My sister, do your bit and leave him to his life. It’s your family’s fault.
Stop giving him money too. He will gentle. If he finds himself in trouble and nobody looks for him, that’s when he would appreciate you and your family more.
Make sure you change the all entrance padlocks before he returns to the house.
Help him pack his remaining clothes and put them where he can see them outside when he comes around.
Tell daddy to be careful around the boy.
Your brother is wicked. And he can attempt to harm you, even if you give him everything. He tends to be insatiable.

I guess he has been indulging in drugs.

mrksquare:


If I were your dad I will get him arrested. Will order the Nigeria Police to give him the flogging of his life. After which I will direct the Nigeria Police to compel him to sign an undertaking of good behavior.

Your brother is a spoilt brat. The fact that he is the only male child is given him a false sense of entitlement. Forthwith, any money your sister sent; he should be excluded from the windfall. He doesn't deserve to partake in the sharing.

exactly boss make #1 wey wash no reach hin side. That boy is a devil's incarnate. 70k wey be say if some family see 7k their Christmas don set be that. That bastard con go burn 70k make I no curse am because 2022 don curse am already.

Ginomel:


Very obvious you are a bastard because a senseless skunk like you is not trained well.

I know how to handle your type. Good money for soldiers like I did last month on another riffraff like you.

I won't waste my energy on a skunk. How I wish I knew you physically.

Lest I forget, consider this as my last reply. I can't belittle myself on a little boy.

Vagabond.

indaboski

The solution is simple

He should be independent
Like living in his own space


He's now an adult, the best you can do is
To pray for him

don't try to advice him or play emotional acting to him, the response could be bad

He needs to be on his own


When reality hits him
He will call for assistance

Your brother needs urgent deliverance,for him to even burn the money shows how ungrateful he his and very disrespectful to the family.
Especially to your sis who sent down that money, he should go out and hustle for himself if its that easy, i will stop giving him money cos no amount can make him to be contented.

Kobojunkie:
OP, I am afraid the problem isn't your brother but you refusing to accept him for who he continues to be.

You claim he talks down to you and seeks opportunities to blame you for his failings, so my question to you is why do you continue to give him your attention. He is a grown up, not a child and he has the right to chose to live as he wants to. So let him.

As for him not leading a wayward lifestyle, you have little control over him there at this point. You can only chose to love him as he is... let him live his life as he chooses.

Cyntie55 please don't listen to this advice, ignore him. he is very controversial.

Wahala.

When you people were pampering him too much, thinking he is d only son.

You guys didn't know it will become smtin like this ni

Mstick:
He called your dad a simp? Please copy and paste this your post on romance and sexuality section am sure he will see it.

He’s definitely one of these small boy idiots here on NL

If care is not taken is going to stain your father's name. Being only son doesn't meant he will be a dictators to everybody in the house. What is the usefulness of only boy who can't in anyway use his brain to assist family? That was the reason of creating an indulgence for a child or favouritism a certain sex in the family

Its a simple issue . I think he needs to be taken to where he will be humbled. He needs an urgent course in humility 101 asap.

Tell your father to go to the police headquarters and ask for SIB unit and tell them what is going on and ask them to help you out. These are areas where we should engage the police. I am 1000% sure that if the police hears about this case in your state especially those female officers , you will be surprised at the magic recovery they will perform on him.

They will just give him a free trip to one of the cells and let him see how criminals end and believe me , he will change. They will tell him that he risk going to jail for burning the naira notes and treating his family members with knives and (dangerous weapons)

lastly, mandate him to sign an undertaken of good behavior and morals and must never disrespect any senior person around and he must always go there to sign twice a week .

Make them give am job for the police station. At least he will be useful for other things like running errands
etc. Sometimes not everything is arrest and detain and shoot.

When they collect his phone, delay him, make him incommunicado , he will be gentle in less than 4 day in fact from there he will go to missionary training

Lastly , send his number to some sensible NLs to give him warning and of possible arrest.

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

to have a bad child is worse than having a bad spouse... u can never recover from it

[quote author=Bola146 post=108721149]Wahala he needs prayers and maybe your sister should stop giving him money, he is becoming lazy and wayward because he knows if he is not working, something must come somewhere. If you can relocate far from where he is. It's better you inform some military to come and teach him a lesson he will never forget, he should sign undertaking too because a man that could burn #70k in this Buhari regime can kill or burn all the house when you are asleep. [ which prayer? He needs good beating to reset his brain. In my family it is 50%soldier and 50%teacher. i.e sometimes we use cane/ iron hand to instill wisdom and sometimes we use teacher and good students approach. And come and see discipline.]

teeshet:
just talk say you wan fùck her sister, idiot

idiot as in how?is this what you call your mother and father?

I would advice , everyone set aside emotions , and report to police station near by, bribe the officer's to beat him and ask why he burnt money and deflated your daddy car, keep him in the station for 2days, after that he should write statement , and stop given him money for at least 1year.. If possible he should go and stay with any of your tough uncle probably in the military if you have one.ensure you don't give him money at least 1year, but can always eat freely

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

ur brother is a cultist

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

What a spoiled entitled brat he is? Your dad should throw that boy in jail for a week and warn him to look for a place to go. Let him be warned that if anything should happen to any member of your family, he’ll be held accountable. As a matter of fact your dad should have the cops check his phone to see what kind of deals he is into. You’ve got to nip his madness in the bud because tomorrow might be too late.

