tokunbo you don reah hia so

crazyp
99.9% of my pals are male .so you can imagine the wahala i have . some even make the illegal call to warn me . . but my replies . makes them regret picking up the fone to call me

wat rubbish . if you love ur BF trust him if you cant trust him then leave him

abi ooo

i personally get angry when babes say
they want to call or text their bf's friends (females)
cos they feel someting fishy is going on

what kind of insecurity is that

you guys never even hear the full jist.


the point is that the bitch sent me dat txt with my bf's number.





dats y im asking wat i shd do abt it.
my problem is not with the girl but with my bf.
tho he told me he doesnt have anything to do with the girl and dat the girl probably sent the txt when he wasnt aware.



wat should i do

hi, i love this topic. i have the same problem but am abit confused ! i am dating this guy who is supposed to be divorced. A few weeks ago, his "wife" called me and started crying. She told me i can have her "husband" that she is tired but she told me some very shocking stuffs like: the guy beats her , he is rude to her parents, he is irresponsible etc. Whenever i think abt it i always feel sad. Anyway, i have stopped picking his calls. I hope i did d right thing.

hi otuwe, , i am sorry to say this but i think ur bf is not telling u the truth. How did she have access to d phone if they were nt 2geda?

i concur

I think Temmy is right, your guy is just lying to u about having nothing to do with the girl anymore Or what explanation could he possibly have for that? (she was typing the msg on his phone when he wasnt looking, busy doing what and where?)

As for Temmy, I feel for you but I think its better U make hay while the sun is still shining, look for a better match

Peace

he said he was hanging out at his friend's place and that the guy's girlfriend brought this particular girl with her. that she must have used the fone when he dropped it to jist with his friends or wen he was sleeping




but the bigger jist is


i got that txt by 11pm.

and she even called me with the same number by 12.30am



[size=18pt]am in trouble[/size]

real big trouble!!!

one fact is sure, ur guy is lying about something

or ur being punk'd

hi girl,

         I feel u!  run as fast as u can. d guy is bleeped and notting good can ever come from him.
          married men are bad news, cos he belongs to another woman. u cant be happy, forget him

yeah right , he was in his friends hse!! asleep!!!!! Na so . for the girl to have called u? Hmmmmmm, there is more to it.

crazyp:

real big trouble!!!

one fact is sure, your guy is lying about something

i agree with u

but one thing i know for sure is dat he is not cheating on me (i am too sure)


but what i dont know is what he is lying about

Otuwe

i thot you were talking of your male pal's Gf sending you a text

i didnt know you meant ur own

chei!!! this one is hard o . .

But why would u even get near a guy who's taken? Even if he was not married but has a girlfriend, he's a no go area

why musnt she?

if a guy trusts himself and his girl, then he can be close pals with a girl . my best pal is Male o and no hard feelings from any girl . lai lai . .if she try . . she sabi me well well

mukina2:

why musnt she?

if a guy trusts himself and his girl, then he can be close pals with a girl . my best pal is Male o and no hard feelings from any girl . lai lai . .if she try . . she sabi me well well

If na u nko

u go gree make ur bobo get close female friend??

@Otuwe

pls create a thread for this. . . I need to give u some knocks

@White

ssup?

yes . . let him carry go its no biggie . he has  his female pals  i have my male pals . at the end  of the day trusts matters the most

kitaun:

@Otuwe

please create a thread for this. . . I need to give u some knocks

@White

ssup?

I dey jare, how ur side?

mukina2:

yes . . let him carry go its no biggie . he has his female pals i have my male pals . at the end of the day trusts matters the most

You go just kill the poor boy with only one flash of ur eyes Jealousy dey affect man seriously - na woman own worse sef

for where abeg . everyone has their life jare

kitaun:

@Otuwe

please create a thread for this. . . I need to give u some knocks

if i remember correctly the poster is looking for who to jist with her/him so am giving the person jist. i wonder y u want to give me some knocks

mukina2:

Otuwe

i thot you were talking of your male pal's Gf sending you a text

i didnt know you meant your own

chei!!! this one is hard o . .

yes its hard. i dont know the girl but she claims she is the new girl in my b/f's life

whitelexi:

But why would u even get near a guy who's taken? Even if he was not married but has a girlfriend, he's a no go area

its the girl dat is coming near my guy not the other way round. i wud never go near a ''taken'' i dont know y someone is coming near my own

she sent me another txt last nyt and said the reason my b\f cut d fone the other time was not because he was sleeping as he told me but because she was there with him

now im totally confused cos i dont know how she got to know dat he cut my call in the first place


pls somebody hellllllllllllppppp

Otuwe,

there's certainly no need crying over this,
its obvious ur guy is cheating
but if u feel otherwise,
y dont u go to his house & find out things urself
or better still, sit him down & sort it out
i dont like a sister crying over a man
makes me very sad,

crazyp:

Otuwe,

there's certainly no need crying over this,
its obvious your guy is cheating
but if u feel otherwise,
y don't u go to his house & find out things yourself
or better still, sit him down & sort it out
i don't like a sister crying over a man
makes me very sad,

thanks girl.

the point is he is not in lagos right now dats y all this problem is coming.
but we wud definitely talk things thru when he comes back

i guess its really not necessary to cry right now cos i dont have all the details

but come to think of it, is there any guy that will admit that he is seeing someone else. so wat are we going to sort out by the way

anyway thanks y'all for ur concerns i really appreciate it

Otuwe
do you trust your boyfriend?

mukina2:

Otuwe
do you trust your boyfriend?

yes
i don't have a problem with him
the person i have a problem with is the girl.

you know desperate girls can do anything to get what they want.


but hey, he just sent me a text now

am sorry 4 all this. notin much 2 say. would u let me sort  out all this. i was wrong i now know the genesis of d whole thing. still love u and forever

what do you think

Otuwe
your story reminds me of one of my male pals GF
that girl is trouble

anyway me thinks if you love him and trust him like you said . why not let ur trust rule .
the girl is trying to unsettle you and its working . act like you do not care . trust me it will work the girl knows she's gettin to you . reason she's stil ldoing it . act like you dont care

mukina2:

anyway me thinks if you love him and trust him like you said . why not let your trust rule .
the girl is trying to unsettle you and its working . act like you do not care . trust me it will work the girl knows she's gettin to you . reason she's stil ldoing it . act like you don't care

THANKS

but the fact is dat if this girl had sent me those txts with her fone i wud have just laffed and continued with my life. but all the txts she sent came thru my guy's fone. they were about 8 txt messages. dont u think this is akward. and the guy tells me he knows nothing about it.

anyway right now, am at work and am trying so hard not to let this bother me. am just waiting for him to come back and we wud talk things thru once and for all.

cheers everyone.

Like i said before . do not let her know it bothers you .even if she used your BF's Fone .

@Otuwe

why u dey deceive urself?

ur boyfriend is a cheat

MOVE ON B4 ITS 2 LATE!

wont mind been ur gistin friend so wot means do we jist ie via yahoomsgr, text msg or how?

kitaun:

@Otuwe

why u dey deceive yourself?

your boyfriend is a cheat

MOVE ON B4 ITS 2 LATE!

Move on to where?!!!
when she has not heard what the guy has to say
its advisable to hear from d guy first before moving on

@ Otuwe

Pls concentrate on ur work for now
till he comes back to explain things to you
and i still maintain that if u re not down with the explanations
then you can decide what to do pls
so cheer up girl, ok?