I have been doing minimal jobs to raise money to get a better smart phone since May, I had raised about 57,000 by September only for my lil bro to fail sick and the who money disappeared and at a point i wanted to let go but he is my only family left...I thank God his recovery was fast enough. My rent was also due in November and i was left in no different position than a beggar, God so kind I did a little job and was paid 1100 naira and i was tempted to place a bet with the 100 naira which i did and in turn i won 50500 naira, I felt so much joy i thought the money would cover for my December Expenses and the rest.. fast forward to today while coming back from my normal daily job i was told that a community police known as ( OSPAC ) in Ikwerre Local government of rivers state has arrested my little bro for damaging a lady car glass.. the issue now is i am told to pay the said lady the sum of 30000 naira and bail my bro for 5000 naira.. and this is exactly the amount i have with me left to use this Xmas.. please this kind of issue has been happening to me and i don't know if i came into this world illegally or what... right now i am confused if i should bail my brother or not as i would be left to nothing should i bail him out.. please nairalanders is there any spiritual help or something i can do to end this temptations ? any suggestions is welcome. thanks

Your lil bro is a parasite. You need to start thinking of yourself first. Before you spend any money you didn't plan for again, ask yourself what would he have done if you didn't have any money?

There would be plenty of Christmas to celebrate in joy with your brother by your side, bail him and beg the lady that you would pay her twice this would allow you to have something in your pocket. Overall pray against the spirit of wastefulness, and educate your brother on how to pray too. Everything you spent on your loved one either money, time or energy is not a waste.

thesicilian:
Your lil bro is a parasite. You need to start thinking of yourself first. Before you spend any money you didn't plan for again, ask yourself what would he have done if you didn't have any money?

But he is my only family right now... I am really depressed about this issue.. If i Don't bail him i can't enjoy being alone and if i bail him.. I can't contain another hardship.. just can not sleep this night

gbengaeed:
There would be plenty of Christmas to celebrate in joy with your brother by your side, bail him and beg the lady that you would pay her twice this would allow you to have something in your pocket. Overall pray against the spirit of wastefulness, and educate your brother on how to pray too. Everything you spent on your loved one either money, time or energy is not a waste.

Thanks very much for this insightfulness, i really appreciate. I would try negotiating with them first thing tomorrow morning about splitting the payment.. thanks ones again

A dog puppy can never be hard to the point that we will chase it to a lion to kill.. Ur brother is still a small boy, when the time comes he will wise up. Just keep taking care of him. May God help u

Clintifydan:
I have been doing minimal jobs to raise money to get a better smart phone since May, I had raised about 57,000 by September only for my lil bro to fail sick and the who money disappeared and at a point i wanted to let go but he is my only family left...I thank God his recovery was fast enough. My rent was also due in November and i was left in no different position than a beggar, God so kind I did a little job and was paid 1100 naira and i was tempted to place a bet with the 100 naira which i did and in turn i won 50500 naira, I felt so much joy i thought the money would cover for my December Expenses and the rest.. fast forward to today while coming back from my normal daily job i was told that a community police known as ( OSPAC ) in Ikwerre Local government of rivers state has arrested my little bro for damaging a lady car glass.. the issue now is i am told to pay the said lady the sum of 30000 naira and bail my bro for 5000 naira.. and this is exactly the amount i have with me left to use this Xmas.. please this kind of issue has been happening to me and i don't know if i came into this world illegally or what... right now i am confused if i should bail my brother or not as i would be left to nothing should i bail him out.. please nairalanders is there any spiritual help or something i can do to end this temptations ? any suggestions is welcome. thanks

What about your parents

habsydiamond:
A dog puppy can never be hard to the point that we will chase it to a lion to kill.. Ur brother is still a small boy, when the time comes he will wise up. Just keep taking care of him. May God help u

This I keep hoping on.. Thanks man

shawante:
What about your parents

Both Left the earth in 2005

Clintifydan:


Both Left the earth in 2005

My condolences

Clintifydan:
I have been doing minimal jobs to raise money to get a better smart phone since May, I had raised about 57,000 by September only for my lil bro to fail sick and the who money disappeared and at a point i wanted to let go but he is my only family left...I thank God his recovery was fast enough. My rent was also due in November and i was left in no different position than a beggar, God so kind I did a little job and was paid 1100 naira and i was tempted to place a bet with the 100 naira which i did and in turn i won 50500 naira, I felt so much joy i thought the money would cover for my December Expenses and the rest.. fast forward to today while coming back from my normal daily job i was told that a community police known as ( OSPAC ) in Ikwerre Local government of rivers state has arrested my little bro for damaging a lady car glass.. the issue now is i am told to pay the said lady the sum of 30000 naira and bail my bro for 5000 naira.. and this is exactly the amount i have with me left to use this Xmas.. please this kind of issue has been happening to me and i don't know if i came into this world illegally or what... right now i am confused if i should bail my brother or not as i would be left to nothing should i bail him out.. please nairalanders is there any spiritual help or something i can do to end this temptations ? any suggestions is welcome. thanks

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You better pay your rent first, even if you pay half of the rent. Unless you will go and squat with your brother or be thrown into the street. Use the balance to settle the police case to the extent that you can.