It's possible masturbation made you fail because some of the key things masturbation affects is your education, finances, relationship, health and spiritual life.

Instead of you to be up there, you'll be on the ground, in the mud actually, struggling to make progress in life. What you ought to have achieve in 2 years, It will take you 1 million years to achieve.

My advice for you is to not give up. Hold on to Christ. Become prayerful. Yes pray violently if you need to all the time.

It's a stubborn habit that you can't break on your own because it is a stronghold that satan has planted in your mind, and there are most likely demonic forces working to make sure you never come out of it. They main aim is to destroy you, your destiny specifically. Never give up brother. The devil mustn't win. you can be free because Christ has done it already on the cross.

Juanmike:
Tell me na

Mouth non go let me talk them. I can't explain at all.. Bro,I have even decided to the encourage somebody to stop.. When the sides effects come nan the person go stop.

Jacking and failing are two different things
If you Jack and you no rread, how you wan pass?

Help2020:

Mouth non go let me talk them. I can't explain at all.. Bro,I have even decided to the encourage somebody to stop.. When the sides effects come nan the person go stop.

Tell me na, make I learn

I masturbated for 19 years, by the mercies of God I stopped it 11years ago,

Thank you JESUS.

Everyone has a past.

Take decision now bro and let Masturbation be a thing of the past.

God bless you.

It's a problem most creative and curious teenager encounter. You kind of built a reward system for your brain already. You can't change that but you can control it. My simple method for controlling the pleasure of self. Deliberately woe babies to get them laid in the shortest time. If you are on one and the urge still persist you go for another this time more difficult. You won't only kill masturbation but you'll concoquer rejection.
When you no longer have strength for sexual activities but only your goals then you are truely free.

I feel ur pain bro, but u can't quite all by ur human efforts no one has done it like dat, u can only quite when u are hit by the supernatural power of Christ. I don't know whether u are born again? Jesus is the only one that can put a stop to it. Give ur life to him and continue to study his word, and also do away with anything u know is a tool for masterbation ur mind need divine change. On Jesus can change u and stop every addiction just give it a try and see!

Onelove508:


And why do u think he wasn't motivated enough to study; why was he slow and lazy to study?

If you Masturbate, once, twice... a day, it leaves you lazy and depressed for the rest of the day. The act of mastubating also consumes precious time he would have used to study.

OP knows what he is saying.

Are you guessing or speaking from experience?
Because op nor talk all dis one u dey talk so.

If Someone Like Me Can Quit Betting Entirely

There Is No Bad Habit Of Any Kind Someone Cannot Quit Unless You Are Not Yet Ready To Quit

I Was Once A Suicide Punter

I feel your pain brother but do not give up for God loves you and He understands what you are going through.
Masturbation is demonic and it is one of the end time gimmicks of the devil to rid the Children of God off the path of their glorious destinies. It takes spiritual approach to overcome the menace For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Eph 6:12.
1. You have to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. John 3:3.
2. Ask for God's mercies and pray to God to create in you a clean heart just like David did. Psalm51:10.
3. Dedicate your life to God and the advancement of His kingdom. Mathew 6:33; Exodus 23:25; Job 36:11.
4. Make a vow never to go near anything that will trigger the urge to masturbate. 2Chronicles 15:12-15
5. Create time for reading and meditating on the word of God daily . Joshua 1:8.
4. Read spiritual books authored by renowned men of God. 1Timothy 4:13
5. Fast often. Mat 17:21;
6. Pray always. 1Thessalonians5:16-18

It is well with you.

These children can’t pass ordinary JAMB yet them go litter Nairaland dey debate politics with their elders.

Op Dm let's talk the way out if you are humble and willing to be led.

For those that said it will not make him fail jamb.
Now pay attention to this.

Sins of immortality attract spirit demons, spirit spouse that cast limitations on the victims life. It will be difficult for such persons to progress in life.

Failures, stagnation, close doors are the attributes of such person's life.




If any one is in this category and are willing to come, still Dm.

Only Jesus can save.

Indispensable85:
Yes masturbation is not a good thing but that's not why you failed jamb. You didn't read that's why.

