Iyaebe:
Nannies are humans, she should shut up and mind her business.The least she can do is to stop living under the same roof with her since she's now a madam as well.Smart nanny lol.I'm just after the old man's happiness,that's all.

DriverX:
If they are happy together, why not? Is my mother supposed to get pregnant by me? That he's a driver, does it make him less human?

Styluss:
would she have gotten pregnant if the old man was poor?

jornwhite:




Preek are destined to be shameless that why you would see a full grown man stand in the middle of the road bring out his preek to unirate in full glare of the public, even the most shameless prostitute won't do such.
my point in short is; women have PRIDE & men have EGO ... if you check d meaning you will realise why his mother won't even think of marrying a driver as a solution for being pregnant for her driver. everyone wants a perfect image of a mother so it will hurt

Biglittlelois:
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How will you feel if your mother gets pregnant for your driver and end up marrying him

Biglittlelois:



Thank you, I don't know why so many people pretend to love it when in fact it hurts, I got over 70 mentions cos of my comment lol.

ringi82:

I think I understand your viewpoint. Its difficult to swallow as a female than as a male. The nanny has automatically become a mother in law to the wife. And by yoruba tradition (most traditions infact) , the wife is subject to the mother in law. Roles have switched. From a person who takes orders to the one giving the orders. We all humans with feelings, that sh*t will be painful as a woman who brought her in as a nanny . Most women will see this as a betrayal, but not the men, because they are less concerned about the role change as it doesn't affect them or matter to them.

DAVE5:



I was laughing my way through all the funny comments till I saw your, got a lot to say but I’d say in 2 piece

1. Truly life isn’t balanced
2. I don’t like the fact the father got married to the nanny but I’m not God, it would definitely kill the woman’s self esteem, besides there are several other women and /or nannies outside, it didn’t have to be his daughter-in-laws nanny but again; who am I to say?

Biglittlelois:



I'm not asking of your mum's decisions, I'm asking of your outward emotions and reaction to what she did,

The wife the Op talked about expressed her feelings on what her father in law did, which in her right she is justified, no one will be happy of such a scenario except we want to deceive ourselves, and I for one do not like to deceive myself.

If your mother gets pregnant for your driver, you will not be happy about it, but you just have to accept her decision to marry him.

ImaIma1:


There's nothing wrong with the age or being unmarried. What if she was 17, 18, 20,...? It's not a license or justification to sleep with anyone in the house.

What if the maid was married and she still slept with the FIL? Your reasoning is flawed.

I guess you are one of those who see people having maids as lazy. The woman has a business, has children and lives in a duplex. Can you yourself manage a business, children and still clean up a whole duplex? When you want to shame someone, stop and think first.

sampsonub100:
Of a truth no one in that situation would be happy,but my dear there is little or nothing she can do in this case as she cannot make decisions for her father-in-law.What you cannot change,you must simply endure.

nedekid:

So many people don't think deep they just talk.
Your narrative best describes this ladies predicament. People should but themselves in her position and see how it feels.

OyekuMeji:
What are the lessons to be learnt here. When you decide to hire a nanny, do not hire an adult nanny with black bush, big bakassi & big, succulent boobs.

You see, the Preek & Toto are designed ELECTROMAGNETICALLY to transmit surface waves that communicate even without the consent & awareness of the owners.

Now, let us use a mathematical example to explain the variables.

If the ratio of two variables (x and y) is equal to a constant ( Temptation = Preek / Toto), then the variable in the numerator of the ratio (y) can be product of the other variable and the constant ( Preek = Temptation + Toto ).

In this case Toto is said to be directly proportional to Preek with proportionality constant K (which is Temptation).

Now, if you do not understand the equation about and need a demonstration, I need 3 female volunteers from the major tribes: Hausa, Yoruba & Igbo - with bakassi & black bushes.

Biglittlelois:
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How will you feel if your mother gets pregnant for your driver and end up marrying him

MrPresent:
This is a true life story.

The lady in question is so confused on what to do.

Please advise her responsibly:

(Matured Minds Only)

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Good morning, I am married into a very wealthy home, my husband is the eldest child, they are four, 3 male and a female.

