donhackaz:

I wish you the best sir....

thanks Man

Nightaccountant:
Hmm. Tomorrow now gbam for front page you go see headline like " a nairalander discovers snake tattoos on just wedded wife kpekus"
Oga abeg na new year we dey ooo. To avoid long and sacarstic thread biko

marsup:
A friend once fell for this shit..... Met a girl, they agreed no sex till after the wedding.... He agreed because he was sheepishly in love....fast forward to the wedding night, dude was really excited.... Now according to his description, he said the lady told him to be very gentle as it's her first time, that alone blew his mind again, and he had tears in his eyes.... He was so gentle with the pre-intimacy and shit.....when it was time for the real deal, the rod went in unperturbed, it was free like a highway....bitch was still saying take it easy, it hurts. .
It's okay, if your girl has been around a lil bit, and decided to take a break, but saying you are a virgin, that's just mean.

Haha please

juniorstar:

Hmm..hope she has really kept herself..before she play u maga and say na exercise or sports or climbing bike make the edges dey rough.

alloy123:
A girl once told me she is a virgin and she will be like that till wedding is done...Oga, i told her that i can not buy such market that is hidden inside black bag..Before my very eyes i heard that she was living with a man before wedding was done...MAKE woman no take u do mugu in 2022. Open ur eyes well well

Lol that gender!

enonche85:
Sexual thoughts will always come to your mind, how you control it is what matters. Just as poster said, pray and read your Bible.

Also take a cold shower when e dey do you.

If very difficult BOSS sometimes I have to cry

Muhylonaire007:
Dem wan run you street ni ooo... Na so one person come here some days ago, lamenting how him wife take deceive am with no sex till marriage, after wedding nigga jam tattoo for her tooto your eyes go clear bro

fineboynl:
As a rugged and tested guy who was once in your shoe. My advice is mission aborted. I repeat mission aborted and return to base.

you should tag her before she turned him to maga

Bahamas95:
Don't make that mistake.
I met my current girlfriend a virgin and she told me same thing. I wasn't ok with it but I played cool to gain her trust first before I unleash my venom.....I knew deep down that she won't be able to resist me even as a church girl. I am very selective when it comes to women and I don't joke with anything that involves sex. I wanna see and taste what she got in between her legs to be very sure if am ok with it or not.......I don't wanna get married today and divorce tomorrow cos of sex related issues.

Bad boy what do you do that she can't resist you?

Nyascobar1414:


Or..their problem..
But ah go talk am again say..
Na mumu dey marry non virgin lady..

Imagine paying a million naira bride price for coochie wey guy use 2k chop..
Sense is far from such men.

Haha

jrusky:
Haaa girl of you dream? Pls how long have been on this forum young man that you are still falling for this type of fake old, girls antic to waste your time

I'm not saying turn her to sex machine but I heard this your statement last may be 15 or 20 years ago because when babe want to trap you and dump you at the very die minute you will hear them saying this nonsense.

Wake up young man seek matured experienced men advice. Good luck.

he has not been on nairaland and also read the redpill

Hassanmaye:
he has not been on nairaland and also read the redpill

This make no sense, sorry no offense.

Hassanmaye:

Bad boy what do you do that she can't resist you?

Nothing much, it's just that she is so fond of me and likes hanging out with me.

Whenever we ain't together she always keep in touch via calls/texts......Na from clap dem take dey enter dance. That was how our journey started.

See

PotatoSalad:
Ok. If you don't know your sexual compatibility now, you'll see shege during your marriage.
No use "no sex" gamble with your peace of mind.
Sex is the ultimate. Don't mind whatever anyone tells you cos they won't be there to help you when sexual incompatibility comes up in your marriage.



It's a very big deal. When you're not compatible sexually, you'll no longer find each other attractive. Love, care and affection dwindles. Trust becomes nonexistent. The house becomes cold. Only time you become chatty is when you're in the midst of other people. You insult and fight everyday (daily entertainment for your street people). You become less focused at work. You start eating outside. You start admiring the waiter that serves you everyday.
Your wife finds comfort in your neighbor who will be penising her in time.

ALL BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T DO WHAT IT DO BEFORE YOU GOT MARRIED.

So to you now, sexual compatibility is about size of the genitals and can you please tell the whole house of how fornicators have faired well in their Marriage?

Lemme tell you marriage is not built and maintain on sex but love, discipline and self control.

To the OP, You lose nothing by staying off premarital sex not because your girl said let keep ourselves but because you want to please God, your creator. I once dated a lady like that who we said we will abstain and she was getting it elsewhere. When I discovered, I left her with dignity.

Whether she is a virgin or not, the decision she has made is a good one and if you are responsible man, respect it or leave her to go and find her man.

Now to do it.

Be busy.

Stay away from any sex inducing acts, music, videos, books, environment, etc.

Fill your thoughts with the word of God.

With your girl, avoid any indoor meetings between only two of you.

Be prayerful.

hmmm what I hate hearing

If you'll care to listen to good counsel, follow the below.

Sex is worth waiting for. All these try before use counsels are not complaint with the human body as well as with God's instructions for mankind. Even if you were once sexually active, make a decision with her to never have sex before marriage, and find out each other's weak points and avoid them. It won't come naturally, but you can set boundaries & depend on God's grace. I speak from experience (3 sweet months into marriage & stayed chaste through courtship, don't mind all that nonsense about loveless marriages; what you look at is what you'll look like). Stop looking at negativity. You can do it. Chastity till marriage still works and is the way to go.

P.S. my wife and I have a series going on YouTube that can help you guys. Marriage is def worth it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOvz_Bu5-BI

Cheers.

Xilsbridalhouse:
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Good, she is obviously a good girl hopefully.

I and my hubby didn’t even hug as well not to talk of sex and we courted for a long time. If we can do it, you can also do it with God’s help.

Get closer to God, Meet at open places, do not accept private visits...devil is very tricky, try to control your mind and thoughts, feed your heart with the word of God, don’t masturbate, stay away from porn, stop admiring other ladies especially the ones who reveal so much. Remember, time flies really fast and before you know it, it is your wedding night. The wait would be worth it.

Hydronium:
If you'll care to listen to good counsel, follow the below.

Sex is worth waiting for. All these try before use counsels are not complaint with the human body as well as with God's instructions for mankind. Even if you were once sexually active, make a decision with her to never have sex before marriage, and find out each other's weak points and avoid them. It won't come naturally, but you can set boundaries & depend on God's grace. I speak from experience (3 sweet months into marriage & stayed chaste through courtship, don't mind all that nonsense about loveless marriages; what you look at is what you'll look like). Stop looking at negativity. You can do it. Chastity till marriage still works and is the way to go.

P.S. my wife and I have a series going on YouTube that can help you guys. Marriage is def worth it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOvz_Bu5-BI

Cheers.

nice one hydronium