Okortor:
Another simp, about to be scammed by one daughter of eve.

You better straf her ASAP.

That's how one girl told my guy same thing back then, not knowing she was knacking other guys, then we set her up as she hasn't met me before, I added up on fb, chatted n met in an hotel, just after taking pepper soup with yoghurt, the rest na history as I insisted we take pics while on bed though not naked just for my friend to confirm.

On getting home, I showed him all evidence, he cried uncontrollably and that was when I knew what's called "PREMIUM TEARS". LOL.

Xilsbridalhouse:

You know absolutely nothing young man. With time you’d come to understand.

The worth it is every good thing you can think of that comes from God. Yes, totally worth it! If she continued to obey God, she’d not just be a perfect wife for op, more blessings would abound and oh, I sense you are kinda jealous lol

You are jealous and envy the fact that someone can decide to keep themselves and wait because you can’t subject your own flesh and feelings under such and you try to console yourself that it isn’t worth it. It’s totally worth it mehnnnn!!!!

MrMacinterchi1:

I'm wondering what I might said that made you to think that I'm Jealous. it beats me seriously. be it as it may,
You sensed wrong. Saying no sex before marriage is not, in the real Sense of things , keeping ones self for any reason. It's pure tool your kind use for manipulation for some unfortunate men. a sexual active women who uses sex as a game to hold a man down to marriage is manipulation . Youu Know that.

Meanwhile, I may not know anything o to you, it's sure due to your lack of understanding.

God shows mercy to whom he chooses. it's not always Black and White, there are shades of grey around. You can never understand that, though you may try.

Kajaard:


Please don't tell him.

No time to advise SIMPS this year.

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

Xilsbridalhouse:
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Good, she is obviously a good girl hopefully.

I and my hubby didn’t even hug as well not to talk of sex and we courted for a long time. If we can do it, you can also do it with God’s help.

Remember, time flies really fast and before you know it, it is your wedding night. The wait would be worth it.

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

mignone:

God bless u&ur marriage sis. Same here; twas a strictly Christian courtship &I ddnt even know what his house looked like. To God's glory, we're waxing stronger X d day.
The devil has really eaten deep into this generation that 'everyone' believes dt courting is synonymous to marriage wch gives d liberty to have sex.

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

Acesexcell:
not at all my brother.

siofra:


I thank God for nairaland. He doesn't disturb me anymore. We're cool now.

Meanwhile he's not my crush

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

Xilsbridalhouse:

You call that manipulation ? Lol because you can’t get your way with a lady, she’s strict enough to say No to your demands but you try to guilt trip her by calling it manipulation? It might work for some gullible ladies but a lady who is well disciplined and would not compromise for any reason would read and see the deceit in your so called “Manipulation”
If he can’t deal with it, then he should move on! And how can you see the benefits of such when you are against it? Obviously you’d play a blind eye to whatever it is.

After sleeping with random men, with high body counts you lots will still shame her! I blame any lady that takes your type serious.

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

Mood11:

First tip; make sure she's not getting it elsewhere.

Why do I feel like she's about to scam and deceive you

AderonkeOlaniyi:
There are no tips to share to you. Just tell her that there will be no spending till after marriage. Case closed!

MrMacinterchi1:

ok it's all right. But, what about those ones that made up their mind to deal with it and end up getting played? and found out that they were deceived?

You see ,
I don't need to sugercoat the real situation to suit anyone. I figured that you did this with your husband and some how it worked out for you guys, that's great and I'm much glad that your man made a good deal out from it . However,it's a sad situation for lucky men that fell into the hands of devils in human form

some ladies use this as a scope to manipulate men that can't think straight again Because of so called Love. In these situations, they use it to hide dirty, shameful things from the man who will still find out after all the so called whatever is over ; then, the only reward (that you claimed that worth it ) for these men is disappointment and anger which will grow into grudge and resentment that will finally brake the home.

that's why I wished the guy the best so that the outcome will be favourable to him and not be a can of worms like most men had experienced.

Nevertheless,
The Only exception to this category of ladies are those who from the onset had a self decision within themselves ( either prompted by religious beliefs or personal decisions) to say NO to anybody they came across - this I agree with you and that's why most people are asking if the lady had been keeping herself or whether she's among those that will say yes to some and no to some (because of what they stand to gain or lose) - that's pure made).

However , I'm glad we are now having a conversation and reasoning. Things I present before you here are factual, and they are the basis of my conversation. this is getting too long a comment..

And, You do not know me ,or my so called type (as you put it). Please, don't accord such accolades to yourself, it makes me laugh.

Xilsbridalhouse:

I get your point though, this is why God must be involved before choosing a partner as the experience of marrying a wrong partner could ruin the person for life.

I’m just saying if she ticked all his boxes, not having sex shouldn’t be a problem. I believe op should know her better, but that doesn’t really makes her a good person or the right person for him still.

Anyways, God first and obeying His laws will benefit us all including saying No to pre-marital Sex.

MrMacinterchi1:

Thanks for your time Mrs and, take care of your husband.
Happy new year.

handsomeyinka:
I will recommend you to wait till you get married to her.

She may be a virgin or not but don't judge her based on her past..

Keep the faith in her,plan the future together,talk to her about financial responsibilities both of you will share when you eventually get married and finally pray together for Gods intervention.

You will definitely have sex with her as much as you want it once you guys get married.

Don't lose focus,Stay Focused!!.

God will surely see you through brother.

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.