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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by BlackPantherxXx: 5:37pm On Nov 02, 2021
LifeOfTrigga:


Bro your sister go give you report, give me a try with your sister

Your mummy is typing her report ..
Just hard for her to see with my 2 hairy balls deep down her throat. grin
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Icon79(m): 5:37pm On Nov 02, 2021
Talk true, it’s you who started this thread. Or else, I can’t see why you’re obsessed with all the responses.

‘Fess up!


O pari

Iyaebe:
You've not really said anything to help her situation

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by MPESA(m): 5:37pm On Nov 02, 2021
Iyaebe:
Too many married women are becoming sex starved hence the increase in adultery. Men really need to up their game and live a healthy lifestyle.

Abi na you creat this thread.

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 5:37pm On Nov 02, 2021
LifeOfTrigga:
Boss calm down, if people dey talk Wetin dem no dey do. I fit use your yansh do practical and don’t quote me say I be gay I just wan make you dey wear pampers back ni
So you are also gay? undecided
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by LifeOfTrigga(m): 5:37pm On Nov 02, 2021
beautyfunke:
for your eyes now, you don comment be that.you need to reason before typing

Baby not really that, just that it’s somehow how men do take sugary stuffs like babies instead of them taking herbs and some really good stuffs for men.

Me Wey be say if I dey knack my babe I go dey use fantasy like say I dey knack all the whole girls in the world. That’s my code of not cheating on her cos once I feel that way any girl Wey I see for street e go be like I din Bleep her before and I go just comot face!

Since pussy Na to cum and pussy Na pussy you go cum noni
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by andyanders: 5:38pm On Nov 02, 2021
Op, with your post, you have been sexually exposed to all forms of sex games than your husband who must have trusted your person, who he thinks to be that good woman. Allow the guy be.

You only want to go back to your past life. I'm sure you must have started the game b4 this post.

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Nobody: 5:38pm On Nov 02, 2021
akeeng:
sex na food?
It is more than food in marriage
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 5:38pm On Nov 02, 2021
Sterope:
I am tired of people shitting on people who waited till marriage
Folks like that are typically ignorant of reality. undecided
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by lkillbrokehoes: 5:38pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
that’s the thing, I still give him head even though he doesn’t give it to me. And I know he enjoys it because he cums extremely quick and he tells me I’m the best he’s had. So I don’t know why he can’t return the favour.
Do you take care of your pussy? if you do take care of your pussy, I see no reason why he shouldn't lick there, or perhaps he might be allergic to sucking pussy.

I'm also the same, I can french kiss my woman, tease her, suck her boobs and all that but I can never suck a pussy no matter how clean it is.

Sit down with him and talk to him, maybe he's just allergic to that.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Calitoscassius(m): 5:38pm On Nov 02, 2021
when you were praying for and searching for a so called God fearing and humble man what did you expect? Now you want him to become your bad ass vagina licking jigolo. God purnish you dia!!

Sex is not a one sided work you have to contribute to the sex too. Don't lay there on ya fat bottom open a smelly vagina and expect the poor guy to turn into a por.nstar cheesy maybe your husband doesn't find you sexy and attractive suddenly.

Come and pay Jigolos like us let's give you what you want grin

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by MPESA(m): 5:38pm On Nov 02, 2021
Icon79:
Talk true, it’s you who started this thread. Or else, I can’t see why you’re obsessed with all the responses.

‘Fess up!


O pari


It's obvious say na she create the thread to troll men.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Tay20(m): 5:39pm On Nov 02, 2021
Advice your husband to seek the service of a medical expert. If that does not work, you should thinking of filing for divorce. Lack of sexual satisfaction is a ground for divorce. But you must first tell your husband that he is not satisfying you sexually.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Sofistcatdmoron: 5:39pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.
Send me a dm,
In the game if Bleep im an all star,
No one does it better than me
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Nobody: 5:39pm On Nov 02, 2021
JOACHINpedro:
I have already mastered the act. Used orange cap grin
Good for you
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by BlackPantherxXx: 5:40pm On Nov 02, 2021
AfonjaConehead:
Happened to me too.
We were so so close,I mean,so tight like we were best if friends. We only knew each other for a couple of months but it seemed we already together for decades. We were just like brother and sister.
But I really hit her bad when we finally get down but kissing was almost every minute,we literally sucked our tongues outta our mouths hehehe..

Op,do stay put,you are best of friends and you can work things out

Lol.... everyone dey talk, coneheaded structured bigot sef dey yarn.

Na lie jare. grin

Which kin yamlegged ifeoma or hairy chested ngozi
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by house10s: 5:40pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.
any VIAGRA NONI
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Nobody: 5:40pm On Nov 02, 2021
lkillbrokehoes:
Do you take care of your pussy? if you do take care of your pussy, I see no reason why he shouldn't lick there, or perhaps he might be allergic to sucking pussy.

I'm also the same, I can french kiss my woman, tease her, suck her boobs and all that but I can never suck a pussy no matter how clean it is.

