ChizzyBuna:

Nobody in this life is perfect. Im young and still have a lot to learn . This situation can happen to anybody. Its not a laughing matter

imagine if they make u the MD now that is how u will take the banging into the boardroom.

this thing that u have been doing is very wrong, inside the office is even more worrisome and shocking. Now u have learnt your lessons. Next time focus on your work, avoid gazing at boob, butt & face, instead gaze at your work.

ChizzyBuna:
Now here is the real issue
As of today i told her that i saw her name on sack list. It didn't go well with her
She has accused me of using her to climb to get new position at work.
She is now threatning to expose all our flings and affairs to my uncle who is the M.D.
She swore that i cant be promoted and she be sacked. That if they will sack her then they must sack me too.

She said i should defend her like i did last year or else she will expose our office sex and flings to M.D
And if i defend her, that my uncle will definitely suspect and he might demote me or sack me. He is a tough disciplinary man. I have seen him sack his closest allies.
I do r know what to do. I havent eaten since afternoon. My mind is not at rest

you cannot defend her yet u went ahead to tell her. You should have waited till after the sack and promise to reinstate her when ur uncle come back.
And besides there is nothing wrong with having an affair with someone in same office. If ur uncle knows and sacks you so be it. Heaven will have it that you were sack for keeping to the commandment.

All these family business job sef... They hire and fire at will for flimsy things. Na wa

How did you use her to get ahead at work?


You shouldn't have told her she was about to be fired based on what she did to a senior colleague.


Pretend you tried begging on her behalf but you didn't succeed based on her past behaviour.




Don't tell your uncle Yet that both of you are lovers.


Steer clear from her o!

Hmmm

ChizzyBuna:

Both my uncle and wife are not on nairaland. So its safe to bring this topic here

Chibuzor! I am your uncle and i am here on Nairaland. Who told you I am not on Nairaland? That girl must go, if you like follow her

what type of company does your uncle own?

This is why I cannot hire family members. Instead of you to focus on what you are there to do. You are forming owners nephew to start sleeping with employees. If this uncle does not hire you now, you will be cursing your rich uncle who never helped you.

The useless girl probably has assurance that she was sleeping with you to always save her job. Hence probably not doing her job well. Probably cost your uncle business or money too. Which is why he has tried to sack her twice. I hope you are exposed and sacked. So that in future when you are given an opportunity, you face your job.

ChizzyBuna:
I had a fling with one of my work friends.
She lives 15 mins apart from my area
We have been having sex for over a year
She is a good friend.

Long story short, i was given promotion at work. My job is one of the hardest.
I'm in charge of recurring new workers and im the one that submit the names of those who will be sacked.
The M.D is my uncle and he trust me so much

Today i opened a file and saw this girls name on list of people to be sacked.
I have to submit it and prepare their letters.
I have defended her when my uncle wanted to sack her last year.
If i defend her again, my uncle will suspect im having fling with her. He almost caught us kissing so he is suspicious
If my uncle find out, he might sack me.
He sees me as an angel and i want to keep that reputation. So i can become M.D

modified
For those asking why they want to sack her
Last year, during staff meeting. She kind of challenged a senior collegue's idea infront of everybody, the man was not having it. It caused a riff between them. Since then the man has been trying to sack her. Based on he is my uncles alley.
I defended her privately to my uncle. They didnt sack her..
Last year my uncle annouced that he will be going to uk for hip surgery.
His wife has taken over as of January.
Maybe the wife has a hand in this. 
And i cant ask her why..

Both my uncle and wife are not on nairaland. So its safe to bring this topic here

Use her for money rituals

VeeVeeMyLuv:
imagine if they make u the MD now that is how u will take the banging into the boardroom.

this thing that u have been doing is very wrong, inside the office is even more worrisome and shocking. Now u have learnt your lessons. Next time focus on your work, avoid gazing at boob, butt & face, instead gaze at your work.

He will sabotage the business by paying runs girls from company purse. And hiring dumb women he is fucking into sensitive positions. He will also not do business with competent people but only those he can take advantage of with sex. This is how such people start. The earlier the uncle sacks him, the better for his business if he wants it to grow.

I smell lies, i smell you cooked up this trend so as to gain traffic from people asking you to help them secure a job and then scam them.

You are a suspect

ChizzyBuna:
Now here is the real issue
As of today i told her that i saw her name on sack list. It didn't go well with her
She has accused me of using her to climb to get new position at work.
She is now threatning to expose all our flings and affairs to my uncle who is the M.D.
She swore that i cant be promoted and she be sacked. That if they will sack her then they must sack me too.

She said i should defend her like i did last year or else she will expose our office sex and flings to M.D
And if i defend her, that my uncle will definitely suspect and he might demote me or sack me. He is a tough disciplinary man. I have seen him sack his closest allies.
I do r know what to do. I havent eaten since afternoon. My mind is not at rest

It's your word against hers, let her do her worst.



PS: you no get senior men for area?.

uthlaw:
there is different between friends of benefit and relationship... She can't take him down,because, office work is different from home work!

It's his word against hers. Let her go ahead and say whatever she wants. He stated they live close to each other, so he has alot to defend himself with already.

MrBrownJay1:
then sit the girl down and let her know that she is about to be sacked.....and pray to god that she doesnt drag you along!

rule of life #23: DONT SHIIT WHERE YOU EAT!

