Munzy14:

Smh...I mahu m sha..


But why ujoor na eji atu kariri umu nwaanyi ma ya bia na umu ihe ndia?

Owuhu ujo.

Ihe no na ilum di na nwaanyi, owudi ihe gbasara nani ha abuo.

Righteousness2:
She was Absolutely right! That is How it is meant to be.

Except you wanna Deceive yourself,You cannot Profess JESUS Christ and leave that out.
Culture cannot substitute the Place of the Church.
We are Belivers in Christ and until you are wedded before the Body of Christ you don't have a Complete Marriage.

That is Exactly what happened for my sisters.

These things are known right from the introduction.

I'm also a believer in Jesus Christ, so please mention one place in the Bible where church wedding was mentioned?

While you are searching to educate some of us, do check out this link https://www.weddingchaplain.com/post/history-of-church-weddings

Righteousness2:
She was Absolutely right! That is How it is meant to be.

Except you wanna Deceive yourself,You cannot Profess JESUS Christ and leave that out.
Culture cannot substitute the Place of the Church.
We are Belivers in Christ and until you are wedded before the Body of Christ you don't have a Complete Marriage.

That is Exactly what happened for my sisters.

These things are known right from the introduction.

I thought you had sense

This topic just made me recall a former neighbor. After paying bride price and doing traditional wedding, the wife refused to move in for over a year, because they had not done church wedding.
To say i was disappointed is an understatement.

Mariangeles:


Owuhu ujo.

Ihe no na ilum di na nwaanyi, owudi ihe gbasara nani ha abuo.

Abii na...Yes but o nwere ebe di na nwunye ga ekwu ihe ha choro, oto ha shiri choro ya.


Okwa ncheta omumu gi wu 15th ka owu di December?

yuping:

Na you talk am ooo, this table u dey shake sooo

Naso oooo

ogascomax:



You will need to understand the difference between the old testament and the new testament. The old testament is more about Israel while the new testament is about the Church. You will have to come to the presence of God to bless your marriage. You need to know that you are more a Christian than a traditional man. The Jew rejected Christ because of their tradition.

Kindly point to any place in the New testament to back up your claims!!!

ogascomax:


The new testament did not really deal with the issue of marriage in a clear terms. But the Bible let us know that when the spirit of truth shall come he shall guide us into all truth and he will teach us all things. Christ is also our wisdom. Through the wisdom of God we understand some things or subject that are not actually stated in the scripture that is why we have the Holy spirit. When Paul speaks about marriage in Corinthians he did not deal with the process rather than encouraging singles to either get married or remain single.

So you won add wetin no dey for Bible Baba take time ooo!!

BabaIbo:
This post is for intending grooms.

I made this post because it was one of the major reasons I parted with my ex(it was a serious relationship) few years ago, then I wasn't financially stable as I am now, so my decision was inline with my capability then. She told me she won't move in with me unless I do church wedding even after the trad. and she was serious about it. She wasn't ready to reason with me.
Considering the fact that majority of the men( those within the marriageable age range and above but are not financially stable enough to run everything at once) have the plan of doing the white wedding first, later on do the church wedding when they are more financially stable.

This led me to running a check recently and I find out that in some homes or families, they don't allow their daughters to move in with their husbands even after the men have paid their bride prices, until the church(or white) wedding has been done.

Dear single men, what do you think about this?
Can you cope with it until you're ready for your church wedding?

To the married ones, did you experience this?
How were you able to handle it?

MODs, please do the needful.

Nigerians are actually plain intelligent by half. This religion we carry on our heads so, hmmm. Why do we always want to be more Christian than Christ himself? Oyibo people dey do African native/ traditional wedding? So why marry one woman twice in the name of Christianity?
The so called white wedding is the traditional wedding of the whites, I don't see them duplicating that ceremony but here, if possible, for any stupid reason we can have three ceremonial weddings sef.
As far as I know, the only wedding (valid) as Africans is the one that involves paying of bride price. All these churchous things is a figment of poor quality imagination.
If the church (white wedding) is that important, do away with the traditional one. Any girl or family who prevents their daughters from being with a man who has lawfully married (paid her bride price) is evil and should be abstained from. I so move.

Munzy14:

Abii na...Yes but o nwere ebe di na nwunye ga ekwu ihe ha choro, oto ha shiri choro ya.


Okwa ncheta omumu gi wu 15th ka owu di December?

True.


Owu ya.
Happy new week.

Mariangeles:


True.


