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TEXASGIRL:

Stunna one more thought, you are really overlooking the fact that we all have someone already chosen for us. You need to pray that you find THAT person instead of worrying about what color they are & their nationality.

tom28:

Even if u cant marry a naija girl you can at least try indian or south east asian girls.They also make better wives but be careful about marrying a white chick o! They are good for sex yes but they make horrible wives and besides you wouldnt want your kids to go through the stress of divorce.

Nelton:

This is the way I see it. White or black dosent really matter. However, there are 2 different background and culture in play here. A lot of black/naija brodas don't usually want to marry the white ladies because of the cultural difference. A good naija girl wud be submisive and tolerate all your shortcomings and wud want to stay with u forever, raise up kids and live happily ever. However the white woman might not want to tolerate you or put up with your shortcomings and might want to get out once she feels the marriage is not as she expected. However pls note that a said a good naija girl. Getting a good naija girl now becomes d issue. because if you fall into the hands of the wrong one u will wish you never ever got married. Also there are some white girls that can reall go the whole ten yards with you. Infact they behave like real african ladies and can take anything from u. The only problem however, is that for those of you who wish to come back home someday this may pose a real problem to em because majority of these white women cannot cope with the harsh realities of living in naija and of course we all know why. However if you do no intending relocating back to naija and you can get a nice white lady with some of these attributes listed above then I wud advise that u stick with them. because for real d possibility of finding a good naija girl is remote. Pls don't get me wrong there are very good naija girls, very good ones but because you are not on ground it might be difficult getting a good one. And pls don't marry by post cause u will end up shooting urself on d foot. In all these, the decision lies with U. You know wat u want and what u looking for, take your time to look, let no one pressurize u, its your life and they are not going to live it for u. Look hard u will find wat u need. Cheers.

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TEXASGIRL:

Tom28- Exactly how many white women have you dated or been married to? Why do white women make horrible wives? Ignorant comment.

$tunna:

well there, so u have a 99 % correct view of the reality of the situation i see, n thanks for going out of your way to give me your really highly considered views.

no white gril i have been with has ever left me becos i have a lot of the qualities they like in their white men but also being a black man for real n all that that means,

let me explain why: i used to be invited to an african food place here by my friend n when we get there, there would be so many naija men watching sports n eating all evening n drinking and arguing n shouting, k, n i would ask my friend, dont any of these men have girlfriends or wives, because i dont see any women here?? he would say, yes O - like himself, they r all married n have kids!! n i would then ask the next logical question, so where r the wives n kids while these people r here doing this??

, home alone was the answer!!

i would be shocked, because in my nature, if i was going to an african place, im bringing my wife n kinds and if we chose to go take a walk by the lake in the evening, everyone is coming too, it's just the way it should be, no one will be left at home alone while im out parting -its just wrong, n unfair! im well educated n have a very decent job n so far, my Xs have left only becos they mistake my not marrying em as lack of love, but it was not, it's just that i was not ready to marry then

now that i am ready to get married, the last thing on my mind is that a white woman wil leave me, its me who may leave actually n same with any naija gurl i may go home to bring, if she comes n try to cause me unnecessary stress, i tell her baby take it easy, baby take it easy, but she has her own agenda that does not include my happiness, it will not matter if she wants to stay with me -because i will leave her, period! u feel me?? lolz

so what i mean is that i sabi white girls because i understand em and im a super nice guy, n while i may visit naija, i have no plans to move there later unless thngs improve a lot more than they r now over there so that is not a problem

i have already talk to one or two naija gurls n they have no trust in a man, lies a lot over things that r not even important n they have made up their minds about life overseas n dont hear the things u say, which means they will be shocked if they get here n then turn around n try to blame the man who ends up bringing em here, but maybe those r the ones u mean by 'bad ones'

im gonna visit n see face to face n then make up my mind, im sure now thats the best option for me for now

THANKS TO ALL WHO CONTRIBUTED FROM THEIR HEARTS

Wislet:

Before i forget, be wary of some white ladies. The morality rate over there is very low. A culture that does not recognize God, Unless u're not a christian. If u are- be careful.

tom28:

Look at the high divorce rate among white couples in the USA
Take a look at the number of white moms in the USA who murder their kids
What of the white women who murder their husbands for the life insurance money
Or those ones who hire hitmen to wack off their hubbies

Wislet:

Before i forget, be wary of some white ladies. The morality rate over there is very low. A culture that does not recognize God, Unless u're not a christian. If u are- be careful.