Hello everyone i am writing as a witness to this because this act can lead to brain fog and loss of concentration even when u decide to study there would be something to distract u that's y u should desist from it or quit if u have been doing it because u would lose your concentration and even your beauty cos this act causes aging

Dreytonisback:


You they yan about smoking weed all the time I just dey look u
Las Las ur type no fit smoke hellfire when it's time to
Dey try calm down for nonsense capping , everybody know the real smokers for here.

Holly Gram


AMABOBI u BETTER DISEMBARK from dat CAPIN..


Bcus if ME n U JAM...



U no go FIT STAND 2sc...



hold ur SELF b4 u ENTER main MARKET...


although me and u No de to BANTER words..


Na ADVISE i give PESIN...


I NO kill PESIN...


WTF MAN

greatness77:
dat means u dont have d spirit of GOD, d first day i did it hmm i cried so bitterly feel sooo dirty, its a sin and it affects dopamine

yeah it affects dopamine but making you feel stupid or useless is a misstatement..

anewchapter:
imagine say masturbation go make me forget say A is for apple the guy na olodo

Emmajean!!!

okpaire2005:
Hello everyone i am writing as a witness to this because this act can lead to brain fog and loss of concentration even when u decide to study there would be something to distract u that's y u should desist from it or quit if u have been doing it because u would lose your concentration and even your beauty cos this act causes aging

I repeat masturbation is bad but that's not why he failed his exams. My course mate in school then made a first class and he was a steady masturbator. But he stopped it since he got married. He's presently a lecturer in the school we graduated from. He was retained. The op nor first know book before jooor.

Totilopussylick:
A certain pastor condemned masturbation, calls it sins of the flesh before God .

So try do research before you encourage someone to not feel guilty after masturbating .

Go through the bible if at all you have one .

You guys should stop giving wrong advice to the wrong people. Advice becomes worthwhile when it matches a person life style and belief system. You mention God and pastor to a semi atheist, of what importance is it to him?

The best way of engaging people is through their own belief system and lifestyle.

waploger:


yeah it affects dopamine but making you feel stupid or useless is a misstatement..

a miss statement for his own feelings. Is it your feeling. Naija and their imposition spirit.

oyetunjibaba:


Sorry to ask o!
Are you a male or female?

Female, and so?

Just try and fight cause it nut good....

Just 5yrs
While most people are doing 20yrs anniversaries
You still have a chance to stop but as for jamb, don't blame masturbation ....coconut brain

gabpaul:

Because they don't have conscience.. gender that met with the Devil one on one

Do u knw I stayed with a gal that masturbates virtually everyday, even if I fùck her she no de ever satisfy. Na so she go shamelessly use her hand Begin fire herself

KingDash:
cow say na masturbating make am fail jamb

Language Bro. We all got that one thing we are trying to deal with. You don't have to make him feel more dejected.

Semiaddict:
initially i fell for the trick of people trying to make masturbation look good.

I tried on my own to quit masturbation and the most I've gone is a month. I've been masturbating for almost 5 years now and I'm sick and tired of going back to my own vomit,anytime i finish masturbating i feel stupid and useless.

Masturbation has affected my brain capacity i failed jamb last year and I'm about to rewrite, I think quitting this dangerous addiction of mine is a good start.

Quitting porn couldn't help,
I'm alone i just feel the urge. Anytime i see a woman i only see them as sex objects,even masturbating to some family members which i one of the reasons i feel so dirty.
I need help.

Imagine. Masturbation made you to fail jamb. There's nothing we won't hear

Totilopussylick:
pastor a spirit
No wonder pastor Righteousness22 vanished from Nairaland

lol. he didn't vanish. he changed his moniker to Righteousness2

If you really need help, reach out to this number on WhatsApp: 08139457193

I've sent you an email. Do well to contact me if you desire to be free. Jesus can deliver you.

NOwazobia:
a miss statement for his own feelings. Is it your feeling. Naija and their imposition spirit.

no but jerking off shouldn't make you feel stupid and useless.... unless he is an introvert.

Indispensable85:




I repeat masturbation is bad but that's not why he failed his exams. My course mate in school then made a first class and he was a steady masturbator. But he stopped it since he got married. He's presently a lecturer in the school we graduated from. He was retained. The op nor first know book before jooor.

no vex oh but how are you sure he stopped masturbating.