That has always been my mantra: NEVER YOU SHIT WHERE YOU EAT

1. Don't date a colleague in the same office
2. While in school don't date a fellow classmate
3. For those that go to church: don't date someone in the same church you go to
4. For those renting, don't date someone living in the same compound as you.

It never ends well.

If you've ever opened 48law of power

You should have kept silence




You should even be grateful for riding off an entangled office romance that's really threatening your carea


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That reminds me something,

She challenged a senior Ally hoping you'll be there to save


Giving your oversize assignment

She failed the rule,

Though only God knows what you told her before she opens her thing....

You aren't that a responsible dude

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aq05fQ21Pxk

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ChizzyBuna:
Now here is the real issue
As of today i told her that i saw her name on sack list. It didn't go well with her
She has accused me of using her to climb to get new position at work.
She is now threatning to expose all our flings and affairs to my uncle who is the M.D.
She swore that i cant be promoted and she be sacked. That if they will sack her then they must sack me too.

She said i should defend her like i did last year or else she will expose our office sex and flings to M.D
And if i defend her, that my uncle will definitely suspect and he might demote me or sack me. He is a tough disciplinary man. I have seen him sack his closest allies.
I do r know what to do. I havent eaten since afternoon. My mind is not at rest

Bro this is a very minor issue only if and only if you are still single...!!

Now here is the real deal since she has said her mind because at this point in time, who gets to your uncle first matters a lot...!! Be a master planner and work everything to your favour, call your uncle if he's not in town and open up to him, of he's around, meet him facially and open up to him as well, you can tell him that she somehow knew a sack was coming and she seduced you into sleeping with her just to save her Job and you sheepishly fell for her gimmicks, apologize to your uncle and tell him you will accept whatever decision he decides to take after this confession...!!

Now your uncle been a principled man will ask you why you are telling him this at this point, simply say you tired and feeling guilty for defending an incompetent fellow and she's always using the sex into blackmailing and guilt-trapping you into doing what you ought not to do...!! If your Uncle really trust and likes you the way you analysed yourself, you will receive a minor query, then when the b*tch comes to deliver her version, she will look stupid in front of everyone...!!

This might not go the way I stated it, but it's definitely one of your surest bet and remember "who opened up first, matters a lot"

But comrade...!! if you are married already and cheated on your wife... hehehehehe, All powers belongs to you...!!

Your co- worker is not your friend, let her go home.

Immorality every where

Legally she can sue for harassment even though the relationship was consensual. It will be a legal battle that will drag you and the organization, she can argue that the she is getting sacked for not being in a relationship anymore.

Moral of the story, stop sleeping with people at work, lines can get blurry

See why we dont mix business with pleasure? Hian!

All these wahalas because of dry pussy.... Your village has picked your call. Please answer.

ChizzyBuna:
She called later and was apologizing saying that she said all those things out of shock. That if they sack her she will have no choice than to go back to her village in Ebonyi.
As in i love the babe ohh but this matter is too complex for me.

She no smart, oh, she knows she's going back to the village and yet she openly challenged her senior...!! She ought to know you don't openly counter someone like that, instead, you profer a better opinion, and YES it can only happen because her senior is offering her preeqs...!! This is more reason I always tell niggas not to sink their stuff in anyhow hole but they no dey hear word...!!

May my preeq never put me into trouble...IJN, AmennNn...!! X3

ChizzyBuna:

My Uncle is a core RCCG member
He always preach to us to stay away from pre marital sex and see me as a good innocent church guy. If this girl reveal our chats to my uncle. Im finished.

Promise her to take care of her and find a new job for her if she'll be patient without.
Use money to shun her for some while.
After some month she'll be gone.

She can'tcome back to even blackmail you. Just give her assurance for now

Sack the animal now. Rule no 32: Never call an enemy friend.

Slynation:

She no smart, oh, she knows she's going back to the village and yet she openly challenged her senior...!! She ought to know you don't openly counter someone like that, instead, you profer a better opinion, and YES it can only happen because her senior her offering her preeqs...!! This is more reason I always tell niggas not to sink their stuff in anyhow hope but they no dey hear word...!!

Lol if i'm to have anything to do withelady . I do maintain my respect oh!
Once she's been rude i go change am 4 am.
Na yanch i yanch pesin pikin no mean sey we don turn mate

To all dudes on here, avoid office romance. Irrespective of how mature and sweet and beautiful she appear, flee from office romance. . . e get why!!!

You sure say nor be our office for after dowen college u Dey report from.

ba careful bro..someone that can join the dots can stumble across this thread. Keep your business of the internet.

tollyboy5:

Lol if i'm to have anything to do withelady . I do maintain my respect oh!
Once she's been rude i go change am 4 am.
Na yanch i yanch pesin pikin no mean sey we don turn mate

Lol...ah dey tell you

Do everything possible to ensure she wasn't sacked. She can go beg that senior she insulted and you can interview for her sake. After that incident I know she didn't offend that senior again . But is bad to keep into intimidating a worker simply cos the senior has got upper hand and link to company owner .go and visit that senior and let him see the need to give her a second chance except that senior wants something from her

It's only a mere threat... She can't tell everyone or your uncle that you've been sleeping with her.. Though you leaked a confidential information... Reason most organisations frowns at relationships that may compromise your work ethics. If he sacks you, you deserve it for leaking that information. What were you even thinking of when you told her that.