to just to get back at him and make him understand, but the idea totally sucks, considering the kind of ex i have,

i will advice you to quit cus there is fire on the mountain,what are they discusing if not coming back as boyfriend and girlfriend again.run my dear

bhusayor:

^^^lol, actually tot of that to just to get back at him and make him understand, but the idea totally sucks, considering the kind of ex i have,

start calling any guy. . . . .tell your boy/f he is your ex if he demands to know who the person is.

You can also start by callin ME.

^^^lol, lets go there!

coogar:

start calling any guy. . . . .tell your boy/f he is your ex if he demands to know who the person is.

seriously, i wish i cud, but dont want to

Wouldn't even sweat it if it d relationship was just six months, would have backed out, but almost three years? hmmmn

^^

I think you need to talk to him again that you are not comfortable with what is going on. If he refuses to change, I think you have a decision to make, either to remain or drop out of the 3 years relationship. Shikena.

What exactly does he discuss with his ex that requires calling twice a day? Are they doing business together or what? I subscribe to being friends with an ex but some handshakes are beyond the elbow and this one of them.

I would advise you to show signs of cooling off this relationship because this guy seems to have eyes outside. If he sees a cool off and doesn't respond then you know it's bye bye birdie! A sensible person will realise his mistake and correct it. Lets hope he is sensible.

goddamn, look at the answers from all these insecure people in here. . . . . .amazing!!!!!

@poster
so are you saying that talking to an ex is wrong in your world?! if it is then i suggest you be an adult and simply sit down with him and tell him about your INSECURITIES. if he doesnt want to change his lifestyle then move on with your merry life.

funny how you expect him to not have a friendly r/ship with his ex simply because YOU dont have one with yours?! how selfish of you to even think like that?

the fact that you dont even give him the benefit of the doubt (aka TRUST) and automatically see wrong in his doings is alarming.
listen to yourself, even talking of ¨thinking of getting back at him¨ without any single proof of wrong doing. oh lawd!whats next?! he should delete everyone´s number on his phone but yours?!

Calling her twice every day is really excessive.

^^^imagine if they´ve entered into some business deal together and he calls twice a day to check on his investment OR BETTER he calls her because her parent died, thus to comfort her because she is suicidal or may hurt herself?

unless she has any reason to believe foul play, she shouldnt automatically see wrong in his actions.
if she has such a problem with him communicating with his ex then she should simply TELL HIM. et voila!