Experienced it. Not a fun thing but you come out a stronger person.

Neddstark:
Went to a private school. Remember one psycho made a junior student roll around toilet water where some boys pee. The fool was expelled.
In the 2nd school I went and graduated from. The main bully was also homosexual. Even despite being our mate, we just gave him space and acted as we didn't know of his nonsense. Untill he made a mistake of trying to screw a JS2 boy whose cousin was in SS3, our class then. Then we forget say the guy na sports prefect or him papa get money, we rush the guy. Beat him blue black, threw his box outside. We expelled him that night and the school expelled him the next morning. Funny enough the guy kept denying swearing with his life that it never happened despite being caught red-handed. Was proud of our set that day. The guy is married now with kids based in UK. If only his wife knew.

FGC?

Mine was more like religious/family friend setting. For every madness, I gave 10X back.

For some reason, she didn't like me. I think my height was part of the many reasons. She was a few months older than me, the queen bee of our group and the oldest. There were like two other girls around our age that I was older than. The two started using their brains in senior secondary school and stayed in their own little corner. I take it that I was normal all along, it pays to be the odd one out. Omo, I saw pure undiluted hate on her face several times and I loved it. The last one happens at a camp, when I was fine with them. Got myself myself a seat right in front of them on one of the lectures. I heard the pain in their voices as they collectively cursed me. I was proud of myself, I was responsible for that .

The experiences probably left a trauma but two positvr traits. I can be the odd one in a hostile environment and I rarely bow to peer pressure. I can stay where I am hated. I will enjoy every bit of incensing that hate to a volcanic temp. Make me uneasy, I will not give you a second to relish that experience.

THERE WAS A BOY THAT WAS INDIRECTLY MAKING ADVANCES AT ME.

BUT ME WETIN I KNOW NA TO GO TO SCHOOL. COME BACK HOME EAT FOOD.

sometimes ,HE WILL WAIT FOR ME ON THE ROAD TRYING to beat me.

BUT ONE DAY I SUMMONED COURAGE TO FIGHT THE BOY.

I HAD ALREADY PLANNED , HOW I WILL FIGHT HIM.

ONE DAY ,AS I WAS COMING FROM SCHOOL, HE CAME AGAIN TO BEAT ME.
I TARGETED HIS LEGS, CARRIED HIS TWO LEGS UP AND HIT HIS BACK ON THE GROUND, STARTED PUNCHING HIM, I PACKED SAND WITH MY HAND AND FED HIM IN HIS MOUTH.
PEOPLE CAME TO SEPARATE US , FROM THAT DAY , HIS BULLYING STOP. HE BEGAN TO RESPECT ME.

Emmerlee:
Everyone here trying to form victim. I'm sure there are real bullies here on nairaland. You see them everyday insulting other tribes and trying to bully them into submission.

One day una go jabo real life or meet una match and waterloo. Evil things, Nonsense

INCLUDING U

I don't bully nobody and nobody Bully me BUT ONE MOPOL.

No skin pain

Wherever you are, it will not be well with you, except you are repented Christian now. Anybody at SSS Ndon Eyo in those day will relate

I was very small statured back in school so everyone of course wanted to bully me.
But the shoker is what I always enjoyed �

If you beat me finish no get wound that one means se no be me you fight with�.

The things I didn't have in Size, I made up in my brains. I was never bullied in secondary school but it was a different ball game entirely in the University. Oppression is a thing, If you know, you know

As per my own school bullies get rank.. I was one. I mnstly bully with nffensive words nd soft hittings.. Never took it to d extreme. Though i also got bullied by ones above me but cuz i no gree, na fight dey end am. One for ss3 wan bully me dat time.. Well las las e chop am..

Me i went to five different secondary schools,those bullies and seniors really disturbed me alot.During my SS1 i was a pure Scavenger,i wont bath for days or sleep in the hostel just because of wicked seniors and mid nite drilling.Lt me just share these story,During my Js2 in a Seminary school in Owerri,we had a classmate called Mallam Mundu or 50 cartoons of trouble,he was a big bully,there was a day i was drawing on the ground for my friends,these guy jst came and started cleaning it and beating me ontop it.I got angry and stabed him with the biro i was with on his back.Till i left that School that guy neva disturbed me again.

ciro11:
I had my own share of being bullied when I was in ss1, I was just admitted into ss1 at a federal government college, there was this ss3 guy who was a boarder that always extorted me, maybe because he saw that I was new and little in appearance compared to him and I stood no chance against him, so anytime he sees me he calls me over to the boys hostel, threatens me and forces me to give him all my money and then he'll tell me to go. Although all through his stay in the school he never touched or slapped me but I hated him for collecting money from me again and again and again.