Richy4:
U guys are feeding his ego and indulging his behaviour by giving him whatever he asked for.. That's why... That's all I have to say...

They have spoilt the boy already. What effrontery? Less his dad car tyres and burn 70k. I feel sad he is your only bro, but he is almost gone. Hope he didn't join cult in school.

Please heed to the arrest advice, let them reset his brain, I know some only son's who are presently in Kpanti till God knows when or dead. if you people let this slide, he will come back to the house with a gun to demand for money. And next move is robbery, rape and kidnapping since he has refused to work.

Why

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

Dear OP, your brother is a spoilt brat courtesy of the way you guys brought him up. He probably was a cultist or still is because he oozes off the tell tale signs. He needs to he handled with great wisdom because at this stage he can no longer be molded to good shape. He is past that. He is violent, insolent, stupid and he will definitely cause you guys great pain and countless sleepless nights. At this rate, he will bring disrepute to your family name. He needs to be counseled, prayed for and shown hard love. He should be deprived of every form of unnecessary luxury and comfort. He should be taken to the police station and made to sign an undertaking to never touch anybody in the family or destroy any property; and to never way bring the family name to disrepute by any criminal action from him. Let him understand that their are consequences for actions, good or bad. After that just leave him to the hands of God and let your dad stop worrying about him. Infact he should zero his mind that he has no son. If not, that boy WILL eventually kill him. Directly or indirectly. My advise.

Jnjoku883:

Yes, I agree with him that u guys dont regard him. You dont love him as I think. I have been on this stage and i really know wat I need. No one in this world who doesnt need help even u or your brother. Have that mindset. I guess your brother has temper. Your father no do well at all. Y will ur father shift his attention to his daughters? Parents nowadays are fond of not giving equal love to all their chidren. Be close to all or be close to none. He feels cheated by his way of thinking. My spirit is telling me that u dont love him.
The way he spoke to ur sister is because of anger. Your brother dont have problem with you my dear. He has problem with his parents(father). Wat he needs is attention and contributions to the family if he is asked. Joining yahoo yahoo is because of lack of love from parent. Let him be given his right as the man of the house. Concern him with wat is his. If your sister is sending money, she should send his own to him. He is qualified ro recieve money. No matter what, if his take is 50k, let his abroad sister send 50k to him direct. To every only son, there is a unique right for them in the family. Give it to him. If he derail his own share, his eyes will open and reason with u.

Your brother really needs you guyz including ur parent attention and help. Know him and encourage him. See reason to what he say.

Are you done? You've just typed rubbish all in the name of contribution. Whether you are male or female, nobody owes you a damn thing in this life. A 24 year old is a full grown adult, nobody owes him a damn thing, the father loved him enough to send him to higher institution, he could have learned a trade or an agbero yet the poor man chose to spend his hard earned money to give this ungrateful bastard a chance at a good future.

Man of the house? Who dash monkey Versace? Man of the house is not by mouth but by example, some females are more useful than males, some females are more of learship material than some males, your genitals does not give you any inherent right, so stop that nonsense talk, person wey dem suppose carry go army cantonment for proper baptism, you dey yarn encouragement.....Spits!

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

Wahala full for him body

Him get 2.1 and he's that stupid! He has anger issues and hit tempered... He can kill anyone when provoked and blame it on the devil

benqo01:
Your brother needs urgent deliverance,for him to even burn the money shows how ungrateful he his and very disrespectful to the family.
Especially to your sis who sent down that money, he should go out and hustle for himself if its that easy, i will stop giving him money cos no amount can make him to be contented.

They have really spoilt the boy. It shows in all his actions and speech.

Cyntie55:

My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps.

Ette!

Only one person received these variety of slaps?

nenyewrites:


For peace to reign, let your sister send his money directly.

You call this peace, this guy will soon be a terror

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

Help how?

A monster has "blossomed" under y'all noses and it's now you're crying for help. The only help you can do for him is to cut off any financial assistance. He should fend for himself henceforth. Stop pampering him and your father needs to give him more resetting slaps

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

my best advise for you is this...don't trust your younger brother to the extent that he can have a chance to attempt taking your life. You might see him as your brother, but he may be someone else now. Be careful and always soak yourself in the blood of Jesus. Life after death is real. So accept Jesus genuinely. You will not die untimely I pray.

Since he's the angry type, pick 3 angry soldiers to come give him resounding slap n let him write a statement to be as gentle as anything...let them deal indirectly with him after misbehaving

It's clouding up already, when the storm comes he'll have no choice but to learn from the experience...

What I see here is that you people have over pampaered the idiot and now it has gotten into his head

I found it hard to believe that some one will a set 70k ablaze because he is angry, even a mad man won't do that, in this our wonderful economy.
If ur story happens to be true, my sis una problem pass seeking advise, in fact the only soludo is una cut am off, relocate where he no go know. But be keeping tabs on him from afar. Any body way him anger don reach to burn thousands of cash, is capable to be a serial killer and arsonist name it. U need a very drastic solution?, military suppose don even enter d case

Skyflygang2:
No mind all this people ooo dem no get sense hit me up on whatsapp I go help you reset ur bro button I clearly understands what he is going through been there b4

E be like say you just wan chop her kpomo