superCleanworks:
this story was sent in from where to where?

Or you just cooked up one story to keep Nairaland busy.

pozehnani:


Everybody is not a dog, please.

He needs solution to his problem. not a damage to his life and Marriage.

allanphash7:
No woman hate sex, she doesn’t love you ni

Pls the best way to handle this issue is , 1 she stressed her self much. And give pocket money. And try to love her more because. Broken will make her libidos go low. , create time for her , in 5 year you have 3 kids no gap.





Even if she hates it love is sacrifice my brother

arthurwillia:
Omo me wey be say na virgin I wan marry like this nko

shakespere:
When a woman has children things are different. Been married for 17 years and have experienced this . House chores and the kids, plus her own job is enough to kill her, sex is the least on the agenda, and easily see the husband as selfish. He does not go through same thing. She has lost her mojo, threatening her with side chick is not the answer, she does not care.

Man should help her with the kids - home work, bathing, getting them to bed, cooking, washing etc. Create the atmosphere for her to want to, give her free time, rest time, me time, take her out, let her rest whilst you and the kids cook during weekend, massage her leg, tell her kids words, show appreciation- it is toasting her all over again. This thing can be really frustrating for women, and make them intolerant, untop, if you dont have money and she is the one working her ass off to take care of the family!

Little by little, she will change. Call her before you come home, buy food istead make she cook, tell her there will be show tonight, rest o, no give me story, bring her gifts, sebi thats what we do for side chicks, who dont do all the laborious things, so they always ready.

I have done this and she came around, i get it more regular now. Side chikcs is not the answer, safe money for old age income o

peacettw:
Most women enjoy sex if they are treated right by their husbands.

You can't expect her to be stressed out all day and then suddenly be in the mood when you want it.

Secondly, if she's not wet then sex will most certainly be painful. Do you believe in fore play at all? Or is it just bam-wham thank-you-mam?

You already have 5 kids which begs the question, is she on any contraceptives? The fear of having her another child may make her reluctant to have sex with you.

Finally, are you a selfish lover? Is the exercise just solely for your sexual pleasure with no consideration for hers?

There are several reasons why she may not be in the mood. Begging her every night is simply not the solution here. You need to get to the root of the problem and nip it squarely on the bud.

Best of luck

Botking:
He should discuss with her about taking a second wife, Then see how she will change quickly

uthlaw:
or he take second wife....as easy as that!

Botking:
He should discuss with her about taking a second wife, Then see how she will change quickly

TuFab:

Oyo is your case

ukaface:
yes, if you want to put it that way

pozehnani:


Everybody is not a dog, please.

He needs solution to his problem. not a damage to his life and Marriage.

EdiskyHarry:
After reading this,
My bank account has been credited with 5k. Thank you.

shakespere:
When a woman has children things are different. Been married for 17 years and have experienced this . House chores and the kids, plus her own job is enough to kill her, sex is the least on the agenda, and easily see the husband as selfish. He does not go through same thing. She has lost her mojo, threatening her with side chick is not the answer, she does not care.

Man should help her with the kids - home work, bathing, getting them to bed, cooking, washing etc. Create the atmosphere for her to want to, give her free time, rest time, me time, take her out, let her rest whilst you and the kids cook during weekend, massage her leg, tell her kids words, show appreciation- it is toasting her all over again. This thing can be really frustrating for women, and make them intolerant, untop, if you dont have money and she is the one working her ass off to take care of the family!

Little by little, she will change. Call her before you come home, buy food istead make she cook, tell her there will be show tonight, rest o, no give me story, bring her gifts, sebi thats what we do for side chicks, who dont do all the laborious things, so they always ready.

I have done this and she came around, i get it more regular now. Side chikcs is not the answer, safe money for old age income o

ukaface:
I wan ask question o
Please at what stage do men stop being sex starved?

Mjanee:

Why didn't u test b4 marriage