Men that's stealing

Neddstark:
Went to a private school. Remember one psycho made a junior student roll around toilet water where some boys pee. The fool was expelled.
In the 2nd school I went and graduated from. The main bully was also homosexual. Even despite being our mate, we just gave him space and acted as we didn't know of his nonsense. Untill he made a mistake of trying to screw a JS2 boy whose cousin was in SS3, our class then. Then we forget say the guy na sports prefect or him papa get money, we rush the guy. Beat him blue black, threw his box outside. We expelled him that night and the school expelled him the next morning. Funny enough the guy kept denying swearing with his life that it never happened despite being caught red-handed. Was proud of our set that day. The guy is married now with kids based in UK. If only his wife knew.

And these gay guys have connections to travel oversees like say 2moro no dey!

I was really short and thin back in secondary school, but I have this strong face and confidence that guys bigger than will never think of bullying me. Lol.

fkj950ax:


Reading your comment is difficult. Bad spelling. Wrong use of capitalisation. Missing full stop and comas...

I didn't write 4 a newspaper to b published.

donprincebigt:

I didn't write 4 a newspaper to b published.

Obviously you didn't and you are even unaware

Immanuel College... He once bullied Late Professor Peller's grandson no be small thing. Few years ago, one of the smallies around Orita U.I insulted him and even wanted to beat him up. That was when I realized "Karma" is serving him "Hot-hot".

Oxtertee:


Sorry to ask, which of the sch did you attend?

I attended an all boys sec sch. Early 2000. Bullying was something else. I had to leave second year. One I'll not forget was when someone defecated in one of the common rooms and all the occupants of the two hostels were made to touch the damn shit and make a sign of the cross on their forehead with it. You could be made to fetch 15 buckets of water from the stream for an offence, or given 10 hot strokes or made to dig your height. I just know all that must have stopped now. It was a hell of an experience, and what made it worse was the fact that students take it all in waiting for their own turn to unleash terror. We do need a reform to address bullying now more than ever. RIP to Sylvester

marvelos:
Yes, which set did you graduate?

2011

bjtinz:


Lol. Just like I'm reading my own history. I was also thin, as in painfully skinny, and was the butt of hurtful name-calling. Though they never got physical with me, but the nicknames they gave me were painful.

However what I lacked in body mass, was made up with intelligence, and was among the brightest in the class and loved by teachers and, like your case, even some of the bullies.

Life truly can be funny. Many years down, you won't believe that I'm currently battling excessive weight. . .

Same here bro. Everyone that knew me wouldn't believe my body mass now. Funny world

Zetty177x:


Men that's stealing

yes oo, I had always felt like hurting him anytime I came close to him, but his size was so intimidating.

I was not bullied. Maybe because it was a private school. But they were still pockets of bullying going on , here and there. For those who couldn't ' shine their eyes '
I had always been a standout kid in my sets. At least first 4 biggest boys (as kids used to term it) and coolest kids. Certain Seniors even respected me. Some feared me (like avoided me). I was a ' cool kid ' and I could dance, mime (choreography), rap, speak in a cool way and I was funny.
Besides, some of my immediate seniors were my agemates, and even younger. Some, we had been friends previously in primary school, so they could act senior-ish to me. It'll look weird to us all.
But then, you had those envious, hating, seniors who would still want to rain on your parade just because some of their mates are your friends..those ones will go out of their way to set traps for you....So the highest that I have had to endure as bullying (if I can call it that) was two knocks to my head. And they both came from muslim Fulani boys back then. Kashim and Aliyu. Just out of envy. They hated that their junior was stunting and ' gaining reps' as we used to call it back then. Maybe religion/tribe also played a role, because normally, they wouldn't do this to their own tribesmen. They always stuck together.
But they won't mind dating southern girls back then in school oo.. see the two-faced people abi...
Anyway, it's all on the past now.

I still have one useless guy I will deal with when the time comes, this guy beat the hell out of me, when I was in Jss 3. He even collected my beverages back then in boarding school.

