Young lady seeks advice after her husband-to-be requested to have properties in her name changed to his immediately after their marriage.

According to a write up shared anonymously, the lady in question owns a property where she earns rent from eight rooms before meeting her man.

A few months before their wedding, she revealed to the man about her investment, only to be told to have the name changed to his to prove her loyalty.

“I graduated at 20 did my nysc and got a job where I was paid 250 thousand monthly, I was my parents last born my elder ones are doing well so one disturbs me for money. At my work place real estate agent came and brief us about land issue and how we can pay installmentally which I agree to do it worked it took me 2 years to finish the payment and I with God’s grace I have about 8 two rooms and parlour self con.

Am 28years about to marry TM fixed 28 of Dec. We had a date 2 Sundays ago were we discussed and open up about ourselves and secrets that was when I told him I have a house with 8 tenants in it, I can tell from his expression he was surprised he told me he has none but working towards it. He has a car, lives in a rented apartment 3rooms and parlour and is comfortable but why am writing this to you is that yesterday night my man to be called and before we end the call he request that after marriage the deed of my house should be transferred to his name, the account number to pay house rent should be his that is how a woman should be under a man I found it strange at the same time I don’t want to sound feminist to him please only intro has been made if am going to get married to him how do I convince him is not possible,” she wrote.

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Advice? If you are still asking for advice after this massive red flag has been waved in your face, then you have serious mental issues.

You be pikin ni? Ha!!! please don't ever change the name, any man thinking of this is a silence killer and barawo!!! He is after the property not you.

Let status quo before marriage remain. Nobody prays for bad thing. If u loose your husband tomorrow, his people may just take all oh. That's if he's from east oh. Ever wonder y nnaji with all estate, decide to be single?she no need wahala We uroboh,love our women. No person dey come take his Bros property if he dies.

She never see husband marry.

Na God even save her say she never enter him hand.

To the lady ... you are already a dead person... because the guy just marked you...




Two things that can save you...


1. Run
2.keep running



You want the truth ...this is the truth.

My advise is, dump the manipulating yahoo pig and go look for a real man to marry!

And when you find that man, don't be too quick to declare your assets!

Dump the gold digger, he's not Worth it. Infact no man should be entitled to your property. This is what you worked for all your life. Even if it costs you the marriage, that's even better. Tbh i still can't believe people would choose their marriage over a carrier in 2021. (Infact The idea that black people prioritize marriage over everything is still beyond me) and most of them aren't even happy in them unions...

Your man is egoistic and self absorbed, that's a narcissistic behavior, don't ever fall for that, sis. Dump his sorry ass.

If I ever get married and it turns out my wife is doing well in her own private life, I'll be very proud and stand by her, trying to take everything from her is such a dick move. Work for yours

The man was wrong for asking that you transfer the ownership of your property to him. Your property is yours and yours alone.

This is also the reason why no real man should make his wife next of kin nor buy any property in her name. See how all of us agreed here that you should not change the name on your property to his, I hope we'll also agree in the same way that no man should buy any property in his wife's name nor make her a direct beneficiary of his property and wealth? Not when a man is involved, you'll change tune and start telling us that in marriage, two plus two equals one.

She is lucky to discover the kind of person he is. If she has sense, she will run from him, a man who expects his wife to handover her assets can never make a good husband. Even if he finally agrees that the assets should still be in her name, with his greed, I don't think she is safe. He might kill her in future to take over her wealth.