Nairalanders

My boyfriend who I once posted here that he he didn't want to leave my house after coming to visit for the weekend has not called me after he left. I have called him severally after that and he picked on a few occasions and said he was busy with work.
What actually happened is we have been dating for close to 3 months now and sometimes spend times in each other's place but for me I have never spent more than a day at his place because I love my privacy and when he came to my apartment for a weekend hangout he refused to go, the day he eventually left he came back by 11pm calling that he wants to spend one more night at my place. The next day I took the bold step and told him to please leave my house because he was going against the arrangement we had to only spend at most the weekend in each other's place. Now ever since he left he has not been calling me.
Could it be that he is no longer interested?

Yes I'm tired with your kpekus.
or you think I'm not on nairaland

He has moved on to another sugar mama
Take heart.

K

Must he be the only one calling u? Can't u call him too?

So much relationship drama!

Your boyfriend is useless... He's used you... And since you now mean nothing, he's moved on!

dudusky007:
Yes I'm tired with your kpekus.
or you think I'm not on nairaland

This one dey monitor you oh

Move on



U can't kill yourself..



Can you??

Both of you are not yet matured for a relationship, especially you.

You love ur privacy.. u don't like sleeping over in his place and u don't like him to stay too long at ur place..

If he is the one trying to give you such space how would u feel.. yeyeyeye he is having another lady..

The guy seems not feel welcomed around you.

2 weeks? Nigga must have moved on

I remember reading ur post.

U complained about him not wanting to leave ur house and u hate it.

U even seek advice on how u can rid him off ur house for ur privacy.

U finally got advice from 90% of people who hasn't even love or been in love before talk more of being in a relationship.

U started giving him attitude directly and indirect, dude decodes it and keep calm.

Now he has left for good and hasn't call or care for best reasons knows to him.

Now u re complaining and wanting to hear from him, meanwhile u wanted him out in the first place, I would say double standard.

Let me tell u girl, men cry, men mourn, men weep, but not just the way u think like crying tears out from their eyes.

He could be in one of those states I mentioned, and if truly u love him as u claimed, I'd suggest u reach out to him, visit him and have a deep heart talk with him, Trust me you'll find out that u hurt him while he was staying with u.

Something wey some women dey find, e reach ur turn u spoil am.

NovesaTillie:
Nairalanders

My boyfriend who I once posted here that he he didn't want to leave my house after coming to visit for the weekend has not called me after he left. I have called him severally after that and he picked on a few occasions and said he was busy with work.
What actually happened is we have been dating for close to 3 months now and sometimes spend times in each other's place but for me I have never spent more than a day at his place because I love my privacy and when he came to my apartment for a weekend hangout he refused to go, the day he eventually left he came back by 11pm calling that he wants to spend one more night at my place. The next day I took the bold step and told him to please leave my house because he was going against the arrangement we had to only spend at most the weekend in each other's place. Now ever since he left he has not been calling me.
Could it be that he is no longer interested?

I would have recommend a book for you about feminity but you know continue your life as a good girl

NovesaTillie:
Nairalanders

My boyfriend who I once posted here that he he didn't want to leave my house after coming to visit for the weekend has not called me after he left. I have called him severally after that and he picked on a few occasions and said he was busy with work.
What actually happened is we have been dating for close to 3 months now and sometimes spend times in each other's place but for me I have never spent more than a day at his place because I love my privacy and when he came to my apartment for a weekend hangout he refused to go, the day he eventually left he came back by 11pm calling that he wants to spend one more night at my place. The next day I took the bold step and told him to please leave my house because he was going against the arrangement we had to only spend at most the weekend in each other's place. Now ever since he left he has not been calling me.
Could it be that he is no longer interested?

Make I dance Azonto Abi

Lol.. this kind boyfriend wey dem use boldness pursue commot for house, na better one so?

Let him be. You too you chased someone out of your house and you expect him to be happy? He may think you have another guy you want to camp that's why you sent him away.