Ijaiye ojokoro senior high school there is a lot of bullying but as short as I am , my anger erupt like a volcano then...
There are a lot of story in public school but the last one is interesting I beat 4 SS3 student when I was in SS2 that day but I got one deadly punch that gave me a black eye
Funny enough the guy that punch me always run when he see me...
I always fight for those that are been bullied
Thank God for life sha ,I am now a changed person

Jamesbiodun:
Ijaiye ojokoro senior high school there is a lot of bullying but as short as I am , my anger erupt like a volcano then...
There are a lot of story in public school but the last one is interesting I beat 4 SS3 student when I was in SS2 that day but I got one deadly punch that gave me a black eye
Funny enough the guy that punch me always run when he see me...
I always fight for those that are been bullied
Thank God for life sha ,I am now a changed person

kuku change your name to JAMESBOND

I attended one of the fgcs in the north. Even though my immediate elder brother was a senior then, I tried to hide it as I didn't want to get enemies once he graduated. I was very cute back then so I had lots of female seniors who liked me. Most also didn't know about my brother.

One mumu jss2 boy just decided to hate me for no reason. Funnily, I didn't even see him as a threat so I was just ignoring his nonsense. That made him feel bold. He'll punish me, collect my stuff and all until one day he asked me to lie down and flogged me. My friend couldn't take it anymore so he went to the senior hostel and reported to my bro.. hahahaha. Now my bro is very quiet but we'll respected. About 10 seniors stormed our hostel that day... hahahaha. I come dey sorry for the guy. We later meet at the University and I still could see the fear in his eyes

bjtinz:


Hmm. See una

sorry sir

I was a bully , during my days in secondary school, I’m very aggressive and being a ghetto boy I get boys for back that love my vibe , on the other hand are cult boys , I’m not one but we do roll sometimes just chilling and getting girls but one day I fought with one that supposed to be their second in command I beat the dude up , after the fight I leave secondary school for good I just did my neco in a tutorial center and my waec ,jamb and go university, in my university I’m just a cruise boy not fighting no more

fkj950ax:


Obviously you didn't and you are even unaware

Hello the stuff is not a formal article so why r u expecting a strict and formal writing. Is it until I write to impress ? U people with small knowledge go just dey find fault in everything whereas u r below d line
I'll advise u not to quote me again

Ugo was the Bully King in JSS. He bullied both boys and girls. He didn't have the frame. In Jss3, Uche came and Ugo met the first boy he couldn't bully. Uche told me that Ugo dey fear and his bullying is his cover.


This fateful 2nd break period, he snatched the snacks of one of the girls. Reporting him earned him punishment that never worked. I was angry but i avoided him.


Next day, we were playing this paperball, 4corner post and we scored and he said its no goal. We objected, he slapped my friend, he came to me and punched me


"If dem born you well, tok say na goal again"


Aiiiiiii


Naso inner Van Damme comot o.


"Its a goal and you can't do nothing"


He turned back to do the needful while classmates were saying we should play on.


Van Damme+Muhammad Ali


I punched and punched, got his jaw, his tummy, his coconut head, and he was already crouching to cover his face that i was targeting. He tore my buttons, but i cared less


Classmates rushed in to cheer. Eh, David is battering Ugo. I wasn't even his height.


He fell down weeping. I told him if i ever see him bully anyone ever till we graduate, I'll do the beating allllll over again.


I was so oblivious of staff presence, but they heard every word. I turned and saw them looking. That stupid girl, Vero, always panicky and eager to call a teacher probably did that.

We were both called out and caned but i didn't even feel anything. He cried though.



That was the last fight i ever had in secondary School. And although he didn't stop attempting to bully, the Mention of my name made him run. Ss1 came and i was now taller than him. He left in ss2. I hated bullies and naturally stood on the side of the oppressed.


While graduating, one of the teachers commended me for fighting against a bully.


Most times, they need the treatment before they cower. Most of them can serve the most gruel punishment but still pour the frustration into more bullying.

nnamdiosu:


Then, na there you would have given devil chance.

The reason you are being blessed is because God just wants to use you as an example to prove himself strong in your life.
Showing him pepper will just make God hands off from your case.
God don dey glorify you, move on, free the man, and God will still promote you more.

Allow God show the pepper.
Wish you the best in your endeavors

Thank you sir