Caleycash:
So they don't need psychiatric evaluation asking someone when he'll get married without even caring to know how you fare or if you are even living okay where you are coming from!?... actually one don't have to hate them just see them as stupid cus most people are actually stupid!

backbencher:


NO 4 is a very sensible question...as eating out can damage your pocket and savings well well, while cooking can save you money.

You may be paying for gas if you cook indoors as well as ingredients and so on, but the eatery you are eating out from is paying for gas plus rent, staff salaries, ingredients, staff welfare, building costs, repair costs, upgrading facilities cost, etc etc...

As for no3, there are many single people still doing things like studying or whose work involves them working at night. (No5 too ...some singles are working on Sundays or other holy days especially those in essential services. NTA once did a feature on a radio Nigeria worker who had missed Xmas for several years...work.)

Mizwalterz:
sorry to speak outside the topic..

but please I need to learn how to make money online.

I have a laptop, phone, and I love staying up late at night...

kokkubabboni421:
Una do just wake up Dey type rubbish
How is this relevant to the current state of the country
Oga OP if you nor get Wetin you wan talk Zukwanike

davibid:
The truth is 95% of human beings particularly Nigerians don’t like minding their business.

Robisky001:
What is the end point of this thread?

uncleck:

They're not stupid bro. It is your own emotions that is playing tricks with you. You expect them to care about your wellbeing? Do you equally care for their own wellbeing? We don't need to expect much from people. They show concerned enough by even asking you about settling down. Are you waiting for when they'll start asking you how much you're making? Lol. Did you equally do same to them? Everybody is suffering in this economy, so if someone is kind enough to ask after you in any aspect, be grateful

Caleycash:
Somethings are better left unsaid!... most times people you are asking when they are going to get married are also worried and pondering over it, no need emphasising on it, I see such as mockery sometimes not care!

Albert0011:
No 2 and 5 is so annoying.
Let someone still put me through how to make money online o.
Have been trying for the past one year but it hasn't paid me yet.

uncleck:

They mean no harm actually

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why don't you talk to people/why don't you have friends...what?that's how I wanna live not everyone loves the mental stress of talking too much..

Why are you always quiet...that's a very disrespectful question..it's just like saying why am I always talking...

Why are you homosexual.. what that's my personal life you don't pressure me with unnecessary questions...it's just like asking why are you straight?
Those points stated above are private questions that you should learn to avoid asking people....I had to say this before some uncultured beings would slide into my mention to insult me..

blaquebelle:
Hi. I've been observing your comments.I feel like you're lonely and battling some self esteem issues. I wish you all the best. Anyway, I think finding like minds would help you alot. Ciao

chatinent:
That one no dey pain but I can stomach all those questions without anger.

Wetin pain pass na if a party was thrown in the compound...and you are the only manchelor from the compound ....then after some photo shootouts, this kind of argument involves you: “no, no, you collect my phone back.”


At that moment, you go understand that no bi everything wey glitter bi golden morn.

Wizpa:
Questions that make people hate you (stupid questions to avoid as a bachelor)

1. When will you get a job: In a digital age where alot of businesses are online, people make 6-7 figures from there living room, this question would be appropriate if we were still living in an industrial age. Only unexposed people ask such kind of questions.

2. When will you get married: marriage is not meant for everyone and except you are ready to support financially, this topic should stay out of your lips. Getting married is one thing, staying married is another.

3. Why are you still awake by this time: while you are enthused about your 9-5, you won't expect someone else to be like you... most mental work is done in the midnight and the best decisions of ones life are made during times.

4. Why eat outside instead of cooking your food: we all know how expensive gas is in nigeria, how time consuming cooking can be, and the energy you put into it while still thinking of preserving the left overs except you have a fridge. Taking a stroll to your favourite canteen wont only save you time and energy but will get you a delicious meal.

5. Did you go to church or why didn't you go to church: Excuse me!!, serving God shouldn't be a routine but a willingness (from your heart). Times you feel energetic to go to church might be the time someone else needs to sort things out. Do not be self righteous/hypocritical.

Feel free to add yours

Albert0011:
No 2 and 5 is so annoying.
Let someone still put me through how to make money online o.
Have been trying for the past one year but it hasn't paid me yet.

AfroKnight:


These questions hit different when they come from dull, underachieving, dependent, broke women.

Na single we single. We no kee person.

ZAcevo:
5. When will the Vulture Griller have sense?

Clevybrown6465:

Try learning crypto currency trading and come thank me later

Lemmy123:


LOL, I'm still trying to understand this tho

tradepunter:


Baba I swear I nu understand ooo