Last two years I got a nanny, she's 32 years, my husband is in charge of his father company, his father has houses everywhere around the world but he's leaving with us, because of loneliness, he lost his wife 12yrs ago and since then he refused to marry again, he's 65years old but still young, I have a supermarket, so my nanny cook and takes care of the home while I'm away, my nanny has been sleeping with my father in-law but I didn't know, March this year we found out she's pregnant and she said it was papa that was responsible, when I ask her how long she has been sleeping with him she said since last year.

I was shouting at her when my husband shut me up that I shouldn't talk to her like that, that she's not a child, my own house help! When my husband talk to his father about it, he said the girl, that is my nanny has been his companion that he wants to marry her, mogbe I said over my dead body, my own maid, instead of my husband to be on my side he said if marrying the girl will make his father Happy that he has his support, the house we are living is build by my father in-law, it's a duplex, Mummy as am writing you my husband and his brothers followed my father in-law to pay my nanny dowry, they came back yesterday.

I didn't go with the children because I can't Believe my father in-law stoop so low to marry my maid when there are other women out there, last night I was talking to my husband and he told me to stop referring her as my nanny that she's now Married to his father therefore I should be calling her "Aunty mi", and my kids who usually call her Aunty should start calling her "Mummy", and I asked him what will she be calling me, he said anything she likes.

I am just here crying, someone I brought into my home has now turned madam over me, what should I do, and I can't tell my husband to rent another apartment when he has a duplex, papa can't leave either because he want to be close to his son, how long can I take this, please I need a. dvice. Thanks. Married for 10years.

What a Life!

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What Are Your Thoughts?

She would be in the comment section reading.

BRATISLAVA:


The same men who lament women sleeping with drivers are suddenly in support of it.

People are so insincere. Suddenly everyone is going to accept such an incident and cheer it on.

Why haven't more wealthy people married the street sweepers, the vulcanizers? Aren't they humans, too?

Same forum that a man said he couldn't marry a girl because she didn't go to the university, and other men (and even women) came to support his decision to marry someone more educated/in his class? The same people who are against class mixing?? Same story repeats itself daily and this is suddenly their reaction.

Lol.

fattprince:

It's not easy, but let everyone move on already. I mean she's human too. What if the maid went to the supermarket and met a richer man her status would still be elevated. I understand, best thing for her is to show her mother-in-law respect and demand respect from her too and let the world continue to spin. Well time heals all wound. With time she will be alright.

MrPresent:
This is a true life story.

The lady in question is so confused on what to do.

Please advise her responsibly:

(Matured Minds Only)

*************************************

Good morning, I am married into a very wealthy home, my husband is the eldest child, they are four, 3 male and a female.

Last two years I got a nanny, she's 32 years, my husband is in charge of his father company, his father has houses everywhere around the world but he's leaving with us, because of loneliness, he lost his wife 12yrs ago and since then he refused to marry again, he's 65years old but still young, I have a supermarket, so my nanny cook and takes care of the home while I'm away, my nanny has been sleeping with my father in-law but I didn't know, March this year we found out she's pregnant and she said it was papa that was responsible, when I ask her how long she has been sleeping with him she said since last year.

I was shouting at her when my husband shut me up that I shouldn't talk to her like that, that she's not a child, my own house help! When my husband talk to his father about it, he said the girl, that is my nanny has been his companion that he wants to marry her, mogbe I said over my dead body, my own maid, instead of my husband to be on my side he said if marrying the girl will make his father Happy that he has his support, the house we are living is build by my father in-law, it's a duplex, Mummy as am writing you my husband and his brothers followed my father in-law to pay my nanny dowry, they came back yesterday.

I didn't go with the children because I can't Believe my father in-law stoop so low to marry my maid when there are other women out there, last night I was talking to my husband and he told me to stop referring her as my nanny that she's now Married to his father therefore I should be calling her "Aunty mi", and my kids who usually call her Aunty should start calling her "Mummy", and I asked him what will she be calling me, he said anything she likes.

I am just here crying, someone I brought into my home has now turned madam over me, what should I do, and I can't tell my husband to rent another apartment when he has a duplex, papa can't leave either because he want to be close to his son, how long can I take this, please I need advice. Thanks. Married for 10years.

What a Life!

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What Are Your Thoughts?

She would be in the comment section reading.

daddytime:
Lol

Overtake don overtake, overtake.

Overtaking is allowed, madam.

The first shall be the last, and the last.....?