Owu ya.
Happy new week.

Today?

Munzy14:

Today?

Mba. Next month.

Mariangeles:


Mba. Next month.

Thats cool...it crossed my mind yesterday, I was thinking na owu this month...

December ndi amuru n'oge oriri

Munzy14:

Thats cool...it crossed my mind yesterday, I was thinking na owu this month...

December ndi amuru n'oge oriri

December born are many in my family, so our celebration for the season usually starts early.

Mariangeles:


December born are many in my family, so our celebration for the season usually starts early.

Interesting!

I wonder how couples do it...Same as french footballer griezman..All his kids born same month or so.

My family wu interval of two months except nke last that follows second.

Mpa..nov
Mu...jan
2nd..march.
Last...April.
3rd...june
Mma..August.

Munzy14:

Interesting!

I wonder how couples do it...Same as french footballer griezman..All his kids born same month or so.

My family wu interval of two months except nke last that follows second.

Mpa..nov
Mu...jan
2nd..march.
Last...April.
3rd...june
Mma..August.

I wonder how they do it o.

Sometimes, I just wonder how my mum kept having babies in the month of December.

Mariangeles:


I wonder how they do it o.

Sometimes, I just wonder how my mum kept having babies in the month of December.

Definitely from nice planing...it means the woman took in around feb/march/April..Then carry it through the cool raining seasonings, and come down in the cooler dry season.

It is seriously stressful seeing pregnant women in the hotter part of the year...Jan- March..The heat is extreme.

O diro easy sha. But worth it.

Munzy14:

Definitely from nice planing...it means the woman took in around feb/march/April..Then carry it through the cool raining seasonings, and come down in the cooler dry season.

It is seriously stressful seeing pregnant women in the hotter part of the year...Jan- March..The heat is extreme.

O diro easy sha. But worth it.

I gbakuo la ya!

Mariangeles:


I gbakuo la ya!

O wu nu ya..

I wouldn't want that stress for my woman sha..

I remember dating a lady cramps ya na di severe, i hu m mgbe afo na ata ya eeh, I just look helpless knowing fully well their is Notting I can do....Mpia ya aka n'afo, me ebute cold Ice tukwasa ya n'afo....Oyi mawa ya nga eeh, I go any length to help o..Same with mma m na mpa m....

Remembering the situations then was touchy...Umu nwaanyi chukwu kere ihe ebe unu nor o.

It is stupidity trying to hate women sha.

Munzy14:

O wu nu ya..

I wouldn't want that stress for my woman sha..

I remember dating a lady cramps ya na di severe, i hu m mgbe afo na ata ya eeh, I just look helpless knowing fully well their is Notting I can do....Mpia ya aka n'afo, me ebute cold Ice tukwasa ya n'afo....Oyi mawa ya nga eeh, I go any length to help o..Same with mma m na mpa m....

Remembering the situations then was touchy...Umu nwaanyi chukwu kere ihe ebe unu nor o.

It is stupidity trying to hate women sha.

She never used pain killers?

Mariangeles:


She never used pain killers?

Hers defy all pain killers according to her..It was scary then o...

Munzy14:

Hers defy all pain killers according to her..It was scary then o...

I doubt.
She probably didn't know the drugs that would've worked for her.

Some use diclofenac, some use piroxicam or even ibuprofen. What works for one might not work for the other.
You just have to figure out what works for you.

Mariangeles:


I doubt.
She probably didn't know the drugs that would've worked for her.

Some use diclofenac, some use piroxicam or even ibuprofen. What works for one might not work for the other.
You just have to figure out what works for you.

I feel she didn't identify what works for her well, or ya wuru na otu gara m ashi then.

Munzy14:

I feel she didn't identify what works for her well, or ya wuru na otu gara m ashi then.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Udi gi manu I le nwaanyi anya n'ihu na wu ndi umu nwaanyi na a ghogbuli.

Mariangeles:


Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Udi gi manu I le nwaanyi anya n'ihu na wu ndi umu nwaanyi na a ghogbuli.

Lol..

I didn't bother to question further, o wunu ya nuga ufu the pain na...o wu m

Mu nwa ji na adi open in whatever I am doing, so Nwaanyi tuwa ashi, onwe ya ka o mege...maka I will lose interest very quick.

I don't even expect much..

And, onwehu nwoke nwaanyi na aga hu a ghogbuli o...She only need to capitalize on your care for her.

Munzy14:

Lol..

