I have this ex that invited me for her wedding around Dec.
While we were dating, we did a lot of crazy things ranging from three-some with her friend to fvking her during her grandpa's burial wake keep.
We did all this while growing up and the number of times we had sex is uncountable.
To cap it all, She's aborted without my approval.

Now she invited me to her wedding and insisted She will consider me an enemy if I don't show up but I feel too guilty to attend besides, I don't want old feelings to ignite.

Do you think my decision is right?




Note:
I created a new account to protect her marriage cos I'm a very popular nairalander

Hmmmm
I'm an elder but let me wait for my fellow elders


Modified: You're the man here (that gender reason like children). She still have feelings for you and your presence is a threat to her marriage.
Don't attend and let her consider you an enemy like she said.
It's for her own good.

All those your past with her lives only in your head cos she has moved on.

You too move on and stop living in the lady’s past.

You are happy that you had a dirty past with her and expecting her to be sad cos you both had a dirty past together?
If there is anything like the judgement day, you would both be judged with the same yardstick of your pasts together and not the societal values placed on men above women

I'll read and learn from others

@ OP I can't and won't attend EX's wedding oo irrespective of who initiated the break up..I just don't care dey your lane I don't even keep in touch with anything ex..I don't see the need.

Was once invited but I nor go she was saying this and that and even almost turn it to quarel but I no go o dey ur dey abeg! There is a reason u end up as EX ! keep am up e get why!

Ok

We both will start reminiscing on our different sexcapades lols

Only a fool invites his or her ex to their wedding, some people will just like beginning their marital life with nonsense.If she's stupid you can try and borrow sense please.

Amotolongbo:
All those your past with her lives only in your head cos she has moved on.

You too move on and stop living in the lady’s past.

You are happy that you had a dirty past with her and expecting her to be sad cos you both had a dirty past together?
If there is anything like the judgement day, you would both be judged with the same yardstick of your pasts together and not the societal values placed on men above women

But is the lady not been stupid by inviting her dirty life partner to her marriage?

Why on earth will I be attending my ex's wedding. Even if I have moved on, these feelings don't completely go away except I didn't actually love the person.

This one hard. ..... well go there eat and drink moderately make some noise and get noticed by spraying heavily and discharge before the wedding ends........ and the husband will like to know who be this person from the wife...,.... and the wife will explain like... ooh that guy he used to pound akpu for my mama and after he will stole half keep half for us and I caught him one day and I never told my mother that's why he came here to be spraying so much money as bribe and some bla bla bla bla

Iyaebe:
But is the lady not been stupid by inviting her dirty life partner to her marriage?

i don’t understand what you meant by the word “stupid”.

She invited him to come and witness her latest achievement. Not to reminisce on their dirty past.

If the lady invited the guy to come for a contract she helped pull for the guy, was the lady “stupid” inviting him?

So one day like this, I will be doing my wedding and my wife to be will bring her past fuckbuddy to the wedding..tueeh!!! God forbid!!! And her ex/fuckbuddy will then come and look me in the eye and say, "congratulations"... Like why are you congratulating me??

Bash me all you want...
But in addition to the qualities I pray for in a spouse, if a lady not a virgin, i rather stay unmarried...

Go nah,

Na for people wey get ex

Amotolongbo:
All those your past with her lives only in your head cos she has moved on.

You too move on and stop living in the lady’s past.

You are happy that you had a dirty past with her and expecting her to be sad cos you both had a dirty past together?
If there is anything like the judgement day, you would both be judged with the same yardstick of your pasts together and not the societal values placed on men above women

Aunty no vex ooh
Are you pained

She neither respects nor value the man she's marrying.
Love is totally out of the question!

Amotolongbo:
i don’t understand what you meant by the word “stupid”.

She invited him to come and witness her latest achievement. Not to reminisce on their dirty past.

If the lady invited the guy to come for a contract she helped pull for the guy, was the lady “stupid” inviting him?

D lady Iyaebe is COMPLETELY RIGHT on this! And you are wrong, really!

Any Lady that is Inviting her Ex to her Wedding is not Doing so for any Rubbish Innocent purpose!
It is simply because SHE STILL LOVES HIM! If the Ex is a Bad Guy, They can even Fcvkk!

BTW, have you Not noticed it's only Ladies that invite Exes to their Weddings!

Guys RARELY do this!

Favfables1:
So one day like this, I will be doing my wedding and my wife to be will bring her past fuckbuddy to the wedding..tueeh!!! God forbid!!! And her ex/fuckbuddy will then come and look me in the eye and say, "congratulations"... Like why are you congratulating me??

Bash me all you want...
But in addition to the qualities I pray for in a spouse, if a lady not a virgin, i rather stay unmarried...

Aha!
You see what I am saying!..Only ladies do this Inviting Exes thingy!
We Guys will Never Try it!

As a Guy, once ur Ex is inviting you to her Wedding, It means She still has Strong Feelings For you!

If you be Bad Guy, Invite her to ur Crib a Day or two b4 the Wedding!
Tell her dat you bought her a nice, Expensive Gift..She will rush over to get it and b4 Leaving, She will be so Tempted to give you her 'Gifts'