Stop calling him.

Give him more time, he will be back. He is childish, and feels hurt over the issue. From what you wrote, you were not at fault, because too much familiarity brings contempt, if there should be familiarity, let it be in marriage, you were right to ask for your privacy. Three weeks is too much for a guy to hang around a woman's home. Continue to call him or visit him to sort things out.

Holly Gram real matters. WTF MAN

NovesaTillie:
Nairalanders

My boyfriend who I once posted here that he he didn't want to leave my house after coming to visit for the weekend has not called me after he left. I have called him severally after that and he picked on a few occasions and said he was busy with work.
What actually happened is we have been dating for close to 3 months now and sometimes spend times in each other's place but for me I have never spent more than a day at his place because I love my privacy and when he came to my apartment for a weekend hangout he refused to go, the day he eventually left he came back by 11pm calling that he wants to spend one more night at my place. The next day I took the bold step and told him to please leave my house because he was going against the arrangement we had to only spend at most the weekend in each other's place. Now ever since he left he has not been calling me.
Could it be that he is no longer interested?

He Lowkey take ur privacy rules as seeing sm1else or not into him.

Or else why would he storm ur house by 11pm unannounced and after he just left?

NovesaTillie:
Nairalanders

My boyfriend who I once posted here that he he didn't want to leave my house after coming to visit for the weekend has not called me after he left. I have called him severally after that and he picked on a few occasions and said he was busy with work.
What actually happened is we have been dating for close to 3 months now and sometimes spend times in each other's place but for me I have never spent more than a day at his place because I love my privacy and when he came to my apartment for a weekend hangout he refused to go, the day he eventually left he came back by 11pm calling that he wants to spend one more night at my place. The next day I took the bold step and told him to please leave my house because he was going against the arrangement we had to only spend at most the weekend in each other's place. Now ever since he left he has not been calling me.
Could it be that he is no longer interested?

I remember that ur thread na.. the Abuja guy way dey hustle free accommodation and knacks from women. Instead of u to be happy u are free u still want to invite him back. I don't think u even know what u want

Modified: I remember u said the nigga got devil dick
U know say him dey dickmatize the punna to destruction naim u come chase am away. Better go hustle vibrator or beg him to come back to camp. I don't know if i should laugh at u or pity ur situation

That one nah your own problem

killmods:

I remember that ur thread na.. the Abuja guy way dey hustle free accommodation and knacks from women. Instead of u to be happy u are free u still want to invite him back. I don't think u even know what u want

Modified: I remember u said the nigga got devil dick
U know say him dey dickmatize the punna to destruction naim u come chase am away. Better go hustle vibrator or beg him to come back to camp. I don't know if i should laugh at u or pity ur situation

yes sis you remember me well
Abeg he should come back I miss the cucumber

NovesaTillie:


yes sis you remember me well
Abeg he should come back I miss the cucumber

I'm a guy oo.. I know u miss that devil D if to say u dey lag I for fit give u replacement killer I hope u know if he comes back this time around he will take full advantage of u since he knows he's got what u crave.. Just be prepared to tolerate alot but then u have ur compensation. Life is never balanced as they say. Just enjoy it until u can find a replacement

NovesaTillie:


yes sis you remember me well
Abeg he should come back I miss the cucumber

Imagine. He's a freeloader and thought d cucumber will screw ur brains into forgetting to ask him to leave. He no love u unless u can make some arrangements with him if d cucumber is that good anyways

Lol.. should we fry air?

NovesaTillie:
Nairalanders

My boyfriend who I once posted here that he he didn't want to leave my house after coming to visit for the weekend has not called me after he left. I have called him severally after that and he picked on a few occasions and said he was busy with work.
What actually happened is we have been dating for close to 3 months now and sometimes spend times in each other's place but for me I have never spent more than a day at his place because I love my privacy and when he came to my apartment for a weekend hangout he refused to go, the day he eventually left he came back by 11pm calling that he wants to spend one more night at my place. The next day I took the bold step and told him to please leave my house because he was going against the arrangement we had to only spend at most the weekend in each other's place. Now ever since he left he has not been calling me.
Could it be that he is no longer interested?