677ano:

And women in Nigeria have better morals?

Wislet:

U're more likely to find a God fearing one. Yes. Not those that outrightly ridicule it. I don't know how u guys look before deciding on dating someone-wat with all de disaster stories. Big behind and all wat not is not wat a good wife entails! U men had beta start seeking God's face and BEING the kind of person u would like to meet. U can't be a player and hope for a miracle.

677ano:

What about Nigeria the women dont divorce or kill their husbands to inherit their wealth?

@OP save yourself a lot of problems and marry where you are based. If you are more comfortable with white women marry one than go and import a woman from Nigeria to come and give you grief within a few months of marrying one. Put your happiness and peace before skin color or origin.

Beync:

OP, from your thoughts u are more incline to the nature and culture of these wites you hav been with, except u r bein pressurize frm home to come home and marry otherwise u r somewat bias against the home girl dont get me wrong, your analysis seems to be in favor of the wites am not against dat, but u still not convinced they would make a good home hence the thought of going home which u are not conversant with their attitude according to wat u hav heard. like u lay more  emphases on race rather than individaul from how u said black will do this and wite would not do that, u might be right on your own, but for me, the attitude of an individual or a particular race is a product of nature, nurture enviroment and education etc. My point is, having been their, u'v adjusted and cool with wat is aroud u why settle with uncertainty, U may wish to consider wat Texas and Nelson has said cos they made some points.
Let me also tell u about my causin; he travled to England precisely, cos right from  time he has this passion to live over there. He married a wite girl who had two kids for him, It was all roses and successful for some years, they bought houses and all that thou he hasnt done any significant thing home. So do u know wat? On one occation, he had  arguement with the wife which heated so much dat he battered his wife and dat was the end of his success story over their. The wife being a citizen, charged him to the court, after somany charges against him, he was made to loose everything he has laboured for; house, cars and other properties and was even deported jus like dat and ever since i heard the shock from the whole darma is causing him to go gaga. Wat am i tryin to  say? their is drama everywhere less you forget, but it comes in different scenarios. All you need is to look before you leap so u dont fall into the scene.
Pray over everything, there is nothing God cannot do if u sincerely ask according to his will.

Jay_Bozz:

@stunna> from my perspective, i can relatively call u a "white man in black skin", cuz u've clearly naturalised with the whites or better put, "western way of life" cuz blacks too are included in this category. But u are afraid of the very short-comings of their own ways, how ironic! I suggest u marry what your used too so u dont have to deal with surprise packages or blame a 9ja girl for askin u cut off your dreads, cuz to her it may not be her way of life "yet" n will probably never be if she deems it a immature or uncultured manner of look.
Therefore i have to agree with Wislet where she said, "start BEING the kind of person u would like to meet"!!!

Jay_Bozz:

@stunna> from my perspective, i can relatively call u a "white man in black skin", cuz u've clearly naturalised with the whites or better put, "western way of life" cuz blacks too are included in this category. But u are afraid of the very short-comings of their own ways, how ironic! I suggest u marry what your used too so u dont have to deal with surprise packages or blame a 9ja girl for askin u cut off your dreads, cuz to her it may not be her way of life "yet" n will probably never be if she deems it a immature or uncultured manner of look.

Stunna.  bro . White women are more beautiful.    At least they have real hair

Not true. . black skin is the most beuatiful skin in the world.  .trust me i been up close and personal with all these hoes

If u really wanna know who is beautiful compare a 50yr old white woman,  with a 50yr old black lady. . .

plus real hair is overrated jo. . when i was wit white chicks,i was always bored to death with the hair

its either pony tail or shoulder length. . all of em,  lol

wit black chicks they had a new stryle every week lol,  always got the hair did. .

i love that. . .

paddy_lo:

Not true. . black skin is the most beuatiful skin in the world.  .trust me i been up close and personal with all these hoes

If u really wanna know who is beautiful compare a 50yr old white woman,  with a 50yr old black lady. . .

plus real hair is overrated jo. . when i was wit white chicks,i was always bored to death with the hair

its either pony tail or shoulder length. . all of em,  lol

wit black chicks they had a new stryle every week lol,  always got the hair did. .

i love that. . .

Princek12:

Why don't you marry oyinbo and Naija? That way you can have the best of both worlds. Hopefully you can afford the cost attendant to marrying two women. If not, heart attack or stroke na im go kill you.

Nayah:

Marry the woman you love, no matter her colour