Sit down with him and talk to him, maybe he's just allergic to that.
like I said I’m clean, I don’t think he would’ve married me if I was dirty as he is also very clean. But why can’t you give head? Have you tried it before?
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Israeldan1(m): 5:41pm On Nov 02, 2021
Lol this is just so funny to me when I hear this kind of case

I’m married too and also with a son
Have dealt with cases like this and of this nature or similarities

Your sex life or love vibe should be like new evryday and untirable


Dm on WhatsApp let me gv you the secret of it all 0909 428 1482
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by JOACHINpedro: 5:41pm On Nov 02, 2021
Eyinju112:
Wait let me cry small
Cry away dear. Let it all out.

Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Nobody: 5:41pm On Nov 02, 2021
Icon79:
Talk true, it’s you who started this thread. Or else, I can’t see why you’re obsessed with all the responses.

‘Fess up!


O pari

You insinuate things here a lot on nairaland, I like the topic and somehow we will all learn from it.Me and sex no dy quarrel so I can comment anyhow I like.I'm here to learn.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 5:41pm On Nov 02, 2021
Tay20:
Advice your husband to seek the service of a medical expert. If that does not work, you should thinking of filing for divorce. Lack of sexual satisfaction is a ground for divorce. But you must first tell your husband that he is not satisfying you sexually.
Medical expert? The man is a 10second man, not a sick man. undecided
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by LifeOfTrigga(m): 5:42pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
So you are also gay? undecided

Lol I din talk m say you go quote me say I be gay, you be think I just dey yarn about my sexual thangs. Na why I say make you bring your yansh make I help you dey make m leak, but if you get sister no problem make I do work on her she go give you feedback but I’m scared she won’t let me go back to my girlfriend cos I dey fear to Bleep anyhow girls cos some girls once you Bleep them good mehn Na then dem go dey find you up and down no wan leave you
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Ten06(m): 5:42pm On Nov 02, 2021
Iyaebe:
That's an insult to the husband

Which husband, the one that is operating on inverse?
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Nobody: 5:43pm On Nov 02, 2021
HazzanTazzan:


So going out to get a man to give it to her hot hot is not an insult to the husband ?

With the way this woman is going, if she doesn’t satisfy that urge artificially with a toy or get her husband to compromise, she will end up getting it outside at the slightest chance
She won't go out to have it but her husband must bend down to lick plate,its a must,he has no choice
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by RealAdewole(m): 5:43pm On Nov 02, 2021
What is your view about intimacy gadgets? Maybe that's what you need
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Israeldan1(m): 5:43pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!







Lol this is just so funny to me when I hear this kind of case



I’m married too and also with a son

Have dealt with cases like this and of this nature or similarities



Your sex life or love vibe should be like new evryday and untirable





Dm on WhatsApp let me gv you the secret of it all 0909 428 1482



Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by LifeOfTrigga(m): 5:44pm On Nov 02, 2021
BlackPantherxXx:


Your mummy is typing her report ..
Just hard for her to see with my 2 hairy balls deep down her throat. grin

Lol your grandma toto din come outside o, you no go come carry her cos me go make sure say her toto reach her thigh side
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by AutoChick4U(f): 5:44pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.
Seduce him
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Skmoda360(m): 5:44pm On Nov 02, 2021
Teach him how to sexx you lazy woman(lazy in bed I mean, have you ever try sucking his gbola before? Before telling him to suck you....that's why I love dating Nurses grin
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by bigpicture001: 5:44pm On Nov 02, 2021
If one married a virgin, the lady won't crave this wild for orals sex...

Virgins are the best

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by simplesearch: 5:44pm On Nov 02, 2021
Before marriage you both are of a different pole and polarity, attraction at that time is quite easy. But once married you become one, that is why marriage is both a phenomenon as it is a mystery. All the element dissolves into one, at that point the attraction may seems lesser but the latent residual energy it produces is so much that two of you can put a thousand to flight in prayers. Unfortunately this generation of ours is so wired to the point that what we think about marriage is sex, sex, and sex. Gods primary purpose for marriage is companionship not for oral or anal filthiness we fantasize with. Get your mind renew dear married woman, read Gods word regularly and fill your heart with virtuous thoughts and activities. If you're a visioner actively engaged on Gods word and profitable activities you would seek the deliverance and prosperity of your husband than him giving you a Mouth Action. No matter the sex experiment, position or how long the man can stay, the truth is sex can never and will never satisfy. Some married people may go into prostitution just to fulfill their fantasies about sex with multiple partners, at the end their lives are destroyed as they will never get satisfied even sleeping with 100 men that can last an 1 hour each. In other words, as married people enjoying each others company is a better choice than ruminating over an unending sex episode that usually leaves a bitter taste.

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Tmcruise(m): 5:44pm On Nov 02, 2021
Me as a guy, u don't just expect me to kiss you for 30sec and den slide it in..Who does that?? At least MouthAction must last for 20-30min before we start banging. If i bang you for like 15min,,, we'll go back to MouthAction it can last 3-5min..and we go back banging.. Keep doing that on and on, that's how to last longer in my own natural way...
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

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