Congratulations!
You finally got rid of him!
Congratulations once again.
Wọ̀ni kí ẹ̀jẹ̀ ẹ sọ pé ègùn ni, wò sọpe kí ẹ́julẹ́ ẹ sọ pé ẹran díẹ̀ nbẹ nibẹ.

dudusky007:
Yes I'm tired with your kpekus.
or you think I'm not on nairaland

More violence leads to peace

NovesaTillie:


yes sis you remember me well
Abeg he should come back I miss the cucumber

What part of abuja you at tho? I could be a replacement, I DONT LEACH.

NovesaTillie:
Nairalanders

My boyfriend who I once posted here that he he didn't want to leave my house after coming to visit for the weekend has not called me after he left. I have called him severally after that and he picked on a few occasions and said he was busy with work.
What actually happened is we have been dating for close to 3 months now and sometimes spend times in each other's place but for me I have never spent more than a day at his place because I love my privacy and when he came to my apartment for a weekend hangout he refused to go, the day he eventually left he came back by 11pm calling that he wants to spend one more night at my place. The next day I took the bold step and told him to please leave my house because he was going against the arrangement we had to only spend at most the weekend in each other's place. Now ever since he left he has not been calling me.
Could it be that he is no longer interested?

Just like women, men also love attention at all times..
Truth is, you may not love him as much as you think you do cos you actually don't like him being around you, an attitude you keep exhibiting and he has been sensitive enough to spot that...
So it's possible he s found solace in some other arms where his presence is wanted and well cherished.

You brought this upon yourself girl.
Too bad.

NovesaTillie:
Nairalanders

My boyfriend who I once posted here that he he didn't want to leave my house after coming to visit for the weekend has not called me after he left. I have called him severally after that and he picked on a few occasions and said he was busy with work.
What actually happened is we have been dating for close to 3 months now and sometimes spend times in each other's place but for me I have never spent more than a day at his place because I love my privacy and when he came to my apartment for a weekend hangout he refused to go, the day he eventually left he came back by 11pm calling that he wants to spend one more night at my place. The next day I took the bold step and told him to please leave my house because he was going against the arrangement we had to only spend at most the weekend in each other's place. Now ever since he left he has not been calling me.
Could it be that he is no longer interested?

you love privacy in your own relationship ,then u aren't ready for relationship yet ,,,, relationship isn't Telemundo baby girl ,, sometimes before you take actions as a lady try mirror back if such is given back to you how u go feel ,,I kw most females love the statement"that's who I am ," if you can't act like a lady who values her relationship don't go close to the door step of relationship

peace my people

Its ur fault, while would you tell a visitor to leave ur house, if its me i would've done the same,i'll never call you again and i'll never come to ur house again

think it's everything going on around you that you will bring to nairaland?? You gave him attitude and starved him of food and kpekus, and you expect him to answer your call or maybe smile at you?? No way... You have bad character, a man that ran to you for rescue when he's down financially, emotionally and psychologically you threw him away because of ego, my dear you are selfish... Can you beat your chest and say you have not been benefiting from him in the past Thefutureisclitocurrency indeed.. tueh

larryking540:
you love privacy in your own relationship ,then u aren't ready for relationship yet ,,,, relationship isn't Telemundo baby girl ,, sometimes before you take actions as a lady try mirror back if such is given back to you how u go feel ,,I kw most females love the statement"that's who I am ," if you can't act like a lady who values her relationship don't go close to the door step of relationship

peace my people

Same point I tried to make her understand..
Much respect bro.
Pls tell her.

Shaolin77:
Its ur fault, while would you tell a visitor to leave ur house, if its me i would've done the same,i'll never call you again and i'll never come to ur house again

I wonder o