I didn't bother to question further, o wunu ya nuga ufu the pain na...o wu m

Mu nwa ji na adi open in whatever I am doing, so Nwaanyi tuwa ashi, onwe ya ka o mege...maka I will lose interest very quick.

I don't even expect much..

And, onwehu nwoke nwaanyi na aga hu a ghogbuli o...She only need to capitalize on your care for her.

Owuhucha nghogbu sha...most times, o na wukari inyanga

When a man loves a woman, she basks in and takes full advantage of the attention.
Na mumu dey form strong woman all the the time.

Mariangeles:


Owuhucha nghogbu sha...most times, o na wukari inyanga

When a man loves a woman, she basks in and takes full advantage of the attention.
Na mumu dey form strong woman all the the time.

Okwa ya? true sha...

Nwoke formu ga strong head, wu onye na hu behu o di n'obi ya....Ya hu ya, ones in while a woman will become a girl.. metu iyanga ntakiri..


Ije nwoke na nwaanyi wu understanding...mana ya towa uto si wepu aghugho.

Munzy14:

Okwa ya? true sha...

Nwoke formu ga strong head, wu onye na hu behu o di n'obi ya....Ya hu ya, ones in while a woman will become a girl.. metu iyanga ntakiri..


Ije nwoke na nwaanyi wu understanding...mana ya towa uto si wepu aghugho.

Inyanga na nghogbu di n'iche.

Mariangeles:


Inyanga na nghogbu di n'iche.

O wuhu umu Nwaanyi n'ile mere understand the way you do na.

Many na eji nghogbu a mix up inyanga...

Overdoing it is the worst...

Munzy14:

O wuhu umu Nwaanyi n'ile mere understand the way you do na.

Many na eji nghogbu a mix up inyanga...

Overdoing it is the worst...

Some men like them that way na.

My sister told me her boss' wife calls him at work to order her breakfast almost everyday, while she's at home.
Then another that sits on the stairs after work, then waits for her husband to carry her upstairs because she's pregnant.

O nwere ndi umu nwoke umu nwaanyi pipipi na'a mashi o. It makes them feel powerful in some kind of way I guess.

Mariangeles:


Some men like them that way na.

My sister told me her boss' wife calls him at work to order her breakfast almost everyday, while she's at home.
Then another that sits on the stairs after work, then waits for her husband to carry her upstairs because she's pregnant.

O nwere ndi umu nwoke umu nwaanyi pipipi na'a mashi o. It makes them feel powerful in some kind of way I guess.

Inukwa! Nwaanyi no n'ulo, si m zutara ya breakfast, no be juju be that

Mu nwa kwesiri i choro way sneak out from work, to go and eat the sumptuous meal she made

I understand ones in a while treat/pampering di mkpa, ma owuhu udi nke everyday a biko...

A time I visited my Uncle, nwunye ya ka na akwado ishi nri, ya kpowa my uncle si ya zutara m mu na my cousin nri outside kanyi tachie osa tupu ya eshicha nri at least nke a di understandable...

Onye nke pregnancy a to gbuo lam na ochi ihe umu nwaanyi na eme anyi during pregnancy wu chizoba anyi.. nke a di funny and lovely sha.

Ma ndi nke na abia with weird appetite/craving in the dead night..

Munzy14:


Inukwa! Nwaanyi no n'ulo, si m zutara ya breakfast, no be juju be that

Mu nwa kwesiri i choro way sneak out from work, to go and eat the sumptuous meal she made

Owu ije love. Inukwa!


Owu nani sneak out na sumptuous meal...
Jikerekwa obi gi o, maka na ihe I chere ma gi luo nwaanyi nwere ike I wuru the opposite. Maka adi a ma-ama.

Udi nke ahu ka mma’m ga si “ ‘ke a mege pipipi otee(otu a), I ga e bulikwa?”

I understand ones in a while treat/pampering di mkpa, ma owuhu udi nke everyday a biko...

A time I visited my Uncle, nwunye ya ka na akwado ishi nri, ya kpowa my uncle si ya zutara m mu na my cousin nri outside kanyi tachie osa tupu ya eshicha nri at least nke a di understandable...

Onye nke pregnancy a to gbuo lam na ochi ihe umu nwaanyi na eme anyi during pregnancy wu chizoba anyi.. nke a di funny and lovely sha.

Ma ndi nke na abia with weird appetite/craving in the dead night..

Jikere! O dihukwa nfe.
O wuhu ya ruo echi ugbu a, gi si “nobody told me about all these”